How to Perform the Master Your Orgasms Exercise (from The Ultimate Guide To Male Enhancement)

The following is taken from Chapter 14: Ways to Treat Premature Ejaculation from The Ultimate Guide To Male Enhancement.

Edited for content

How to Perform the Master Your Orgasms Exercise

Many men never experience the full potential of pleasure they can receive from their sexual encounters. This little–known mental/sexual exercise will take you to levels of pleasure and control you never thought possible.

Step 1:
First, you must find a time and a place in which you will be COMPLETELY undisturbed for 20–30 minutes.

Step 2:
Lie back naked on your bed (or another comfortable surface) and encircle your penis with your thumb, index, and middle finger. Place your middle finger on the sensitive spot directly behind your penis head (glans.) Rub your penis or visualize until it becomes erect.

Step 3:
While maintaining the pressure behind the glans with your middle finger, close your eyes and concentrate as deeply as possible on visualizing yourself performing with the utmost confidence and completely stress free, and in feeling a slight bit of pressure behind the sensitive spot behind the glans. It’s the EMOTIONAL feel of performing in this manner you’ll want to be able to duplicate in real live sexual scenarios.

Mastering Your Orgasms Takes Time

At first, it will probably be difficult to concentrate deeply without a break in concentration for any length of time.  This is where the mantra “practice makes perfect” comes into play. It will probably take a dozen sessions or more of 20–30 minutes before you are able to achieve the very deep level of concentration necessary for this exercise to work.

After you master the technique, your ability to concentrate and focus will become so strong, you will be able to bring yourself to orgasm merely by keeping pressure behind the glans with your middle finger and
concentrating on the feel of the movement! Some very light rubbing is acceptable.  Some men have even reported multiple orgasms from following this technique!

Once you have mastered this technique, you will then be able to fully appreciate the pleasures of sex!

NOTE: Keep in mind some men will not be able to achieve orgasm without movement. If this describes your situation, once you come as close to climaxing as mere pressure and concentration will allow, you can jiggle your penis just enough to push you over the edge into climax.

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In-Depth stamina Training Questions: Ask The Experts

Big Al, of MaleEnhancementCoach.com, answers questions about Lengthening Devices, Client Study & Sexual Recovery/Training in this Ask the Experts article.

If you have questions you’d like answered in an Ask the Experts article, please PM Big Al.

Q. By the time I’m done I’m tired and it’s a struggle to get the proper erection levels.

…Can I just do the stamina stuff first? Why do you recommend doing stamina exercises at the end of a workout?

Big Al: There are deliberate reasons for putting the stamina exercises at the end of a workout:

-Stamina exercises in and of themselves become better ENLARGEMENT exercises after the tissues have been pre-stretched with more traditional enlargement exercises like Squeezes and stretches.

-If one can get to the point to where they can perform a successful stamina session after a thorough enlargement workout, then performing fresh for sexual activity will be much less of a challenge. This is true on physical and psychological levels.

-The Stop and Starts usually ends in ejaculation. Ejaculating and then attempting to train immediately afterwards can be uncomfortable.

Q. When you talk about emotional visualizations and not fantasizing about sex, this makes it harder for me to perform.

…What is your reasoning behind this? Are there any exceptions to this rule?

Big Al: It’s understandable that using erotic imagery- porn or mental fantasies- make the process of getting and maintaining an erection easier. The main reason why you want to ensure you’re not using erotic imagery in your training is that it creates a conditioning effect.

Here’s a very common example: You’re having sex and your penis starts to falter in it’s erection a bit. You go into your mind and think about whatever you typically use to masturbate to- a favorite porn clip, a prior scenario, etc. What normally happens is you achieve the desired effect- your penis gets erect, and you finish the session.

Afterwards, you ask yourself why do I have to think about other things when I’m with a live partner? As before, the reason is conditioning. By learning to develop focus on what you’re feeling during manual Stop and Starts, you learn to extract maximum sensory benefit from the activity. That way, when you’re engaging in live sexual activity you’ll be able to focus solely on your partner and not have to rely on mental erotic imagery.

There’s an exception to this rule. If you’re in a committed relationship you can fantasize about your partner. That way, you’re matching up what’s in your mind to reality.

Q. I find it’s easier to maintain an erection if I perform a lot of Kegels during my Stop and Starts.

…Is this OK?

Big Al: A well timed Kegel can be useful in helping to hold back or accelerate erections. When the process is refined, it can even allow one to experience Male Multiple Orgasm (MMO). Even the occasional Kegels during the movement to give your erection a boost is OK, but you don’t want to spend the entire Stop and Starts session Kegeling.

One reason is overtraining. If you follow a standard stamina protocol you’re going to be performing Kegels before your Stop and Starts. A more vital reason is negative conditioning. MANY who’ve Kegeled excessively during Stop and Starts eventually find they have to Kegel constantly just to maintain an erection. For obvious reasons, this isn’t a requirement you want to impose upon yourself.