From Your experience

[RiDICKulous]

helpmeout-
You have a good size. Especially your girth. Be proud man. 5.5 girth puts you in like the top 15% for girth and your prob in like the top 25% for length. No girl will call you small if that's what your worried about.

 

[BTBrian]

If the average was much larger than what it is then girls wouldn't think 8x6 is huge. But whenever you hear stories about guys with an 8x6 all the comments they've gotten about it are "it's HUGE!!!" and stuff like that. If the average was 7" then 8" wouldn't be considered huge, it would be big or above average.

I'm very close to 7" right now and I've never gotten comments on it (I haven't gotten around either though) but I felt big for the first time in my life last time I got any (this last weekend). For the first time the girl couldn't go all the way down on me which has never happened before, and I've always gotten SOME teeth during bjs, but this time I was getting A LOT of teeth. It kinda sucked. I think it was a combination of me growing and the girl having a little smaller mouth than some.

And I think a girl can tell the difference of probably about .25" in length and about .1" in girth honestly. But what difference does that make anyways, your "penis sized penis" thing just helps the argument that women don't really think of penis size as very important.

 

[helpmeout]

Well teeth is a girth issue more than a length issue. At 5.5 inch girth i get teeth alot, but not to the point where its painful. And Akin, thats the part i cant wrap my head around. I just cant see myself being in the top 25 percent for length. I feel like almost all of my friends are the same size if not larger than me. But have I seen them erect... no. So I guess I am going from what they and other women have told me. Which technically means nothing I guess haha

 

[BTBrian]

Well teeth is a girth issue more than a length issue. At 5.5 inch girth i get teeth alot, but not to the point where its painful. And Akin, thats the part i cant wrap my head around. I just cant see myself being in the top 25 percent for length. I feel like almost all of my friends are the same size if not larger than me. But have I seen them erect... no. So I guess I am going from what they and other women have told me. Which technically means nothing I guess haha

Yea I know I meant I felt large all around, my girth has gained a little too And yea, what people say they are is rarely true. It might be a legit measure but they probably didn't measure the right way. And girls have no idea. To girls and 8x6 is probably like "average" most of them have literally no clue how big a penis measures.

 

[IHaveAHugeNick]

Have you found that most of the women you have been with have found your 6 bpel to be a common size?

Most said nice things like "wow, you're big" but I now know it was in reference to my girth. I'm 40 and yet up to a few months ago, I had no idea what average girth was. I knew I was average in length, but since I had never seen anything about girth measurements, I thought I was maybe a bit bigger than average.

I did have a couple of GF's mention ex-boyfriend's penis sizes. I usually was a little bigger or a little smaller in length comparison. Girth, I was always bigger. Since women don't tend to measure every penis they encounter, I never heard sizes. So, most women can't reassure a guy that his penis is average. They can only tell you that you're a little bigger/smaller or the same as past lovers. I doubt most women can even say what average is in inches. The can probably show you (with her hands spread apart) what the average size she's had.

My experiences have taught me that most women (I've been with) value how good of a lover you are, way more than penis size. I really think size is only an issue if you're at one extreme or the other. Really small or really big might be an issue in the bedroom. But anyone close to average or a little below/above are worried for nothing.

 

[helpmeout]

Wow, I didn't even see that you had a 6 inch girth. That must look HUGE to women. This reinforces the fact that girth may matter more than length. Huge girth with an average length gets "Big" comments. I just looked at your pictures, holey crap. I see your penis and it looks like it dwarfs mine.

 

[IHaveAHugeNick]

Wow, I didn't even see that you had a 6 inch girth. That must look HUGE to women. I wish I had a 6 inch girth, but in all honesty I have absolutely no complaints about my 5.5.

That's because your 5.5" is a lot bigger than average. That's what so many guys here can't wrap their heads around. They think 6.5 and 7 are good girth goals! Crazy. I don't want any more girth at all.

My take on why you feel you need a bigger penis is simple. Men feel they need/want a bigger penis. Can't be explained. Some measure so much smaller than average that it makes sense. But average guys, above average guys, and even really big guys are all here doing PE. It's akin to so many women saying they're fat when they clearly aren't or are average in size (which is a little fat, but nothing wrong with it). It's just a body image insecurity or in this case, penis image.

 

[BTBrian]

I really think size is only an issue if you're at one extreme or the other. Really small or really big might be an issue in the bedroom. But anyone close to average or a little below/above are worried for nothing.

I couldn't possibly agree more with this statement

 

[Padawan787]

For the first time the girl couldn't go all the way down on me which has never happened before

All of your previous partners have known how to deep throat then? My girlfriend can only go a bit farther than my glans, and i'm not particularly long. I think that is pretty normal to be honest

 

[BTBrian]

All of your previous partners have known how to deep throat then? My girlfriend can only go a bit farther than my glans, and i'm not particularly long. I think that is pretty normal to be honest

Yea I suppose maybe I've just gotten lucky all the girls I've been with except one gave amazing head

 

[BigO]

I started at 6 x 5.5 and before PE I had more than one comment about having a fat one. Helpmeout, your good and you shouldnt feel small. I always thought they were just being nice by saying that about me but after seeing average I realized the comments were true. I am now at 6 MEG and I also do not want any more girth.
There was a comment about guys measuring wrong if they didnt know PE andthis is true because I used to measure from the side when I was younger, not to lie but because I didnt know better . When I figured out how to measure correctly it sure sucked to lose an inch in 15 seconds. I gained it back and i am happier than smiling Bob

 

[helpmeout]

Yeah, I actually was going to say the same thing. I'm 6 inches non bone pressed and most girls cant even remotely get all the way down on me. To think that you just started having problems with a 7 incher, I want to live where the women you know live haha

 

[BTBrian]

Yeah, I actually was going to say the same thing. I'm 6 inches non bone pressed and most girls cant even remotely get all the way down on me. To think that you just started having problems with a 7 incher, I want to live where the women you know live haha

I'm only about 6 inches non bone pressed too though, my (near) 7 incher is bone pressed

 

[CaptainJohnson]

I'm only about 6 inches non bone pressed too though, my (near) 7 incher is bone pressed

My girl can take all of me, but not early in penetration. Also, in certain g-spot focused positions, I only use maybe half of my length to stimulate her, because putting the whole thing in, on that angle, causes her serious pain. If one of the easiest positions to cause g-spot stimulation only requires 3-4 inches insertion, I think basically every guy is fine unless they have some serious micro-penis.

 

[Going411x7]

It's weird man. I just don't get it. It's completely and utterly delusional to think otherwise when presented with 10+ studies on size, plus a 4000 vote self measured survey at Th***ers P**ce that puts the avg around 6 or less BPEL, to believe that the avg is still almost an inch above that. If someone was just an unbiased onlooker, they'd think we're cooks... and we most likely are. But it doesn't help the image in our minds.

I too feel that when faced with this mountain of information, all pointing to the same conclusion, I still do not believe it. I feel like everyone is either the same or bigger than me. But again, to think of 10+ studies plus a 4000 vote survey, all being wrong, lends me to believe the problem lies in our heads and not in our dicks. However that realization never helps me even though I am able to recognize that. Probably the only way I would ever actually get over this is if I saw a bunch of normal men erect in person, which, unless my life takes a crazy turn, will probably never happen .

One of the guys said earlier in the thread that he had a 6.75 bpel and got multiple comments on size. So I don't know what to believe. It would be logical to believe the studies and surveys instead of believing what men and women say by word of mouth, but I guess logic does not apply in our situation, because no matter how hard I try to look at it objectively, it never helps.

I don't care how small your cock is, when it swells up with pride, a woman will comment on how large it is. It's kind of
a magical thing to a woman--and to a male when he first gets erections.

The Thunder's study (I've read it) seems to hit the nail on the head. I always thought my cock was
average until I started to practice p.e. and then joined Thunder's.

Mind you, I started at 7.75".

 

[helpmeout]

One other thing that has hurt my confidence and made my general distrust for penis size surveys is amateur porn. I'm not talking about studio porn where they try to make it look amateur, i'm talking about legitimate "regular people just screwin around in front of a camera" type amateur porn. I've noticed that almost all of the dicks seem to be bigger than mine. Now, granted, you are not going to want to be on camera with a small penis, that is understood. But if 6 bone pressed is the real average, how is it that at almost 7 bpel, everyone on amateur porn still looks bigger than me? Even sextapes that were accidentally leaked (Like fred dursts) feature dicks that look at least 6.5 nbpel if not more. I dont understand the abundance of these types of videos. You think if the average is 6 bone pressed, the leaked sex tapes might be around 6 bone pressed.

 

[Jayj]

One other thing that has hurt my confidence and made my general distrust for penis size surveys is amateur porn. I'm not talking about studio porn where they try to make it look amateur, i'm talking about legitimate "regular people just screwin around in front of a camera" type amateur porn. I've noticed that almost all of the dicks seem to be bigger than mine. Now, granted, you are not going to want to be on camera with a small penis, that is understood. But if 6 bone pressed is the real average, how is it that at almost 7 bpel, everyone on amateur porn still looks bigger than me? Even sextapes that were accidentally leaked (Like fred dursts) feature dicks that look at least 6.5 nbpel if not more. I dont understand the abundance of these types of videos. You think if the average is 6 bone pressed, the leaked sex tapes might be around 6 bone pressed.

Because your penis will always look smaller to you! Not only because of self-confidence issues but also because of your point of view. Remember that you're always looking at your penis from ABOVE.

With that angle and perspective, your penis simply looks smaller.

Try something: take pictures of yourself from afar, or watch at yourself in front of a mirror... I can assure you: you will see a difference

Those guys in amateur porn are not "that big" (keeping in mind of course that guys with small dicks are more seldom in amateur porn yes), but the angle, the point of view isn't their eyes, but the camera lens

 

[helpmeout]

I look at myself in the mirror and appear tiny too. Certain pictures make it look okay but other than that I still look small to myself no matter what I do.


Heres an example of my worry about size. Take this thread, almost everyone if not everyone commenting is 6.0 bpel or above. Not one below as far as I can tell. If people who are under 6 bpel don't even have the confidence to post on a message board (as it seems primarily that the bigger guys are the posters, but the sizs surveys on the website indicate a ton of average/small guy lurkers), than what kindof confidence will they have with women? Thats why I feel like the avg for all of society is 6 bpel. But the dicks women see are 6BPEL and up with very little from the men below.

 

[Hopeful&dedicated]

I look at myself in the mirror and appear tiny too. Certain pictures make it look okay but other than that I still look small to myself no matter what I do.


Heres an example of my worry about size. Take this thread, almost everyone if not everyone commenting is 6.0 bpel or above. Not one below as far as I can tell. If people who are under 6 bpel don't even have the confidence to post on a message board (as it seems primarily that the bigger guys are the posters, but the sizs surveys on the website indicate a ton of average/small guy lurkers), than what kindof confidence will they have with women? Thats why I feel like the avg for all of society is 6 bpel. But the dicks women see are 6BPEL and up with very little from the men below.

I feel ya. I have huge palms and it does not make my unit look flattering when being held.

 

[helpmeout]

Yeah, but you have a big dick, plain and simple haha