Tamora
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Takes a very big man to talk about their doubts and insecurities so openly as you have in my opinion sir!
Your life...your choice.
Your life...your choice.
Odd that my GF wants/loves her cervix pounded??
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Im 53 years old if I can't accept or face my short comings now, then when? I've been kidding myself for years, I may never change but at least I'll go out accepting them, maybe that's a small step?
Tamora
Retired Super Moderator, Member of the Month Aug
I'm 54 years old...married for best part of 20 years...two beautiful kids. I now live alone...not too worried about ambitions or money...haven't shagged anyone for at least a couple of years. Am I happy? Yes! Would I change the person I am now? Definitely not! I am now the master of my own destiny...my life, my choice.
Dont know if my name posts a like but I did. Just can't come to grips about being without her, despite the pain and loneliness. Ugh!
Then don't beat yourself up over it Party. You choose everyday. For this day you chose to stay. Hopefully tomorrow she chooses to be respectful to you. Take care, Party. Choose to love yourself whether you stay or go. We will love you either way. Who doesn't love a good Party?
Tamora
Retired Super Moderator, Member of the Month Aug
It did.
Start a new thread and I'm quite happy to tell you about all my pain and loneliness. It's your life sir and it's also your choice to live it as you choose. Apologies if that seems arrogant...again, that isn't my intention.
Party I am so sorry about your pain. God knows I have caused my husband plenty. I hope and pray you are ok and that you work it out with her if you choose. Counseling can be an answer. Many times we or our spouse may even have mental illness, need therapy and treatment. Best of luck to you, you are a kind man, and seem fun too.
I agree with that. We choose to be victims, just like choosing to eat too much, drink too much or to be mean. You do not deserve to be a doormat, but if you choose to let her do that you have chosen the victim role. Be strong, talk with her in love about your concerns.
Mannn, gettin real in here. All too often the social norm and stereotype in this world is men are "dogs", yet in my short amount of experience it hasnt quite been that lol. I buy the gifts, nice surprises, plan the trips, pay the most money/bills, do majority of the house work, initiate the most sex, never reject her when she is in the mood, when she is irritable I am nice and sweet to get her out of her funk, look past her emotional psychoness, etc..... Now if I come home poutin about a bad day or in a bad mood god forrrbiidd.
Ok, off my soap box about women but cant live without em! Party, I feel ya on letting people go. If you are a caring individual like I am it is DAMN DIFFICULT to let go of people... even at the expense of your own happiness. Sometimes, I wish I could just care less. Oh well, it is what it is.
We talked about cocks last night (with my girlfriend and roommate). They both know I am doing penis exercises. I cut out a piece of paper and rolled/taped it at 8" long and 6" girth. My GF said that is wayyy too big and "you wont be fucking me with that"... I told her "damn right I will, I want to find that back wall and she basically said no. Moral of the story, even during honest time a typical woman will try her best to preserve your ego.... I know the real truth thanks to the survey.... That she was with a 9" cock for 2 years and really misses her back wall pounded.
Cheers.
Ok, off my soap box about women
but cant live without em! Party, I feel ya on letting people go. If you are a caring individual like I am it is DAMN DIFFICULT to let go of people... even at the expense of your own happiness. Sometimes, I wish I could just care less. Oh well, it is what it is. We talked about cocks last night (with my girlfriend and roommate). They both know I am doing penis exercises. I cut out a piece of paper and rolled/taped it at 8" long and 6" girth. My GF said that is wayyy too big and "you wont be fucking me with that"... I told her "damn right I will, I want to find that back wall and she basically said no. Moral of the story, even during honest time a typical woman will try her best to preserve your ego.... I know the real truth thanks to the survey.... That she was with a 9" cock for 2 years and really misses her back wall pounded.
Cheers.
Guess what, she just proved again, last night, she doesn't know what 9 inches even looks like. Quit listening to her size estimations. She got it wrong, forget about it. She got yours wrong on the survey, and she doesn't know how big the ex was either. She can't tell size worth a sh*t. Don't stop caring it is what makes us givers far stronger, and superior to the rest of the herd. But for the love of your fucking penis,, quit listening to this girl about size. She just does not fucking know. SHE DOES NOT KNOW.
I think that she may of been honest. You did say before she put you down as an inch bigger, if I'm right, so that's evidence that the " 9 incher" wasn't ( you did say yourself you'd round it down to 8 ) but reality, the guy was probably half an inch, less even. That paper rolled up was 8, fact, and she thought it was too big, not feeding your ego imho, just showing her estimates on measurements are way off.
Hahah what did we all say before? Women are terrible at guessing size! Once again, it looks as if she has proved that. She has no idea at all what size her ex was.
Uh oh, you made an angel swear....... heavens wrath shall rain down on you now.
LMAO! OK OK EVERYONE OKKKK! haha. Something is wrong when the penguin angel is swearing at you!
It probably isnt 9", in fact I am pretty sure it isnt. What I am hung up on is estimating it to be 2" longer than me. Based on that he would have been 8.5". She estimated my penis to be 0.5" longer so based on that he would be 8.5".... DUN DUN DUN!
My true motivation, is I want to find the bottom of that vagina and hit some anterior and posterior fornix!
I am not letting his penis size devalue the opinion of myself or my penis. She just described his penis as the PERFECT length and PERFECT girth.... soooo hence me trying to really get a best guess/estimate for it. I have been back and forth on what my goals should be and estimating that penis size is a good start. Im thinking 8"x5.75 as my goal.
Cheers
It probably isnt 9", in fact I am pretty sure it isnt. What I am hung up on is estimating it to be 2" longer than me. Based on that he would have been 8.5". She estimated my penis to be 0.5" longer so based on that he would be 8.5".... DUN DUN DUN!
My true motivation, is I want to find the bottom of that vagina and hit some anterior and posterior fornix!
I am not letting his penis size devalue the opinion of myself or my penis. She just described his penis as the PERFECT length and PERFECT girth.... soooo hence me trying to really get a best guess/estimate for it. I have been back and forth on what my goals should be and estimating that penis size is a good start. Im thinking 8"x5.75 as my goal.
Cheers
10x8? Mr. Wishful your crazyyyy lol! 10" would be fun though for the wow affect and could tone back the thrusting to make it enjoyable for her but I would miss going balls deep. 8" girth though... mannnn it would hurt me just watching her trying to take it lmao. I feel really bad for any man that would have to deal with an ex boyfriend that was 10x8.. That vagina will never be the same!
Haven't read th rest of the responses yet but seriously... no. Not even. Every girl may have a freak side, I'll accept that, but choking and being spit on? No thanks. 9-10"? no thanks x1000.
Scarlet, you dont think 9-10" would be at least a little fun lol? Even with a super long penis like that you could technically shallow thrust...
Ill stick with my 8" goal though
Ill stick with my 8" goal though
I doubt she will let me go that far either. I won't go until she can't take it all. I like full thrustingntoo much. When I started it sounded great. I still like the sound of it. I will stop whenever she says too much. I am lucky that I don't have to worry about it being too big for my lover. She is already giving me feedback. 8 is a good goal, just be willing to stop before there if is starts to be too big.
. I will stop whenever she says too much. I am lucky that I don't have to worry about it being too big for my lover. She is already giving me feedback. 8 is a good goal, just be willing to stop before there if is starts to be too big.