James did you notice any changes in sex (lasting loanger )since you were doing the death grip routine for a few weeks now??
The Death Grip
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James did you notice any changes in sex (lasting loanger )since you were doing the death grip routine for a few weeks now??
Unfortunately I have only practiced it like 4-5 times, and my gf and I aren't having to much sex right now. Lately everytime we do it I last about 20 min of hard fast deep porno style pumping till I ejac(if I relaxed and went slower I could last longer), then I clean off and we do it again right away with the same erection. I love it because then I last about 40-45 min with no spasms and no PONRs. I will let you know soon if my first round and sensitivity gets better and longer than 20 min...
Just to let you guys know, when I edge with the death grip, I only last about 10 minutes because it's so intense. I use lube and I thrust on my knees on my bed with full strokes and twists at the penis head. It's crazy.
Just to let you guys know, when I edge with the death grip, I only last about 10 minutes because it's so intense. I use lube and I thrust on my knees on my bed with full strokes and twists at the penis head. It's crazy.
I am trying to increase the tightness of my grip and I does make me cum more easily. On my first week of Edging I only used 3 fingers to stroke (as if I was doing a pistol mimic with my hand). After like 3 sessions I was able to use all 4 fingers without reaching PORN so quickly. Now increasing the grip is a real good way of making me go further. So I keep going back and forth with my lasting time, step by step. It seems to be working quite well. The step I am willing to take is reaching the glans... I dream about the day when I will be able to fully stroke my penis with a moderate grip for like 20 minutes, with lube. Then I'll move to the flashlight maybe.
It (a tighter grip) also makes my penis hot and I feel those tickles long before reaching PORN, which is funny. However I don't know if that tickle thing has anything to do with the tighter grip.
Did anyone notice that those tickles appear earlier even though PORN isn't actually close? It is as if that tickle feeling has been spread over all the experience, not only on the final instants before PORN - as it was when I started Edging. Notice that I have just started my second Edging week.
It (a tighter grip) also makes my penis hot and I feel those tickles long before reaching PORN, which is funny. However I don't know if that tickle thing has anything to do with the tighter grip.
Did anyone notice that those tickles appear earlier even though PORN isn't actually close? It is as if that tickle feeling has been spread over all the experience, not only on the final instants before PORN - as it was when I started Edging. Notice that I have just started my second Edging week.
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Yes, as I said, it is way more intense, but it's that intenseness I think we have to get used to. It's like the first time we started edging. Now we have to just take a few steps/minutes back... but I think it might be worth it. After a while, I think we will be able to handle looser/lesser stimulation(like a vagina) for longer periods of time.
I think about starting the newbie jelqing routine for 90 days. But I also want to edge and ballon with the death grip.
Will the death grip masturbation or masturbation in general affect the "penis recovery time" needed after jelqing or should I combine my jelqing and Masturbation session?
Will the death grip masturbation or masturbation in general affect the "penis recovery time" needed after jelqing or should I combine my jelqing and Masturbation session?
After masturbating with the death grip i've noticed my skin on my penis is flakey which is obviously caused by the friction as i'm not using lube. I take it after a while my skin will harden just like hands do?
I noticed that can happen too, but I think that is a bad thing. It may affect your ability to get good enough erections for sex. That is dangerous.
The tight grip alone with lube should make a sufficient change physically and mentally without you having to change your skin. You are messing with something that could be irreversible.
You know what I was thinking maybe if we use something like a sex toy such as Fleshlight that acts as real vagina. I saw on the web that they have a tighter version that can maybe mimick the effect of the death grip. I think if this was used it would produce great stamina over time instead of using your hand. I have a fleshligt but a regular one in which you get a whole more stimulation such as the death grip but also trying to mimick a close to the real thing of a vagina when edging. I edge with the fleshlight and had more ponr more then with a hand and i only chose to last around 7 minutes to start off slow.
I'm not gonna purchase one, but if you wanna try it and it's tight enough, go ahead. Yeah, a normal fleshlight is prob not tight enough. My death grip routine is good enough and very stimulating because of the thrusting on my knees, full strokes with twists at the penis head and lots of baby oil. I can't go for more than 10 min right now. Plus, you hav more control with your hand, pressure-wise....That's for sure.
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Always use lube. It makes the sensations feel much more intense and thus you get more used to it.
Always use lube. It makes the sensations feel much more intense and thus you get more used to it.
There's also the possibility that people who have always had delayed ejaculations tighten the grip while masterbating. In other words, the causality is reversed and people who have DO are more prone to death grip masterbation because it would take them forever to ejaculate otherwise?
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This is what I had allways presumed as a suffer of de however Jm is putting it to the test . In retrspect this experiment is overdue.
Just came across this thread, and have read all 12 pages with great interest!!
I thought i'd join in this experiment because it sounds very promising.
Here's where i'm at, at the moment. I am 20 years old and have been having sex for almost 2 years. I have suffered from pe this whole time. Occasional its so bad that i will climax upon penetration, which happened last night, which i think is largely due to over arousal. Also probably due to the fact that i hadn't had any sex for about 3 weeks. (Although after becoming hard again after this, i would say I lasted probably about 10 minutes, which to me seemed like an eternity, and i had to actually consciously get myself to climax)
I am in a stable relationship, although we only have sex probably once a week or fortnight. I think this in part due to me not enjoying sex because i am always worried about climaxing to fast. Usually when we have sex i will climax within a minute, and stay reasonably hard just long enough to get my gf to orgasm.
I just got onto edging a few days ago, and have eliminated any porn. I "edge" ,if thats a word, in the shower up until now without lube but i'm going to start using it. I will as of now incorporate the "death grip". I will only edge for between 10-15 minutes though because the thought of edging for hours does not appeal to me and is seem impractical for my life.
My goal is to be able to have sex (penetration that is) for at least 10 minutes without reaching climax. Doesn't sound like a lot i know, but if you've got pe thats an eternity. Plus i cant help thinking i'd start getting bored if i was ploughing away for over half an hour.
Anyway i'll keep my progress updated over the next few weeks and let you know how it goes.
I thought i'd join in this experiment because it sounds very promising.
Here's where i'm at, at the moment. I am 20 years old and have been having sex for almost 2 years. I have suffered from pe this whole time. Occasional its so bad that i will climax upon penetration, which happened last night, which i think is largely due to over arousal. Also probably due to the fact that i hadn't had any sex for about 3 weeks. (Although after becoming hard again after this, i would say I lasted probably about 10 minutes, which to me seemed like an eternity, and i had to actually consciously get myself to climax)
I am in a stable relationship, although we only have sex probably once a week or fortnight. I think this in part due to me not enjoying sex because i am always worried about climaxing to fast. Usually when we have sex i will climax within a minute, and stay reasonably hard just long enough to get my gf to orgasm.
I just got onto edging a few days ago, and have eliminated any porn. I "edge" ,if thats a word, in the shower up until now without lube but i'm going to start using it. I will as of now incorporate the "death grip". I will only edge for between 10-15 minutes though because the thought of edging for hours does not appeal to me and is seem impractical for my life.
My goal is to be able to have sex (penetration that is) for at least 10 minutes without reaching climax. Doesn't sound like a lot i know, but if you've got pe thats an eternity. Plus i cant help thinking i'd start getting bored if i was ploughing away for over half an hour.
Anyway i'll keep my progress updated over the next few weeks and let you know how it goes.
Interesting and could be true. Maybe more/less sensitive nerves is the difference. I have to say though... I got really good at sex while only jelqing. That is a tight grip. At the time my progress that was all I was doing.
I am hopeful and have been having great long sex with no ED during this... But I need to give it more time and waiting to hear from others.
Anyone made any progress? Sorry guys... haven't practiced or had sex enough lately. Also, because I already cured myself of prem ejac, it's hard to notice a big difference so far....
I started using it last week and I just had an edging session last over 30 min with a single PONR (lately I was getting 2-3 in a 20 min session)... but I don't know if it was due to the DG or because my RK's are getting better, or maybe because I started taking Green Tea and Ginger.
