The Death Grip

[The Mechanic]

I want to chime in, i've had PE my entire life (still do to some extent) and never really last more than 5 minutes. Sometimes i have spasms upon penetration and have to pull out. I believe its due to my increased sensitivity and over arousal. I HAVE however noticed i last considerably longer after doing a jelq routine so that got me thinking about maybe there is a connection there somewhere. I have been doing the death grip daily now for two weeks and had sex for the first time in about a month with a considerably tight woman (which was nice) and i couldn't cum!!! I lasted 20 minutes which is an eternity for me. I DID however notice that i couldn't hold an erection very well though which leads me to believe i did a bit of damage, so i need to find a good balance i think.

I did the death grip routine dry with and without porn for about 20 minutes per session daily if that helps anyone. I might throw in some lube to see how that works too.

 

[nibbles]

I tried the death grip for the first time and need some help. After looking through the thread it seemed that the guys that struggled to ejaculate didn't use lube so i attempted it without lube.

The first thing i noticed was the fact my erection wasn't as hard as it normally is and i kept having to stop for a few seconds every other minute to allow blood to flow so it got harder. At 20 minutes of going at it i lost my erection entirelt and couldn't continue with stimulation.

Is this because my grip was too hard or what :/ any help would be great

 

[nibbles]

Also my penis feels a bit sore now but i suppose as my skin get tougher it won't be so bad

 

[Pegasus]

You have increase grip strength a lot and your penis found the change a bit much . Might be an idea to take it easy for a day or 2.

 

[Fantersam]

I dont get as hard as before after masturbating with death grip for a while. Why does this happen? I dont want to suffer ED.

 

[Smu]

It's only because your penis is not so easy to affect with by physical stimulation after doing the death grip for a while.

 

[Fantersam]

I dont understand you. What do you mean?

 

[Smu]

Well, if you masturbate with a light grip, it doesn't desensitize your penis, so you get good quality erections easier.
But when you masturbate with a tight grip, your penis desintizes over time and it will become harder for you to get good quality erections.

 

[Fantersam]

It will become harder but its still possible?

 

[Smu]

Of course it is possible, remember to keep up a good kegel/RK routine, and otherwise a healthy lifestyle for good blood circulation and don't go over the top with Death Grip and you will be fine.

 

[Pegasus]

I had good eq the entire time I had de . I think there is a conditioning factor.

 

[Smu]

Yup and of course it plays into role how mentally aroused you are and performance anxiety plays a role aswell.

 

[spanky]

I have a theory also that people get super sensitive and involuntary spasms BECAUSE of the light touching and grips. And this goes back to my strong belief in that the most intense training, IS the best training. If you train your penis with light touches, it reacts hypersensitively to light touches(like a soft sensual vagina), and if you train your penis to get used to intense, rough, pressure, then THAT is what it's gonna react to. And if your penis, over time, is trained to always recieve intense pressure.... when a soft light pressure vagina is introduced, that penis will last long because it is not getting the sufficient tough pressure it NEEDS and is used to.

All very interesting. I might suggest iit's not so much the grip that's in play, rather it's the intensity of stimulation, which is why edging helps over time too since you get used to more intense levels. For instance I had the most intense head last month I was shouting with pleasure, but still not hitting PoNR against my will. It's taken me 18 months to get there (thank you body, you're the best ), during which time no death grip was involved, rather just a lot of effort to get familiar with high levels of stimulation. My thought is that it's all different sides of the same coin.

 

[spanky]

I had good eq the entire time I had de . I think there is a conditioning factor.

We may be saying the same thing. I agree.

Yup and of course it plays into role how mentally aroused you are and performance anxiety plays a role aswell.

Definitely. Work on all of it, PreE people.. I think it's a vain hope that you can target just the precise area that needs work like a magic bullet.

 

[MarcusHa]

For the ones suffering from erection issues after trying the death grip...

What do you think about alternate strokes when Edging, like: 10 lighter strokes and 3 death grip ones? That way you allow blood to get back into your penis and with time you may want to do 10/5 or more if you feel confortable.

Why not trying it?

 

[JamesMonroe]

Of course it is possible, remember to keep up a good kegel/RK routine, and otherwise a healthy lifestyle for good blood circulation and don't go over the top with Death Grip and you will be fine.

Exactly, that's the key.

 

[JamesMonroe]

All very interesting. I might suggest iit's not so much the grip that's in play, rather it's the intensity of stimulation, which is why edging helps over time too since you get used to more intense levels. For instance I had the most intense head last month I was shouting with pleasure, but still not hitting PoNR against my will. It's taken me 18 months to get there (thank you body, you're the best ), during which time no death grip was involved, rather just a lot of effort to get familiar with high levels of stimulation. My thought is that it's all different sides of the same coin.

The death grip IS a higher intensity of stimulation. That's the point. The question is if lube or no lube is more intense. At the moment I use lube because I read and noticed that using lube is supposed to be higher stimulation or a closer feeling to a vagina, but most people that got DE masturbate dry, which can be stimulating and desensitizing too. I int know what to believe. At the moment I do the death grip with lube, on my knees, thrusting on my bed like doggy style with intense twists at the penis head at the top of the stroke. I can not seem to last more than 10 minutes cuz its so intense. Also, I have a theory that spasms/involuntary kegels/sensitivity is a result of light grips and touching since very young.

 

[JamesMonroe]

...and most people last long during a BJ, sex is different because its more intense and a tighter feeling.

 

[zunamary]

To be honest I've been depressed lately. Got back to porn and masturbating to it. Was losing hope since I was lasting a lot edging but at sex nothing came up. I'm gonna try this to see how it works.

 

[JamesMonroe]

To be honest I've been depressed lately. Got back to porn and masturbating to it. Was losing hope since I was lasting a lot edging but at sex nothing came up. I'm gonna try this to see how it works.

Sorry to hear man.... hope you get better soon. She has to be constantly giving you sex and building it up slowly with you. She has to be caring, aware of your problem and helpful.
Yup... it's almost impossible to find a girl like that. Hope the death grip helps somehow. I think you should start jelqing too. It's a form of death grip and also gives you great blood flow and penis enlargement.
And def try to stop masturbating to porn! Just watch it without touching yourself and edge later at night, if you still wanna watch it.