This is a really interesting thread by ryanbater.You know,the above quote couldnt be more true in my humble view.Its safe to say Im one of the bigger guys here I think,and I basically never got-or get!-successfuly laid in bars,or anywhere else!.I dont want to keep coming out with the hackneyed old phrase "size doesnt matter",because in a way forums like this disprove that:size and the other related things ARE important to a lot of guys,and comparisons fascinate people.However the next part of the homily "its what you do with it that counts"is certainly true!.
I WAS one of those guys who used to boast a bit when younger about my dick size:and exactly the above happened,and I got my come-uppence!.A girl said something,and Im now known by everybody as "pencil dick"and am even starting to thing of calling myself this!
I take it too,often from guys a lot smaller(in dick size and stature,Im 6'2")and also older,even though its basically not true:I am starting to get a complex about the width of my dick(not helped by some of the vast girths here!).Anyway my penis is basically no good-in my eyes-for other reasons,those smaller,older shorter-even less good looking, guys are doubtless harder and better in bed than me!.Anyway the point Im making is that guys who boast about size-even if true-will always end up with the street rep.of having a a small/thin dick....and anyway ARE always(well ALMOST always-there are SOME sex GODS!)over-compensating for some other insecurity,as I was.
Someone posted above that their issues have issues-well,my issues have issues have ISSUES,but seriously,I can really relate to a lot you say,insecurities and sexualising women/desiring promiscuous types,"bad girls"who are no good for me.Ive taught psychology too,so know all the psychobabble bullshit-much of it doesnt help me(cant talk for others)although "loving yourself"cant be a bad start(no not in THAT way!),even though I find that difficult.I sexualise my own failings,and am Masochistic I think.
Sometimes I DO think that nature made women and girls a certain way to love "hard"(in both ways :mean and hard dicked),and that "nice guys finish last".Again,Im tall,not bad looking(at least before starting to go bald)very bright and wanted a sincere/intimate relationship with a woman,and never-well only once as a "toy boy"-had any luck.But you can bet your bottom dollar cock size rarely comes into all this.Yes,maybe sometimes promiscuous girls go with "big"guys,as people interested in sex are also often interested in size too:but some doubtless like very small ones,as the reverse applies(I noticed when I used to attend fetish/sex clubs that the men usually had either very big,or very small dicks).Doubtless they always go for hard cocks though,as a soft one would be beside the point!
Anyway,Im rambling and ranting on as usual,so if someone gets tired of it,just post "shut up bigandlimp,you limp dicked f***",but the point Im trying to make is that there is nothing wrong with you ryanbater-certainly not with your penis!.Im new here myself,so not the one to give pronouncements and advice:the admin.has done that better-but I agree that your dick is actually BIGGER than average-a lot wider Id say,and probably even longer (have heard this put as low as 5 and a quarter inches)and have nothing to worry about there at-all at least!.