I think the posts from RickyRubio are quite interesting in the sense that they illustrate well how penis size insecurities can affect a men and lead to some distorted construction of realities .
-distorted construction of reality? are you kidding me? until you've had the experiences that I have you have no idea where you are coming from on that alligation..
How much size a girl can handle will vary of course , but trust me that many women cannot handle 8+ inches fully deep inside their vagina . It will just hit the cervix on most positions which can be extremely painful – NOT something that she will eventually adapt to and convert into pleasure – that is just pain , ask any woman .
-well it appears that I've been with that small amount of women who can handle 8 inches of penis. now if 8inches hurts someone, they can elect to have a portion of that member ie.7out of the 8inches in them, which is still better than 6inches. im going to give you,an example since the women ive sexually encountered seem to have elluded you, my ex girlfriend was pleased with my 6inches, 10years ago, granted shes met some more experienced lovers, but she specifically told me she had sex with someone who was very large, never could take all of his penis, and he liked having that control over her, she eventually slept with people comparable to him, returned to him, able to handle his penis, to his surprise, and told me they had great sex. apparently she adapted to his size which lead for greater pleasure. sounds logical
Even if you have 8+ inches you will still need to leave some of it out on most positions and furthermore 95% of the woman's pleasure nerve endings are located at the first 2 - 3 inches from the vaginal opening . After that the women does not experience that much pleasure .
-yeah I think we covered the relevance of the first 2-3inches of the vagina. you seriously going to tell me that beyond that there is no pleasure? thats quite ridiculous, and in that case this site wouldnt exist because nobody wiuld worry about size.
I know that this is a shock to many guys and its kinda of a blow to our macho egos , but other than the visual stimulation , after 4 or 5 inches inside her we are not doing much at all brothers .
-if I was a virgin or someone with a couple of partners this would be very uplifting, but this is simply not the case, women that I know, dont want average, they want to be pushed to their limit.
I have some difficulty understanding what you are trying to say here . You have this scenario where Girl A sleeps with you and then she sleeps with an 8in man , after which she makes the decision to only have sex with the 8in man because he has a bigger penis .. Is this it ?
-yes, simply put! if I have the same technique, the same lasting power, but he dwarfs me by an inch or two, she has a good chance of choosing him over me, if size is a big deal to her, which i've found it to be often
First of all I know you said “unless there is a deeper connection between us” , but is the only factor at play here penis size ? Do you honestly believe that there is nothing more that matters to Girl A than penis size ? It's not about your personality , your looks , your intelligence , your sense of humor , sexual technique, anything else ?
-this may be your only relevant retort, yes, all those things play a MAJOR factor, when we are discussing a good woman, potential girlfriend, but when we are just discussing a one nighter, those things may play a smaller role.
For you , Girl A will make a decision to sleep with the 8in man simply because his penis is bigger than yours ?
- no, but in many situations, unfortunately she may.
Because , even if there is “no deeper connection” , as you have said , I cannot imagine a scenario where a girl would select a partner based on penis size alone and nothing more – unless you are some sort of a man-whore in a brothel and this girl is a size queen that will measure penises before selecting her sex partner .
-lol, i personally prefer a deeper connection. I cannot knock a size queen, if she is used to a certain amount of inches, I cant hold her at fault, I can just do my best.
Brother , if this is how you perceive most women to be you know little about how women work and how they process their sexuality – btw , it's hard to be a good lover if you don't understand what's truly important for women on a sexual level .
- so you explain to me what I dont know about sex. yes I have things to learn as we all may, but unless you've walked in my shoes you have no idea where im coming from. at the end of the day , yeah the first 2-3inches are important, but the guy that can go 7-8inches has more freedom in bed. i've learned a whole lot about women in my past 12years of sleeping with them, and no size isnt an issue for them all (for whatever reason), im with someone who can still not take my entire penis in certain positions (a true confidence booster) but ive also had sex with girls who took me in that same position easy.
On the other hand, if this is the kind of women you are after then it's a little bit sad really .
-sad really?yeah it is sad that some girls need you tobe of 'x' inches prior to allowing ur realationship go any further, I hate that, but its reality in certain cases.
You said you are 6 inches right ? OK , so you know you are not small at all and that's a good thing . If a girl tells you you are small they are most likely trying to be hurtful . It doesn't matter to them , but they know it matters to US guys , so they will use it as a control weapon . And guess what ? In most men that lack the proper inner-confidence , it works , and mean girls know it .
-yes, thank you, im sell aware that im not small, I was once 5.5. and of course it was said to hurt feelings, but if I was 7.5in, they wouldnt have been able to say that, at all. case closed.
Furthermore , I would be more worried if 3 women told me I was lousy in bed . Did you made good love to these 3 women ? Were they sexually satisfied ?
-honestly, I wouldn't say i put my best foot forward with one of them, but the other two truly had no reason to say that except out of pure anger.
If the answers is yes , than great for you – it just shows that size does not matter .
If the answers is no , I assure you that penis size was not the issue . Because , again , that's not how most women's minds operate sexually . Their buttons and triggers do not care about size.
Brother , it's not rare at all . What is rare are women that DO put much attention on size – yes they do exist , and size-queens are out there , but most women will not care less ! For most women it is not about the size . It just isn't . There are a million more important variables at work before penis size when it comes to women pleasure and sexual satisfaction .
- I agree, im glad that some women dont ultimately, im with someone who doesnt care, and I want that for my future.
So this lady friend of yours that reports to you her sexual experiences always goes to bed with guys with huge penises right ? She tells you all about how their cocks were so big right ?
-lol, dude, cut it out, ur really in denial. let me tell u another story about a girl who called me small. I 'thought' we had a great connection had a lot of fun together, I got anxious before sex, couldnt get an erection, after that she never contacted me distanced herself and then, told me of her disappointment with me not getting hard and being small. im merely saying that, if I was bigger, she may have given me a 'do-over', but she didn't, which is because im not big as she expected. of course I hold resentment towards her because I truly liked this woman....she is one reason im here.
- How many guys did this girl slept with in her life ?
- What is the % of sexually active guys that you think are huge ( let's say 8in + )
- pretty sure my homegirl had about 15partners.
Now do the math and determine the probability of her finding a huge penis on her every sexual encounter … you might be surprised .
This is the most common urban myth that perpetuates the insecurities of penis size . The good old story of the lady friend that always has sex with guys hang like horses .
Really brother ? You will prefer if a woman says that you are “too big” instead of “just perfect”?
-yes, I would prefer that, I would prefer her say im too big, because she may hope to be able to handle, 'too big' as opposed to having the possibility of meeting someone who is 6.5, and that becomes the new 'perfect'. I understand my insecurities, but unfortunately, my experiences have justifies them.
OK , it's your right and your life . I am quite sure though , that 99% of girls would go for the "just perfect" penis size than the "too big" penis size.
-whats perfect for one woman, may be too big or too small for another. id like to be 7.5 and I feel as though that would,be a universally accepted size
Also please note that if a man feels that he rather be "too big" he is probably just in need to inflate his ego and mask his sexual insecurities -
- yeah the sexual insecurities are about lacking in size.
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Being "too big" also has nothing to do with women's pleasure . As such , it has nothing to do with the whole point of this thread .
