Penis size: The only thing that matters?

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Man, I would hardly call 5.5-5.7 in girth small! lol, 6 BPEL is average, at 5.7, you are quite above average :)

Well thanks, but like the rest of us on here, I've never once viewed my package as being anything more then average. And often times felt it was rediculously small. Even after the many experiences I've had. In fact, of the women I know I was too small for, it caused me major performance anxiety.

The best gift a woman can give a man sexually, is to really make him feel like he's it. Like he has the whole deal going on. If she can do that, chances are she'll get what she wants and that is a confident and compitent lover. Put him down, directly, or even indrectly, or make him feel insecure and it's done over. At least that has always been my experience.
 

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They call that love; try it sometimes.It's nice.

Been in love twice in my life. My high school sweetheart who left me for a guy with a huge pecker and told me about it...and the most loving caring woman to set foot on this planet. Literally my soulmate. We couldn't get enough of each other in every way if we tried. She died following post surgery complications......
 

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Been in love twice in my life. My high school sweetheart who left me for a guy with a huge pecker and told me about it...and the most loving caring woman to set foot on this planet. Literally my soulmate. We couldn't get enough of each other in every way if we tried. She died following post surgery complications......

That just blew the wind out of me. I am sorry for your loss.

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Me too. I am so very, very sorry. My heart breaks for you. :sorry::sorry:
 

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Been in love twice in my life. My high school sweetheart who left me for a guy with a huge pecker and told me about it...and the most loving caring woman to set foot on this planet. Literally my soulmate. We couldn't get enough of each other in every way if we tried. She died following post surgery complications......
I hope I never have to get involved with a girl like the first one. Only one word to describe them: S.L.U.T
 

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The OP is sad, inaccurate on a multitude of levels and could simply be spreading misinformation (trolling) or have a micropenis (1-2 inches) where sex may be a problem. For a relationship, what women want etc..........dick size is way down the list.......I love having this conversation with women and learning.......if a woman is having sex with you - she loves you to some extent. The first thing that attracts a woman or builds the foundation of a relationship is not dick size. No one is exlcuded and quite frankly besides Size queens who usually get the memo long down the road when they based their entire relationship off dick size get the memo. No more than 6-7 inches goes in. Trust me - I've been around the block and know what women want and its much more than dick size. Anyone can be universally loved. Your penis size does not exclude you from love nor is something people often care about or judge you on. Women are in sports and military so that comment didnt make sense and I dont think any woman is cruel or harsh (or calls a man undesirable or incapable) if she prefers a 10 inch cock and gets a 6 unless she is joking. Like I said there is much more and penis size might honestly be the last thing on the list. A man who knows knows this. A real man does not fear loss of love and who would want to be in a relationship where you are being used for your dick size and other elements are missing. I'm 7.25 and 5.75 around and I have never had my penis go all the way in more than 6 inches before hitting the cervix. There is no resentment or jealousy if youre mentally and emotionally sound - be confident with what you have bc itll end up the way its supposed to. A guy with a bigger dick gets no more respect or entitlement than any other man. Ask around not some dude blogging who got banned. The formal factor for judgement is penis size ?? That is so far out and if you discussed this with women they would tell you the same. No wonder this guy got banned - it's the internet so people can spread misinformation or anything. But the truth is : they care but really not that much esp. compared to other qualities in a man. There is no signaling component that gives you more entitlement bc you're penis is larger. This guy quoted a move - I take nothing away from this article or this forum. Most women if you ask them to guess size of your penis - don't even know it! I could go on - bottom line - the OP got banned and for good reason. Penis size is not all that matters to women and is way down the list, anyone can be universally loved regardless of penis size, large penises can also hurt some women - boom another disproven bs from this OP. Women and in sports and military and women are not rude (usually) or corrosive (and that's up to you, no one can make you feel bad), or deem someone incapable or undesirable. The title was a question so i will give the answer - not only is penis size not the only thing that matters it is far down the list of qualities women desire. I dont take anything from this article from the OP - it was illogical, inaccurate, and irresponsible to write such a foolish post. Women feel same about breasts and get those done - woman ive loved the most and been most attracted to had more than just 1 quality - a big rack. Thats common sense and I take nothing from this post from the OP.
 

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Wow this is an old thread .
Why did you feel the need to bring it back from the dead?
 

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No one is going to read that wall of text either.
 

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right so I know, I'm a new user on this site.....this article just popped up on google although it is an old thread. My point was positive and that in the movie the OP posted "Sarah Marshall " every dick in porn is not HUGE.......but porn stars are paid to take viagra, penis pump, and basically that is their job........a porno the guy probably just pumped, jelged, took viagra, and is now ready to go...........I think the few women that would exclude which is why I did not get the military/sports comment bc there certain are depth charts and preferences on who does what (although I have never truly met one) are size queens that if you talk with them for a bit - sure they don't like small penises but don't criticize or call others undesirable or incapable......the math is out there......the cervix is like 5-7 inches in at most, the g spot is 2......ive been with over 500 women and discussed this topic with much more......sex is important - I've had a gf break up with me bc my dick would hit her cervix.....my point is there is different size vaginas and penises and people in general.......its about the match.........Its also about the attitude, if you say hey my penis is 6 inches and thats above avg size and you're confident in your ability thats more important.....ive met girls who prefer even smaller penises bc they were small.......I think the comment in Sarah Marshall or it may have been sex tape is no one cares who the dick is in the porno.....any size dick can be in the porno.......you cannot resent another for their particular preference....and I do think it is similar to a man who says he is not attracted to a woman unless she has DDs.....whatveer that comment was about........there is no resentment......you have what you have and can certainly improve on that........sex/relationships are more than dick size and I think are just as inclusive as anything else. The category of being universally loved.......is there a list? Cristiano Ronaldo is what I would consider to be universally loved.....yet no one knows his dick size for certain and even still there are people out there would do not like him. So to be universally loved - that comment made no sense. I think if you have an above average size dick and know how to use it - can give you universal confidence you can slay any vagina anywhere. If that is what the OP meant semantically then yes ok. But like a category - there is no list - hopefully most people will love you for you and there will be some who don't. Few will know your exact penis dimensions. If you feel otherwise, those are your feelings about yourself which you need to work on. A woman is flattered when considered attractive, she is not immediately wondering what your cock size is and that is the fundamental judgemental factor. That comment didn't make much sense (for their to be 1 factor) and that women are to be loved. Sex/ relationship - both men and women are to be loved. I feel women are judged WAY more and hence the makeup and niptuck. It's about your attitude. I know I posted recently but I saw the post and just wanted to put the truth out there. Attraction in sex or relationship is about the whole package, well rounded. I have women who like my cock when I'm 7 inches and thick as opposed to an 8 inch person they are unattracted to physically, or emotionally, mentally, or in other ways. Sex/relationships and the whole military/sports comment ........that comment just made no sense. Women are in sports and the military. No one is excluded, considered undesirable, or incapable in sex/relationships/ or love. I don't take anything away from the OP, it was a question it appears. So I answered it truthfully and am trying only to put the the truth out there.

*women in a way judged more** (typo)

...And wanted to put the truth out there and be positive. Gains are possible. I started around 5.75 and now Im around 7.25 and 5.5 girth.......anyway my point was I guess the way certain things were phrased by the OP did not make sense or maybe were just not well explained......he went from saying every dick in the porno industry to comparing that to the military.......any dick can be in porno (inclusive) and both men and women are in sports and military .......I have no encountered too many people men/women who go out of their way to be rude about penis size.......using any words like "undesirable or incapable" - I think every one and every penis is desirable and capable ........it takes all types to make a team/the world........also the entitlement comment.........anything including a sense of entitlement which is how the OP phrased it is available to all men regardless of penis size.........so is being loved universally......people love you as a whole package not just your penis .......usually that is reserved to just your S/O or gf if you're single......I see perhaps how having an above avg size penis and being able to use it can give you universal confidence that you can slay any vagina......but a woman doesn't want to have sex simply bc he tells her he has a 10 inch cock bringing me back to more aspects (kn., exp., abbreviations I'm not going into this short post) and the full package that are required for sex/relationships......sex is not first thing to happen unless its like rape .......but true confidence is much more (not going into that whole list) than just the dimensions of your penis. Example : guy may have large cock, but be less attractive in other ways.....bringing me back to the total package aspect body, mind, spirit, emotion of person is what makes sex/relationships. Anyway, I won't be posting regularly. This OP just popped up on google and I wanted to truthfully correct it and put the facts out there. The post was originally a question which I answered anyway not a definitive statement. Anyway, Keep up the hard work and progress!
 
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Last post.....any entitlement/life experience/ signaling component/or being in a category or universally loved (Which I think OP means universally good in the sack) - which does not always correlate to penis dimensions- alll of these things are available to everyone and it has more to do with the attitude and to continue to strive for progress. People love you (universally and locally) - which the OP referred to as a category - for you as a whole. Only s/o or gf's will know your penis size.......everyone's universally loved and in that category - we're all human. Last post.

It's also about not everyone In life will like you.......penis size or not........not caring to an extent about what you cannot control and being your best self is what is about then some abstract, category which I think OP meant as universally good in the sack. People don't love you bc your dick is bigger than 5.15 inches which is the avg size 90% of males erect size is.
 
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I agree with you, if the sentence goes like this:
"I think it is sad that some men think it is necessary to have a larger penis to be an acceptable male or sex partner for any woman."

In reality, some women won't even greet you after they've seen your tiny weenie. You can just put it back in (your pants) and leave. If you're lucky, they don't tell it to their friends. The self-consciousness about penis size isn't born out of fantasy and for some guys it was pure despair (and pain) that led them to this forum. Every guy that has gone through this can only hope to find a woman like you. And even then he can't be sure if you really don't want a bigger penis or if you're just comforting him.

This was a perfect comment for me. I most def can relate. I know exactly what he means when he says just comforting.



Well thanks, but like the rest of us on here, I've never once viewed my package as being anything more then average. And often times felt it was rediculously small. Even after the many experiences I've had. In fact, of the women I know I was too small for, it caused me major performance anxiety.

The best gift a woman can give a man sexually, is to really make him feel like he's it. Like he has the whole deal going on. If she can do that, chances are she'll get what she wants and that is a confident and compitent lover. Put him down, directly, or even indrectly, or make him feel insecure and it's done over. At least that has always been my experience.

This one also hit home for me.
 

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This was a perfect comment for me. I most def can relate. I know exactly what he means when he says just comforting.

You don't have a small penis. You need to work on the anxiety etc.





This one also hit home for me.

You don't have a small penis. You need to work on the anxiety etc.