How many Women/Men have you slept with?

[TTBB]

Finally an honest female answer.....


Drives me up the wall when women say "I've only been with 6 guys"

Like I'm stupid LOL! There was one girl that said she was only with 5 guys one time... we stopped talking and I kinda just (weird i know) Hung out in the bushes of her Facebook. She said she'd been with a few more guys so about 8 all together... She had a different boy toy every month for 15 months...

and she only slept with 8 guys in total??? BAH!

Well yes then you are stupid LOL
I am in my thirties and i am in the single digits for the number of guys i have slept with...it doesn't mean i am not a sexual person or that I am sexually inexperienced it just means i am sexually selective and one night stands and flings don't work for me..so if you thought i was bullshitting you or lying about my numbers You would be wrong...If you stopped talking to me because you felt my numbers weren't high enough then it would be your HUGE loss
Also if you judged me based on how many guys i have hangin around online or attention i get then you would jump to the completely wrong conclusion.. because the attention doesn't mean i am fucking them or even taking my clothes off for them in a cyber fun way..it just means they are trying to get that or they are friends .. i know many females who's are older then me who's numbers are low.. partly because they have been in long term relationships on and off through out their adult life

Why such a strong reaction from me ..well partly because i get tired of men not believing me when i say i haven't fucked in the double digits..and confusion it seems to cause... yes i could haven't quite easily but i didn't.. or is that haven't? why is that a bad thing?

I am as honest as misty even if my numbers are not as high...

 

[Pegasus]

Whoa ttbb setlle gretel.
While we believe you and we are sure there are other women the same, the fact is, it is standard practise for women to understate the number of partners they have had. In fact it is so standard I for 1 think nothing of it. I don't mind if a woman has had some partners. But I suppose you are right, if I didn't know you, I would assume you had more partners regardless of what you said. I wouldn't worry about it just take it as noprmal. You should really blame the women who lie ,not sombodyelse or me

 

[TTBB]

I'm not blaming anyone.. but i am allowed to be annoyed at it in a general way
you know what i look like(normal) you know my personality(normal) I do get why people think i would have higher numbers. but it sucks being viewed as wrong or a liar because it doesn't match up to what people expect .. i have had falling outs with guys over this because they would not believe me about my sexual history.

 

[Pirate]

I believe you.

 

[mistydawn]

My number might be closer to 20-25 but since I did not keep track... :noidea:

 

[Pegasus]

Just for the record Misty ,given your age I would regard anything under 100 as fairly normal.

 

[Zathora_8x5.5]

Just for the record Misty ,given your age I would regard anything under 100 as fairly normal.

sorry if i offend, but in my books anyone who sleeps with 50+ people is just nasty

 

[sekeris]

I think 100+ is better than 0.

 

[spanky]

I think 100+ is better than 0.

C'mon sekeris, enough with the "poor me" stuff now. Pull your socks up. You have all the time in the world. Don't look at women as a fuck, take them for the beautiful, strange, fascinating and exciting people that they are, and enjoy everything about them. Ask them what makes them tick. Pay attention. Excite her mind before you try to excite her pussy, and do that before you excite yourself. Face facts, you're not going to walk into a bar, or library or whatever, go up to a beautiful woman, say "let's fuck" and get some. And besides, a desperate man, or a man who's only interested in pussy is mind-blowingly unattractive. Probably to most straight men as well. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin, and it certainly won't matter to some woman if you're only interested in her pussy. Women don't work like that. Sort your own self-esteem out first, because unless you're incredibly lucky one day, that's gonna be the first thing that sends the girls packing.

 

[somebodyelse]

Well yes then you are stupid LOL
I am in my thirties and i am in the single digits for the number of guys i have slept with...it doesn't mean i am not a sexual person or that I am sexually inexperienced it just means i am sexually selective and one night stands and flings don't work for me..so if you thought i was bullshitting you or lying about my numbers You would be wrong...If you stopped talking to me because you felt my numbers weren't high enough then it would be your HUGE loss
Also if you judged me based on how many guys i have hangin around online or attention i get then you would jump to the completely wrong conclusion.. because the attention doesn't mean i am fucking them or even taking my clothes off for them in a cyber fun way..it just means they are trying to get that or they are friends .. i know many females who's are older then me who's numbers are low.. partly because they have been in long term relationships on and off through out their adult life

Why such a strong reaction from me ..well partly because i get tired of men not believing me when i say i haven't fucked in the double digits..and confusion it seems to cause... yes i could haven't quite easily but i didn't.. or is that haven't? why is that a bad thing?

I am as honest as misty even if my numbers are not as high...

no no no no...


You got it all wrong. Perhaps I should elaborate....

The girl i speak of I was actually in a sexual relationship with. She used me to hold a position in a social/economical setting. Once she had what she needed from me, she discarded me. In that sense, if she could do something like that, then have 15 other "guys" in and out of her life, i'm to believe she only slept with 3 of them? No... that girl was an evil human being.


Now to the whole "could be telling the truth" thing. You could be telling the truth, you, again, have extenuating circumstances. I wouldn't expect you to have a high number.

Women my age, however, sleep with anything that has a 6 pack. I read an article that said women if they were truthful admitted to 25-30 guys in their life time, but if asked openly they stuck with the answer 5-7 guys all long term OR they'll evade the question entirely.

My general rule of thumb IF that subject comes up and she tells me a number, if it's below 7 I double it and it's evenerally +/- 5 guys in that general range. As a rule though, I try to avoid it because women project their stigma onto men if that guy has a relatively normal number for his age.

I'm not making it up, it was a study done.

Women May Fib

That's just one article from one person's perspective. If I ever find the journal i'll post it.

Post Script:

I'd never leave someone because of the number they had or didn't have... I prefer experience, but I'm not against inexperience.

To Add:


I'll have to look it up later... But check out this "poll"

http://www.datehookup.com/Thread-497351.htm

Women all of a sudden got up in arms when the question was asked... There's a "Stigma" to having a lot of guys that's not deserved... like one guy explained one person a year from 20 to 40 is twenty guys.... Hell Averaged out I've had 2 people per year since i've started having sex admittedly I've got whole years without ever having a partner, but some years were as many as i could get. (4 in a month once) And I had to WORK to get those... if I had to work to get mine i know women could have had more chances...

You, TTBB, again have extenuating circumstances and I wouldn't expect you to have more than 10 if that even.

 

[Pegasus]

sorry if i offend, but in my books anyone who sleeps with 50+ people is just nasty

Then you must think many guys on this site are nasty.

 

[closeed258]

if i had the size and the confidence i would definitely love to have banged 50+ women!!!!

 

[sekeris]

C'mon sekeris, enough with the "poor me" stuff now. Pull your socks up. You have all the time in the world. Don't look at women as a fuck, take them for the beautiful, strange, fascinating and exciting people that they are, and enjoy everything about them. Ask them what makes them tick. Pay attention. Excite her mind before you try to excite her pussy, and do that before you excite yourself. Face facts, you're not going to walk into a bar, or library or whatever, go up to a beautiful woman, say "let's fuck" and get some. And besides, a desperate man, or a man who's only interested in pussy is mind-blowingly unattractive. Probably to most straight men as well. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin, and it certainly won't matter to some woman if you're only interested in her pussy. Women don't work like that. Sort your own self-esteem out first, because unless you're incredibly lucky one day, that's gonna be the first thing that sends the girls packing.

I'm not talking about me, just saying. I want women to have good sex and pleasure, and good time in general. And a virgin guy, like me, can't give that. Actually I think it would be bad if I had confidence but was bad in bed etc. That would disappoint women.

 

[spanky]

I'm not talking about me, just saying. I want women to have good sex and pleasure, and good time in general. And a virgin guy, like me, can't give that. Actually I think it would be bad if I had confidence but was bad in bed etc. That would disappoint women.

If you have the confidence you won't be bad in bed. Period.

 

[TTBB]

I'm not talking about me, just saying. I want women to have good sex and pleasure, and good time in general. And a virgin guy, like me, can't give that. Actually I think it would be bad if I had confidence but was bad in bed etc. That would disappoint women.

yes a virgin guy like you can give pleasure and a good time.
you can't let the fear of not being good stop you from taking the first steps.. the only way you will learn to be an exceptional lover is by learning about what works for you sexually, works for your partner .. and to engage in sex... no one will expect you to be a cockstar the first time you have sex.. you should not expect that of yourself... you need to go into with an open mind, not a set standard or performance... to a certain degree sex will come naturally and you will probably find you are better then you imagine ..but yes there will also be oopsy and damn moments but that happens even with experienced couples.. its part of what makes sex fun.. you need to have a sense of humor and not take sex so seriously.

 

[Zathora_8x5.5]

Then you must think many guys on this site are nasty.

Nasty and (hope i dont get in trouble for this) liar's
but don't get upset that just "My Option"

 

[mechanicJT]

The men apparently don't plunder in the land down under????
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Could you elaborate on why you feel sex with multiple partners is nasty? Lots of members here say they have only been with one or two partners and said they would rather be with someone they love. I feel that way, but for a time I slept with anyone I could. I don't feel like most of them would think multiple partners was nasty.

 

[Pegasus]

Zathora doesx not speak for Australia and I think most Australians, would wish to distance themselves from this and some other comments he has made.

 

[Zathora_8x5.5]

first off i want to say that Pegasus is right

"Zathora doesx not speak for Australia and I think most Australians, would wish to distance themselves from this and some other comments he has made."

No i don't speak for Australia nor do i speak for the world, its just my option like your option is "its fine to fu*k as many as you can before you find the one you love*
and thats fine to,
i personealy don't like it,
but i was raised harder then 90% of people on this site, and have gone through more shi* then 99% of people on this site,
so i gess that has something to do with it. . I dont know

The men apparently don't plunder in the land down under????

this is offensive to me, (as i'm reading it thinking that your trying to call me gay or something)
ok i'm not on earth to conquer as much pus*y as i can, nor am i here to judge everyone who does. everyone to there own i say

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

I never said people don't have there own opinion, as my post states MY OWN OPINION

Could you elaborate on why you feel sex with multiple partners is nasty?

because to me it is, i my self have slept with a number of people and yes i had fun, but the amount of sh*t going around these days (you could nearly catch something just by looking at someone) once again my opinion

Lots of members here say they have only been with one or two partners and said they would rather be with someone they love. I feel that way, but for a time I slept with anyone I could. I don't feel like most of them would think multiple partners was nasty.

on the site they don't think its nasty, nor do the people who have had so much, but if you tell someone who you love and gonnga sleep with them for the first time, that you've had over 50-100 partners just watch there eyes open in shock, and i can almost guarantee that 90% of those people are thinkin,
holy fu*k am i gonna get something, or, holy fu*k he's gonna fu*k me and leave me, or, what kind of man/woman is he/she etc etc

please don't take offence to my words as i'm not here to argue with or to try and change anyone over the thought of how many people we have slept with (coz it just sound like a dic* measuring contest) really really silly.

thanks for reading

Zathora

 

[ryansambas]

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