Edging Problem!

[taxman]

In my routine, which consists of just jelqing and edging, (warmup and down of course), i find it difficult to do edge effectively. When I`m edging I get too close to ejaculate too quickly. I know this is what edging consists of but when it gets to the point where I`ll go completly soft to get away from the closeness of ejaculation, but than when i`m bringing the erection back up, ejaculation feels close again and i could even be at lets say 50% erection level. has anyone else experienced such an issue with jelqing

 

[Steve23]

Edge slower if you get to PONR too fast, maybe instead of stopping try to kegel at PONR then continue, there's many things YOU can try out yourself to see what works best for you.

 

[taxman]

I try and kegel but my kegels aren`t strong enough to pass ejaculation yet. i ll try slower but i don`t think i edge fast to begin with

 

[Steve23]

Read up on the edging and ballooning 101, they say stuff like start lower on the shaft and slowly work up to where it's most sensitve and if you feel too much arousal slow down and bring your hand lower on the shaft again etc.

 

[Pegasus]

Are you doing reverse kegels in your k/rk routine?

 

[taxman]

Read up on the edging and ballooning 101, they say stuff like start lower on the shaft and slowly work up to where it's most sensitve and if you feel too much arousal slow down and bring your hand lower on the shaft again etc.

ok i`ll read up on it later, kinda busy, hopefully it helps

 

[taxman]

Are you doing reverse kegels in your k/rk routine?

am not doing reverse kegels, the only time i do them in a routine is when i get to the ponr, so it`s not enough to get them to get stronger, when in a routine would you recommend doing them

 

[Cantona7]

@taxman
Reverse Kegels are very beneficial for someone like you. You should form a routine and do it separately. You don't have to accommodate in your PE session. I do reverse before I go to sleep. You don't have to warm up or down. Just needs sheer concentration and consistency.
A beginner routine would look something like this:
One day on one day off for first two weeks:
20 5 sec holds
10 10 sec holds

5 days on two days off for next two weeks:
30 5 sec holds
10 sec holds

5 days on two days off for next two weeks:
40 5 sec holds
20 10 sec holds
....and so on once you reach 60 5 sec holds 40 10 sec holds, switch it to just 100 10 sec holds or increase the hold time to 20 secs or even 30 secs
you have a strong reverse kegel if you can hold it for 1 minute, but 30 secs is also good.
Note: It has to be progressive, don't overwork it.