why doesnt any girl respond to my messages on dating apps?

[nagual65]

so, Tinder doesnt work in my country. I am on Badoo and Meetme. many ppl seem to use it in my country. both apps dont have a comprehensive bio section or anything. (your pictures, age, city and bunch of stupid corny questions)
I have tried all sorts of messages, from simple hello, howdy, how are you doing to all the openers that ppl suggest online. nothing has worked! no one has replied to me(except for one person who was a prostitute and messaged me about fees!)..some of them check my profile (the app notifies you if they do) but nothing else. This is driving me insane..the fact that I cant figure why is this happening(I dont think I am that ugly!). I cant sleep at night.. I uninstalled them a while ago and installed them back cuz my brother's wife was pushing me to try it again..she says I only have to try harder and she has lots of friends who use these apps for dating so it's not just ppl who want to feel better about themselves and look for self validation and stuff like that..has it happened to any of y'all? why do u think Is this?

 

[BootySnorkler]

I'm sure some of them are just made by app itself to keep u on it ,and aswell depends on the country u live in
If you are in bigger city or country should be better,I'm in small place too,and I ain't getting much either ,aswell depends on you bio that u put and such ,something funny,kinky or w.e
Those apps are like jokes ,you shouldn't be depressed cause of that ,just go out,find a girl sitting on a bench ,or coffee shop,or grocery store ,and just ask for name and talk and number exchange ,justa friendly approach ,don't force dating or sex while looking for woman or you will stay dry ,they can smell a desperate man,just be you and enjoy
And again,don't bother with badoo,tinder and such ,yeh sometimes u meet some people ,but most of the time is just nonsense ^^
Stay good bud !

 

[nagual65]

I'm sure some of them are just made by app itself to keep u on it ,and aswell depends on the country u live in
If you are in bigger city or country should be better,I'm in small place too,and I ain't getting much either ,aswell depends on you bio that u put and such ,something funny,kinky or w.e
Those apps are like jokes ,you shouldn't be depressed cause of that ,just go out,find a girl sitting on a bench ,or coffee shop,or grocery store ,and just ask for name and talk and number exchange ,justa friendly approach ,don't force dating or sex while looking for woman or you will stay dry ,they can smell a desperate man,just be you and enjoy
And again,don't bother with badoo,tinder and such ,yeh sometimes u meet some people ,but most of the time is just nonsense ^^
Stay good bud !

I dont think the app can come up with this many names from my native country to just make up profiles..these women actually look like from my country..and I am not from a small city.. as for the profile, these apps dont have a comprehensive bio section as I said, they ask about the city and the job and the height and couple of stupid questions like what would you do on a holiday and stuff like that..as I said my brother's wife told me she has lots of friends who are using exactly these apps for dating.
and regarding the dating life outside of the apps, I'm afraid it's not possible due to covid limitations(not that I was ever good at it or had any success)..

 

[nagual65]

I need to add something to the original question..wtf happened to "women only care about character"?

cuz I am asking this very question on bunch o forums on reddit and everyone is like "take a photo with and expensive car,that works"!
or "the problem is only your opener".
like how would these women know about me and my character if the only thing they care about is a photo and one single sentence by which I open my conversation with them(which btw has to be the most unique opener in the history of humanity to be good enough for them to respond!)?

 

[BigO]

90% of the women on dating sites are men or bots.

Go out and meet people, nothing will ever be better than the old fashioned way of winning a gals heart

 

[nagual65]

90% of the women on dating sites are men or bots.

Go out and meet people, nothing will ever be better than the old fashioned way of winning a gals heart

I dont think it's true dude. why would a dude have a profile as a woman on a dating app or how would a dating app that is developed in Russia have hundreds of female names that are of my ethnicity and look like they are from my country? many ppl seem to be very successful with the dating apps. It just seems to be not working for me at all and not understanding its reason is very very frustrating.

 

[Marlon LGHanger]

so, Tinder doesnt work in my country. I am on Badoo and Meetme. many ppl seem to use it in my country. both apps dont have a comprehensive bio section or anything. (your pictures, age, city and bunch of stupid corny questions)
I have tried all sorts of messages, from simple hello, howdy, how are you doing to all the openers that ppl suggest online. nothing has worked! no one has replied to me(except for one person who was a prostitute and messaged me about fees!)..some of them check my profile (the app notifies you if they do) but nothing else. This is driving me insane..the fact that I cant figure why is this happening(I dont think I am that ugly!). I cant sleep at night.. I uninstalled them a while ago and installed them back cuz my brother's wife was pushing me to try it again..she says I only have to try harder and she has lots of friends who use these apps for dating so it's not just ppl who want to feel better about themselves and look for self validation and stuff like that..has it happened to any of y'all? why do u think Is this?

How old are you? If you're trying to attract women half your age.... forget it. Stay within 5 years of your age group. Post photos of you doing things you enjoy doing (hiking, skiing etc.), things that are fun and adventurous. Don't post photos of yourself next to possessions like a car.
I posted a photo of myself with my dog sitting on my lap, my dog was wearing my reading glasses with a caption that read "my dog is smarter than your dog".
I got more hits with that one photo than I could keep up with!

And never ask women out on dates! Just invite them to meet you where you're about to have your next adventure! Don't act desperate!!!

 

[nagual65]

How old are you? If you're trying to attract women half your age.... forget it. Stay within 5 years of your age group. Post photos of you doing things you enjoy doing (hiking, skiing etc.), things that are fun and adventurous. Don't post photos of yourself next to possessions like a car.
I posted a photo of myself with my dog sitting on my lap, my dog was wearing my reading glasses with a caption that read "my dog is smarter than your dog".
I got more hits with that one photo than I could keep up with!

And never ask women out on dates! Just invite them to meet you where you're about to have your next adventure! Don't act desperate!!!

I am 32. most ppl on these apps are around the age range that you are suggesting anyways. No I would not post a photo with a car, that would be ridiculous.
That was part of the suggestions that reddit folks gave me.

I posted bunch o normal pictures of me. These apps dont have huge profile spaces, they ask about your job, your height and your hobbies. No, I didn't ask anyone for a date..not one single person has responded to any of my messages anyway, how can I ask them fora date or anything?

 

[Mandalorian]

Its not ideal but since tinder doesn't work in your country you can install tinder and change the localization to a big city in a different country, chicks dig foreign guys, its exciting, i know you wont get any real dates but this way you will see what the problem is about, if even after a while you don't get any matches than the problem might be your profile (maybe your description, pics etc), ask your bother's wife some help to make your profile look good if necessary.

If you are on android you can easily download tinder apk from the internet and install it in your smartphone, even though its not on your playstore, on iOS is a little more difficult. I believe you don't even need an app, you can use tinder website.

 

[Pegasus]

I need to add something to the original question..wtf happened to "women only care about character"?

cuz I am asking this very question on bunch o forums on reddit and everyone is like "take a photo with and expensive car,that works"!
or "the problem is only your opener".
like how would these women know about me and my character if the only thing they care about is a photo and one single sentence by which I open my conversation with them(which btw has to be the most unique opener in the history of humanity to be good enough for them to respond!)?

That is something women like to say . Like the old saying goes don't watch what they say watch what they do .

 

[Pegasus]

I dont think it's true dude. why would a dude have a profile as a woman on a dating app or how would a dating app that is developed in Russia have hundreds of female names that are of my ethnicity and look like they are from my country? many ppl seem to be very successful with the dating apps. It just seems to be not working for me at all and not understanding its reason is very very frustrating.

How old are you???
You seem very young . Firstly it is not hard to create bots and names. Re success on dating apps many guys are full of BS. Secondly you seem to think dating apps are a place to find women of character and depth .

 

[BigO]

I dont think it's true dude. why would a dude have a profile as a woman on a dating app or how would a dating app that is developed in Russia have hundreds of female names that are of my ethnicity and look like they are from my country? many ppl seem to be very successful with the dating apps. It just seems to be not working for me at all and not understanding its reason is very very frustrating.

Lol, ok, I guess I'm wrong, good luck with "women"

 

[Pegasus]

Lol, ok, I guess I'm wrong, good luck with "women"

None so deaf as those who will not hear.

 

[Jay1983]

It's the blind leading the blind.

 

[nagual65]

Its not ideal but since tinder doesn't work in your country you can install tinder and change the localization to a big city in a different country, chicks dig foreign guys, its exciting, i know you wont get any real dates but this way you will see what the problem is about, if even after a while you don't get any matches than the problem might be your profile (maybe your description, pics etc), ask your bother's wife some help to make your profile look good if necessary.

If you are on android you can easily download tinder apk from the internet and install it in your smartphone, even though its not on your playstore, on iOS is a little more difficult. I believe you don't even need an app, you can use tinder website.

I have tried to get around Tinder not registering ppl from my country. people use to use burner phone apps to get the confirmations messages to a phone number from countries that Tinder doesnt have a problem with. problem is Tinder has gotten smarter and right on the moment you enter the confirmation code, Tinder says your account is banned. I have tried to change my IP with a VPN software and do it from an IP from a different country. even with different phones,nothing happened. no one from my country has had any success registering on tinder.

either way ,there are many guys there that have the exact problem on Tinder. like it seems to b a problem that many guys deal with and no one can figure out why. I guess the only conclusion one can get to is that the only thing that matters to this woman is your picture.

 

[nagual65]

That is something women like to say . Like the old saying goes don't watch what they say watch what they do .

TNX for being honest and not scream politically correct propaganda in my ears.

 

[HansTwilight]

so, Tinder doesnt work in my country. I am on Badoo and Meetme. many ppl seem to use it in my country. both apps dont have a comprehensive bio section or anything. (your pictures, age, city and bunch of stupid corny questions)
I have tried all sorts of messages, from simple hello, howdy, how are you doing to all the openers that ppl suggest online. nothing has worked! no one has replied to me(except for one person who was a prostitute and messaged me about fees!)..some of them check my profile (the app notifies you if they do) but nothing else. This is driving me insane..the fact that I cant figure why is this happening(I dont think I am that ugly!). I cant sleep at night.. I uninstalled them a while ago and installed them back cuz my brother's wife was pushing me to try it again..she says I only have to try harder and she has lots of friends who use these apps for dating so it's not just ppl who want to feel better about themselves and look for self validation and stuff like that..has it happened to any of y'all? why do u think Is this?

Social media is for validation.

 

[nagual65]

How old are you???
You seem very young . Firstly it is not hard to create bots and names. Re success on dating apps many guys are full of BS. Secondly you seem to think dating apps are a place to find women of character and depth .

Lol, ok, I guess I'm wrong, good luck with "women"

Fine..I am just saying it's weird that dudes would create profiles as a woman. why would they do that?
And a free app would make this many bots with correct ethnic names and so on. Some profiles from my area use names that are common in some minorities living only in my area of the country, like a foreigner would NEVER know that, even most folks from my country don't know that there is a small Kurdish or Azerbaijani minority living in particular areas of my city. Like the app developers wouldn't make any money from all these comprehensive research!

Also there are tons of dudes who at least claim that they get lots o chicks from these apps and show their texting log and stuff on youtube..but okay maybe they are all charlatans.
Either way, believing what you are saying at this point is much easier than to fathom being dismissed by this many women without any reason.

 

[watersnake]

Guys that look like male models have success, I have read

 

[PELord]

I once did a experiment and created a few fake profiles under female names in different regions (come on guys ,to learn how guys are sending messages, so I would learn to send different and smarter messages to girls )

Here's what I learned:
In India, I was contacted by 440 men in a day!
In Ukraine, contacted by around 30 men.
In US, 15
In the UK 9
In Turkey 73
In China, around a thousand messages


Just consider that that hot girl that you sent a message to has been message-bombed by hundreds of horny guys, so not only she won't see your messages, even if she does, she won't answer it.