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How do I know which woman I should compliment? Are there any signs of interest?

Different women have different ways of showing interest. The most common ones I've seen are:

* Looking at you, making eye contact, looking away, looking back again.
* Preening ie smoothing her hair, readjusting her shirt, playing with jewellery.
* Smiling at you.
* Touching herself; fidgeting with her ear lobs, rubbing her thumb in circles on her leg etc.
* Laughing at all your jokes.
* Making excuses to touch you.
* Play fighting or mock arguments.
*Stands close to you a lot.
* Tells you mundane things about her life.
* Always seems to be dressed up when she knows she'll see you.
* Get jealous or quiet when you talk about other women.
* Communicates with you frequently.
 

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Is there anything special I have to know if I want to approach an older woman?
 

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No-fap and no-porn is good and all, have more free time etc. But it just struck me, that I'm a 24 y/o virgin and I have no clue how to approach a woman, flirt, ask her on a date and so on. That is mind-blowing, didn't really think about it before. I don't know anyone like that, so there is no one I could ask for help, go out together etc. This even tempts me to get back to porn and fapping.
Your 24 and you just thought about this now, I was thinking about women and having girlfriends when I was 12. Took me a few more years to get laid but I was thinking about it even if it was just jerking my meat missile to a Farrah Fawcet poster
 

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I know I'm an absolute piece of sh*t. At least know I start thinking about it, but you bring up an excellent point. Why the phuck would any woman want to be with a dickmuncher like me if there are loads of normal dudes. Food for thought.
 

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I know I'm an absolute piece of sh*t. At least know I start thinking about it, but you bring up an excellent point. Why the phuck would any woman want to be with a dickmuncher like me if there are loads of normal dudes. Food for thought.

Stop, just stop. A relationship with a woman is about a lot more than putting your dick inside her. So you are a 24 year old virgin, I can acknowledge that you are at an age where a majority of people are no longer virgins. But that only relates to sex which, again, is only a small part of a relationship. You say you have no problem talking and interacting with people, including women. Are you a decent guy? Fun/funny? Smart? Kind? Something good? Stop calling yourself names...think of something about yourself that is good and focus on that.

FYI, when you think all this negative stuff about yourself you project it to the world. Women can pick up on this immediately. So first, how about working on thinking of yourself as a normal, good person? Believe it and it will show through...then people will want to be with you. Digging this one out for you...I am the king of negative thought about myself...at least I used to be.


https://www.pegym.com/forums/relationship-forum/67818-negative-thoughts-self-blaming.html
 

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I you believe that you are a massive loser, why would anyone argue with you?
 

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Just have to look at the big picture and think realistically - why would any woman want a porn-addict virgin if there are lots and lots of better guys. I'd say that any woman, even the fattest and ugliest, has a better option.
 

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Quit your whining and change your life then. Seems pretty simple to me.
 

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Food for thought? Okay....

How can you expect someone to like you, if you can't like yourself?

If you are only looking for the negative, how will you even see the positive?

Trying and not getting positive results is not failure, it's experience. Learn, adapt, and move forward.

When you think everything is hopeless, remember that there are possibly hundreds of thousands of people out there that have it much worse. And yet, every day, they pick themselves up and give it another go. Why? Because today is a new day, with new possibilities.

All the time, you are presented with new opportunities, whether you see them or not. You have two choices, take it or leave it. If you leave it, you are guaranteed no change. If you take it, things might change, or they might not. But you'll never know if you never try.

There's some good advice in here from people that are willing to help, free of charge and based off life experience.

"Happiness is a choice, and positivity is all about perspective. Change your outlook, and you change your outcome."
 
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If you had an option between a broken 12 inch black&white TV or a new 3D smart 64inch TV which one would you choose? Of course the new, better one. Why would anyone choose the worse option.
That's what I'm trying to explain about women and me and other dudes. If they have better options why to choose something bad. If I was a woman I wouldn't choose someone like me. Common sense, no?
 
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NO! Just remember there's an ass for every seat!
 

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Why does everyone think that thinking realistically about stuff if it's bad is whining?
 

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I know I'm an absolute piece of sh*t. At least know I start thinking about it, but you bring up an excellent point. Why the phuck would any woman want to be with a dickmuncher like me if there are loads of normal dudes. Food for thought.

You are correct, your an absolute piece of sh*t, a complete pile of crocodile pooh, nothing more than an ass munching but sniffing whining loser and a pathetic example of a man, not even a man, a nutless wonder that deserves what he gets...............until you stop thinking this way.

Tell yourself you are worthless and you are correct, tell yourself you deserve something better in life and work to get it and you will, your mind, your choice.
 

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If you had an option between a broken 12 inch black&white TV or a new 3D smart 64inch TV which one would you choose? Of course the new, better one. Why would anyone choose the worse option.
That's what I'm trying to explain about women and me and other dudes. If they have better options why to choose something bad. If I was a woman I wouldn't choose someone like me. Common sense, no?

Either your a troll or your just a whiner, neg reps to you for being one or the other, you have taken 10 pages and done nothing but cry. No one likes a cry baby and maybe that is your biggest issue, stop crying and start doing.
 
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