The BatLocker: Women and sex toys

[islander]

Hi BW

I didn't get into them til about 6 years ago. First I would only use them by myself. Then after a year with my partner.
I've only had 3 partners in my life. The first two did not like the size of the dildo's. The current has no problem. All loved everything else.

I have the handcuffs. They are white and furry and so pretty. Blind folds However I don't use them in me. Lol. I can't stand/handle it yet but my partner does.
Have the nipple pasties. They are on for about 2.2 minutes. Various costumes.

I prefer making my own and using oils.
Kama sutra has a great edible dusting powder with a feather duster. You dip it and lightly coat your partner. It's sensual and it drives you crazy. It tastes great.
Also Kama sutra oils for body massage and penis massage (tantric). Oh my. Lovely to perform, to see and to jump on lol

I buy lace from fabric store to match my lingerie and make chokers, anklets, ankle ties, pretend cock rings etc
buy masks.
Leather belts start out around my waist. It gets moved around like reins.

What type of stuff are u buying?

All in fun.

I like to make an event out of things sometimes. Get all dressed up and text him as he is on his way over lol
Drip some glycerin down my inner thigh lol

 

[mistydawn]

My FWB likes toys. I have never been real big on toys because they don't do anything for me when used on myself. I found them a waste of money. Now with my FWB, toys have become freakin fantastic! I went to a adult store and the lady in there is super knowledgeable and nice. She showed me her best seller. It wasn't the most expensive, it was one of the cheaper priced.

I love this vibrator. It feels sooo good. No wonder it is a best seller. I don't use it on myself. When my FWB uses it on me he thrusts it in and out really fast. My orgasms roll one after another. This guy has a thing for insertion so he really enjoys doing it. He is interested in fisting as well but am too small. He had a huge toy he tried to put in me without my seeing what it was...lol...I sat up, looked at it (cause it hurt) and said are you nuts! LOL

It is unfortunate that some men reject toys. It can really add to the fun. It doesn't take away from each other. While my FWB is using it and I am having tons of orgasms, I am thinking about how good he is. He wants to take me to ultimate heights.

 

[GTO]

That thing is pretty thick ... no wonder it rocks you! LOL!

 

[mrmark]

Hi BW

I didn't get into them til about 6 years ago. First I would only use them by myself. Then after a year with my partner.
I've only had 3 partners in my life. The first two did not like the size of the dildo's. The current has no problem. All loved everything else.

I have the handcuffs. They are white and furry and so pretty. Blind folds However I don't use them in me. Lol. I can't stand/handle it yet but my partner does.
Have the nipple pasties. They are on for about 2.2 minutes. Various costumes.

I prefer making my own and using oils.
Kama sutra has a great edible dusting powder with a feather duster. You dip it and lightly coat your partner. It's sensual and it drives you crazy. It tastes great.
Also Kama sutra oils for body massage and penis massage (tantric). Oh my. Lovely to perform, to see and to jump on lol

I buy lace from fabric store to match my lingerie and make chokers, anklets, ankle ties, pretend cock rings etc
buy masks.
Leather belts start out around my waist. It gets moved around like reins.

What type of stuff are u buying?

All in fun.

I like to make an event out of things sometimes. Get all dressed up and text him as he is on his way over lol
Drip some glycerin down my inner thigh lol

Wow! this is the kind of lady i like to meet,i love being tied/handcuffed to the bed then blindfolded and gaged.Because it heightens your senses you know shes there and you can smell shes there but you dont know whats coming next!

 

[Pirate]

Sounds like fun!

 

[ColtAR-15]

"Monster dick"

"Monster dick"

I got one of those 8x6 (6.75 insertable) Cyberskin realistic dildos for the Wife. All of it went in without any complaint but the Wife said it felt like it was going rip something once it was all the way in. I guess the girth was too big since all she has ever had is me at 5"MEG. She calls it a monster. Hardly ever use it. I thought she was going to go nuts over the girth since all I have ever read is how important women say girth is, I just never knew to what extent. The reviews you read about these toys also just left me convinced the bigger the girth the better the orgasm. She did manage to have a orgasm once with it but I wasnt thrusting it, I was just kind of moving it around while inserted. Part of me is glad she thought it was too thick since this thing is way thicker than me. The other part of me wanted her to have a orgasm like she never had before. She told me the real thing is much better. I just hope she meant the real me and not the real version of the "Monster dick".

It was pretty much a waste of money. We have much more fun with natural foreplay anyways.

 

[darinsixpack]

As long as it's not like a lot bigger then me, It's all good. I have found that using a vibrator on her clit during intercourse is pretty good for us both. My girl has very intense Gspot orgasms and has them over and over through intercourse, and she uses the vibrator on her clit while doing it, leaves her melting.

I will be honest, if she ever came to me wanting some huge 10" dildo, I would not like that. But most anything else is hot.

 

[SwedGuy]

We have a lot of toys and had many over the 15+ years we have been living together. One normal size dildo (size as my own), one a bit larger (5,5" girth) and one with a pump that can go extremely girthy (probably 9"+). Then we have vibrating eggs, three different vibrating cock rings, elastic soft cock rings that can be placed anywhere on the dick, anal toy and probably some other things I cannot remember right now. It is just plain fun and some toys have worked great, other didn't work good at all but there are some favourites. We also use different kind of lubricants, smell, no smell, hot and cold etc.

Bottom line is that we enjoy the tools in bed and it adds the excitement mentally as we both feel a bit naughty and none of us ever felt awkward using toys. If you have not tried it out, just do and enjoy...at least to my belief, we only live once.

 

[Batwoman]

I have found that a glass toy (which you can warm up with hot water, or chill with cold) is a lot of fun.....

 

[mistydawn]

I have found that a glass toy (which you can warm up with hot water, or chill with cold) is a lot of fun.....

I have not used a glass toy. My FWB talks about them. He has warmed up our lube and toys. I do not need it. It all warms up fast enough when used. I have bought toys that were very solid/hard. I do not like them. I highly doubt I would like the glass toys so I don't put my money into them. I am not saying your liking them is bad or anything...just saying.

 

[Batwoman]

I enjoy the glass toy for anal, now that I think about it. Softer toys for vaginal/clitoral. And lube is a must for anything used for penetration.

 

[GTO]

Has there ever ben a time you ladies simply preferred the toy over actual intercourse? (just for that brief period of time)

 

[Batwoman]

Do you mean solo play or using a toy with a partner?

 

[GTO]

Do you mean solo play or using a toy with a partner?

Both actually. Has there ever been a time when all you wanted from your patner was for them to assist in the toy play? I understand that the act of intercourse can be not as strong for women as it is for guys since it is much more of sensory thing for you. I was just curious to know if there have been times when actual sex was nowhere on your radar but it was more of a thing in sharing the toy play experience (with your partner) or simply exploring solo and totally pleasing yourself?

 

[Batwoman]

The only times I have ever preferred solo play to being with a real man have been when I've been in a dying sexual relationship with someone that I did not desire anymore. Even though sex with him was still an option (theoretically speaking) I did not want it because I did not want him anymore. Under those circumstances it can be easier and more pleasurable to engage in fantasies and solo play than to have actual sex -- much less fuss, and no need to pretend anything or work to get excited about a mutual act that no longer holds any attractions for me.

Playing with toys with a partner is a different matter. When we first get together, it is alway real sex and his body and cock that I crave. But once our initial desires have been fed (and a few orgasms have been had), then it becomes playtime -- either right away or a few hours later. If we have both recently had orgasms, I don't feel the overwhelming need for his cock, just his attentions. At times like that I sometimes prefer a toy to his cock just so we can both experiment. I think we both find it very hot when I use a toy on myself while he watches, or he uses one on me. Both the sharing of the experience and the physical sensations are important then. I believe he loves to watch things slip inside me, to see the look on my face as that happens. And to see me cum when he is not overwhelmed with his own sensations, and can really watch and guide me. It is all good. Sharing the toy play experience together can be very intimate and satisfying for both partners, I think.

 

[islander]

Getting there

Yes. But there were reasons. I was already gone in my mind from him so I used the vibe when alone.
If he asked I would tell him I did use it but not for how long or how many times i cam or which toys i used
I never told him unless he asked me.

These days I only get to see my lover a few times a week so I fill up the rest of the days with manual or vibe masturbating.

 

[Pirate]

The only times I have ever preferred solo play to being with a real man have been when I've been in a dying sexual relationship with someone that I did not desire anymore. Even though sex with him was still an option (theoretically speaking) I did not want it because I did not want him anymore. Under those circumstances it can be easier and more pleasurable to engage in fantasies and solo play than to have actual sex -- much less fuss, and no need to pretend anything or work to get excited about a mutual act that no longer holds any attractions for me.

Playing with toys with a partner is a different matter. When we first get together, it is alway real sex and his body and cock that I crave. But once our initial desires have been fed (and a few orgasms have been had), then it becomes playtime -- either right away or a few hours later. If we have both recently had orgasms, I don't feel the overwhelming need for his cock, just his attentions. At times like that I sometimes prefer a toy to his cock just so we can both experiment. I think we both find it very hot when I use a toy on myself while he watches, or he uses one on me. Both the sharing of the experience and the physical sensations are important then. I believe he loves to watch things slip inside me, to see the look on my face as that happens. And to see me cum when he is not overwhelmed with his own sensations, and can really watch and guide me. It is all good. Sharing the toy play experience together can be very intimate and satisfying for both partners, I think.

Wow....
I think I need a nap.

 

[CUSP82]

Want some of my pills?

 

[Pirate]

Are they more effective than a good lie down?

 

[CUSP82]

Pirate you had better say off this thread. It's not good for you. Go talk to sweetie52 and discuss old times together!!! (lmao)