why doesnt any girl respond to my messages on dating apps?

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Regarding dating apps and your lack of success: you have to understand that there is great difference in the numbers of male and female users in these apps. In apps like Tinder there are far more men than women, and they are far more needy. The reason you don't see success is because women choose other men instead of you.

On these apps, your looks and your photos are the most important element of your profile. Women have thousands of options to choose from, especially if they live in big cities, and often don't even bother to look at your description/bio. However, in many cases, particularly in smaller cities, they often do read it so write a smart one that demonstrates the good aspects of your personality, your interests, and that you have a sense of humour. When I was using the app, I would often be told that I had a very funny or interesting bio.


all I have encountered from women in my life was inhumane behavior. but you dont care about that do you??
no. you suddenly find a moral compass when someone criticizes women and do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify their shitty manners. If you have no problems with women being this inhumane then you don't have any moral justification to criticize my behavior.
 

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all I have encountered from women in my life was inhumane behavior. but you dont care about that do you??
no. you suddenly find a moral compass when someone criticizes women and do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify their shitty manners. If you have no problems with women being this inhumane then you don't have any moral justification to criticize my behavior.
I am commenting on your comments and your behaviour, not on the behaviour of these women, simply because you are the one posting about it here. If there was a woman making similar remarks about men I would reply to her in the same way.
 

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I am commenting on your comments and your behaviour, not on the behaviour of these women, simply because you are the one posting about it here. If there was a woman making similar remarks about men I would reply to her in the same way.

no. you are willingly ignoring the root of the issue. I am responding to their behavior. If you have any problem with that, go ask women to be more human.
 

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What exactly is the root of the issue? That women are cruel, gold-digging whores?
 

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You care way too much about what women think of you. You gotta stop that.
 
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Humans in general are not as we would like them to be . That is reality and has to be dealt with . There are guys here that want to vent over this and guys that want to get on with dealing with it . Your thread has attracted guys who are trying to help you deal with it . Please be civil.
 

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Humans in general are not as we would like them to be . That is reality and has to be dealt with . There are guys here that want to vent over this and guys that want to get on with dealing with it . Your thread has attracted guys who are trying to help you deal with it . Please be civil.


I thought the conversation was over. there has actually been many informative responses.

I posted the last update just to inform y'all that I found out that the assumption regarding profiles being bots or dudes imposing as women or messages getting buried is incorrect.

what I said I am going to do next had nothing to do with the nature of the original question. It was merely my personal conclusion (and not asking for help).
I am not(and was not) looking for contentious arguments afterwards.

however, I can not help but to point out the hypocrisy of guys suddenly being concerned about women's feelings when they absolutely do not care about the way women behave. All of a sudden "being a gentleman is a choice" but the way women behave is what it is and one just has to take it!

No brother I'm not having any of that. If they are concerned, they can ask women to be more human.

This should end the conversation. Thanks y'all.
 
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update: to check if these profiles are bots or not I did an experiment.

I started talking sh*t to these girls. saying stuff like" with that face it's not a surprise that you are single at this age" or "who did that horrible nose job of yours" and to my surprise, all of em responded with sh*t talking(in my mother tongue). even the hottest ones whose inbox is supposedly buried with tons o messages.

so lets get rid of these assumptions for folks who read this in the future, these are not bots and they can read and respond to your message if they want.

I deleted both apps and from now on I am going to be rude, mean and dismissive to all women in real life. let's see how they deal with that.
Ah so this is the road to happiness good luck with that .
 

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Ah so this is the road to happiness good luck with that .


I said the conversation is over. stop trying to patronize me into another argument.
 

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This is the net .
 

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update: to check if these profiles are bots or not I did an experiment.

I started talking sh*t to these girls. saying stuff like" with that face it's not a surprise that you are single at this age" or "who did that horrible nose job of yours" and to my surprise, all of em responded with sh*t talking(in my mother tongue). even the hottest ones whose inbox is supposedly buried with tons o messages.

so lets get rid of these assumptions for folks who read this in the future, these are not bots and they can read and respond to your message if they want.

I deleted both apps and from now on I am going to be rude, mean and dismissive to all women in real life. let's see how they deal with that.


You broke the ice, believe it or not you may be better off. Give them a little bit of a hard time, maybe now if you just start chatting with some of these girls you may end up with a date.

I'd be very happy if I were wrong about them being guys and/or bots
 

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You broke the ice, believe it or not you may be better off. Give them a little bit of a hard time, maybe now if you just start chatting with some of these girls you may end up with a date.

I'd be very happy if I were wrong about them being guys and/or bots


I can not stress this enough,Thank you for not acting like an unhinged social justice warrior with blue hair.
 

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coming from the guy who is constantly busting everyone on this website for "venting".

Go ahead and vent against women if it helps ,but other members have tried to help you.
 

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Go ahead and vent against women if it helps ,but other members have tried to help you.


you are the only person venting here. stop it. have you ever heard of the term "projection"? look it up, cuz that's what you are doing.

or are you gonna bring up an incredibly sad post from 2 years ago cuz that would make you feel like you scored something?
That would be very "civil" as well, since you like to advocate for it.
 

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you are the only person venting here. stop it. have you ever heard of the term "projection"? look it up, cuz that's what you are doing.

or are you gonna bring up an incredibly sad post from 2 years ago cuz that would make you feel like you scored something?
That would be very "civil" as well, since you like to advocate for it.
I hope you find a way to deal with your issues . You are required to treat other members with respect.
 

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Okay so you ask for help and then defend all your actions. Are you asking for help or just complaining here and want us to sympathize with you? It seems to be the latter. If so I'll start a fire and we can all hold hands and sing a song together in a bit and maybe you'll feel better?
 

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