Penis size: The only thing that matters?

[Hooligangsta]

I'm not following ..... dedicated enough in what regard?

I believe UYN means not dedicated enough in regards to the discussion about men acheiving the muscular bodies of the movie 300. I doubt if any man was given the option to have a well scupted body without all the work, that they would say no. UYN said that people have always wanted bodies like that but never had enough will power, or desire to work their ways to such bodies. UYN post's mentioned that men have been trying to achieve this physique for decades, while you reinforced his point by saying that men have been sculpting their bodies since ancient Greece. Furthermore, this was an analogy to be made with the size of penises, people don't have the dedication or don't want to put all that work into getting a larger/healthier penis.

And yes that was uncalled for. People have this misconception of what argueing is. People nowadays associate argueing with fighting and not a intellectual discussion where two oppositions debate in order to come to a conclusion to an issue. Argueing is always healthy when done correctly. Don't take things personally if we disagree with you, we are merely trying to defend our point and progress this discussion further.

 

[UYN]

I'm not following ..... dedicated enough in what regard?

As in even though PE will be more acknowledged in the coming decades(I hope, but I am just going on what stumpy said), few people will have the dedication to commit fully to PE. Hope this made more sense.

-UYN-

 

[Trotsky slaying thedragon]

I'm unsure where the discussion of this post is getting to, but I believe the OP is stating that penis size is starting to take more importance in the present day. I like the passage on porn and how women come in all shapes and sizes in porn and the male has one common feature: a big dick. However, I don't believe penis size is really a priority for most women's (leaving aside size queens). Even speaking strickly about sex and not a relationship, I feel that most women are interested in the whole experience and not just the size of your dick. That being said, I'm sure all women have a size preference, just like men have preferences for female features. That doesn't mean we can't work we what we get.

Again, I don't think it comes down to preferences, and I believe it's separate from the relationship factor.

I can see a woman being interested in a man for a variety of reasons; and placing less emphasis on sex than he does. However, the baseline judgement on sex is penis size for women, and men really don't have one.

In other words, in sex, men have preferences and kinks. Women are black and white. This is an attitude that is encouraged today. That's what I think is happening.

 

[Batwoman]

However, the baseline judgement on sex is penis size for women, and men really don't have one.

In other words, in sex, men have preferences and kinks. Women are black and white.

Nope, I don't agree. Did anyone read my last post?

 

[CUSP82]

Yup I did!!!

 

[Hooligangsta]

Cock size would not even be on my list.

I understand that the whole experience is more important that the size of someone's penis, but I still believe that it does have some importance. Yes it might be hidden somewhere at the bottom of your list, however it is still there.

You have Guy A. He has all the qualities you mentioned in your post.
You have Guy B. He has all the qualities you mentioned + he has a ideal penis (ideal to your standards)

I believe its obvious which of the two you would pick. This does not make you superficial, it just makes you human. Everyone has a perference for everything. The OP said he would do anything to be more pleasant to his women, and his penis size, even though of small importance to her, is still a "factor".

 

[Batwoman]

Oh, you guys will never learn, will you? Penis size just isn't that important to women -- even though you can make a million stories about how it is.
Dental hygiene is WAY more important, but how many of you pay a lot of attention to that, huh?

Work on being a good person and a thoughtful lover, and you will do much better than if you are always worrying about the size of your cock!

 

[GTO]

As in even though PE will be more acknowledged in the coming decades(I hope, but I am just going on what stumpy said), few people will have the dedication to commit fully to PE. Hope this made more sense.

-UYN-

Ah, gotcha. And I TOTALLY agree. We can see it already with the billion-dollar industry hocking 'enlargement' pills ...

 

[NP97]

Oh, you guys will never learn, will you? Penis size just isn't that important to women -- even though you can make a million stories about how it is.
Dental hygiene is WAY more important, but how many of you pay a lot of attention to that, huh?

Work on being a good person and a thoughtful lover, and you will do much better than if you are always worrying about the size of your cock!

You say that so much! How could it be true?!?!?!?!

 

[Hooligangsta]

However, the baseline judgement on sex is penis size for women, and men really don't have one.

Like I have said, I agree with this to some extent. I said that I found the small bit on gender in porn interesting. For sex, and sex only, penis size does have some importance, but very minimal. The nature of you post seems to assume two people appear in a room naked with absolutely no knowledge of the others personality or characteristics or skills in bed, and there are to judge how "good" the other gender would be at having sex. This scenario is unrealistic. Other factors will always play a role when it comes to "judging" your sex abilities. Also, it think its unfair to assume women would not fall into the same dilemma. Given this same unrealistic scenario, I believe men would judge women on their physical appearance and how pretty they are.

Maybe, I still don't comprehend the context of your post, and that I'm missing a point your trying to make.

 

[Hooligangsta]

Penis size just isn't that important to women -- even though you can make a million stories about how it is.
Work on being a good person and a thoughtful lover, and you will do much better than if you are always worrying about the size of your cock!

I agree there are more important things than penis size, like dental care, and that you should focus on other areas. But, if you work on all these other areas while being involved in your penis size, wouldn't that be optimal?

 

[CUSP82]

Boys, the only woman on here has rendered her opinion. Life is not porn, it's not what people kid around about talking in bars, and it's just not dick size. Why don't you listen to her and make your lives easier! ( personally I'm afraid to NOT listen to her)

 

[GTO]

However, the baseline judgement on sex is penis size for women, and men really don't have one.

Like I have said, I agree with this to some extent. I said that I found the small bit on gender in porn interesting. For sex, and sex only, penis size does have some importance, but very minimal. The nature of you post seems to assume two people appear in a room naked with absolutely no knowledge of the others personality or characteristics or skills in bed, and there are to judge how "good" the other gender would be at having sex. This scenario is unrealistic. Other factors will always play a role when it comes to "judging" your sex abilities. Also, it think its unfair to assume women would not fall into the same dilemma. Given this same unrealistic scenario, I believe men would judge women on their physical appearance and how pretty they are.

Maybe, I still don't comprehend the context of your post, and that I'm missing a point your trying to make.

You will run into all types - ones that care about size, ones that don't. There are no blanket rules.

 

[Batwoman]

I have no problem with guys who want a larger penis because they think it would be fun -- go for it! But I think it is sad that some men think it is necessary to have a larger penis to be an acceptable male or sex partner for a woman.

 

[Hooligangsta]

I have no problem with guys who want a larger penis because they think it would be fun -- go for it! But I think it is sad that some men think it is necessary to have a larger penis to be an acceptable male or sex partner for a woman.

Completely agreed.

 

[GTO]

I have no problem with guys who want a larger penis because they think it would be fun -- go for it! But I think it is sad that some men think it is necessary to have a larger penis to be an acceptable male or sex partner for a woman.

While I agree with you, it's not that far fetched, you gotta admit. Women do the same thing with breast implants, buttock implants, etc. There's no difference really.

 

[Hooligangsta]

This just means people have a misconception of what sex is or should be. Male and female have insecurities that are simply dillusional. I doubt GettinThereOk would judge women on the size of her breast.

 

[Batwoman]

While I agree with you, it's not that far fetched, you gotta admit. Women do the same thing with breast implants, buttock implants, etc. There's no difference really.

I feel the same way about female "enhancement" as I do about men who want a larger penis: if a lady wants breast implants or whatever because she thinks it would be fun and would like the way it makes her look, fine. But if she thinks they are necessary to make her an acceptable female or sex partner, then that is just misguided and sad.

 

[Dante311]

I feel the same way about female "enhancement" as I do about men who want a larger penis: if a lady wants breast implants or whatever because she thinks it would be fun and would like the way it makes her look, fine. But if she thinks they are necessary to make her an acceptable female or sex partner, then that is just misguided and sad.

I truly believe from the pre-pubescent to late teens.. into college age... media and internet had publicized sex-appeal and the expected ideal for image, sex icons, and what these easily persuaded kids (myself included unfortunately) should believe... it's amazing how malleable we truly are as a society based on the drastic shift of societal norms to what they are today. Vulgarities... partial nudity now acceptable? 30-40 years ago, it was taboo.

I believe many girls (and some women) believe the ideal is a large penis... the funny thing is, 6" is usually large to them, with the thought that the 6" is 7-8"...

 

[GTO]

This just means people have a misconception of what sex is or should be. Male and female have insecurities that are simply dillusional. I doubt GettinThereOk would judge women on the size of her breast.

Who, me? Nah, not me ... no, never LOL!

Believe me, I've done that stupid sh*t a couple of times back when I was stupid and didn't know any better, and I learned my lesson. The tits were pretty big - and that's all they had. No personality or substance at all.

I feel the same way about female "enhancement" as I do about men who want a larger penis: if a lady wants breast implants or whatever because she thinks it would be fun and would like the way it makes her look, fine. But if she thinks they are necessary to make her an acceptable female or sex partner, then that is just misguided and sad.

Sad, I agree. But true.