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I've had success with dating apps and even meeting women through Twitter by caring very little about them. And that's my secret....
I put in just enough effort to ask a question rather than say "hi" or use a stupid emoji to dm them but other than that I just don't care if they so much as respond. Generally the less you care the better. And don't try to fake it, but stay busy and maybe check your messages once per day and keep interactions short.
You want to flirt and show some interest in them and lead the conversation towards sex. After all your purpose there is to get laid not try to be her friend or Mr nice guy. But try not to give her so much of your interest that she thinks you have nothing better to do or no other women to talk to.
When they do respond I go with the flow and respect her boundaries. Treat her the way she wants to be treated not the way you want to treat her. You try to arrange a date and she says "no" you agree and drop it and keep talking to other women. This is how you set yourself apart from the other thirsty guys pressuring her for sex and attention. It works way better in your favor to do this than if you get upset and try to force her to your will.
You also have to remember that 90% of women on dating use them for validation the same way they do social media. They may string dozens of guys along at once for the ego boost but only sleep with one or no one. You set yourself apart by not caring or chasing them. You don't chase you get chased.
Also, when you've had enough of her crap or she makes it clear she won't meet you ghost her, walk away, do literally anything else. Sometimes it's another guy she likes more than you, sometimes it's her own neurosis, sometimes she's just depressed. Usually if they like you they'll reach out 2-10 days later. If not, it's her loss.
Hope this helped
I put in just enough effort to ask a question rather than say "hi" or use a stupid emoji to dm them but other than that I just don't care if they so much as respond. Generally the less you care the better. And don't try to fake it, but stay busy and maybe check your messages once per day and keep interactions short.
You want to flirt and show some interest in them and lead the conversation towards sex. After all your purpose there is to get laid not try to be her friend or Mr nice guy. But try not to give her so much of your interest that she thinks you have nothing better to do or no other women to talk to.
When they do respond I go with the flow and respect her boundaries. Treat her the way she wants to be treated not the way you want to treat her. You try to arrange a date and she says "no" you agree and drop it and keep talking to other women. This is how you set yourself apart from the other thirsty guys pressuring her for sex and attention. It works way better in your favor to do this than if you get upset and try to force her to your will.
You also have to remember that 90% of women on dating use them for validation the same way they do social media. They may string dozens of guys along at once for the ego boost but only sleep with one or no one. You set yourself apart by not caring or chasing them. You don't chase you get chased.
Also, when you've had enough of her crap or she makes it clear she won't meet you ghost her, walk away, do literally anything else. Sometimes it's another guy she likes more than you, sometimes it's her own neurosis, sometimes she's just depressed. Usually if they like you they'll reach out 2-10 days later. If not, it's her loss.
Hope this helped
