5 reasons for low sex drive in men these days and how to treat it

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Key Points

‧ 1 in 5 men experience low libido.

‧ There could be several reasons why men experience low libido or ED (Erectile Dysfunction).

‧ Stress can cause low libido through different feedback loops.

01/7 Reasons for lack of sexual desire

Among every 5 men 1 faces the problem of low libido due to various reasons like stress or hormonal imbalances that make them want to avoid any kind of sexual activity. Yet, sometimes a loss of sex desire is a symptom of a deeper issue. Men’s decrease of sex desire can frequently be attributed to depression, stress, drunkenness, illicit drug usage, and weariness.

Here are several reasons why men may experience low sex drive:

02/7 ​​Stress: ​

High levels of stress can affect testosterone levels and reduce sex drive. If a person is distracted by a certain situation or goes through severe mental pressure, then his sexual drive decreases.

03/7​​ Hormonal imbalances:​

Dr. Caranj S.V., M.B.B.S., M.S. (General Surgery), M.Ch. (Urology), Medical expert with Kindly Health says, “Issues such as low testosterone levels, can lead to decreased sex drive. Men who have hypogonadism are determined to struggle with the problem of low testosterone levels estimated below 300 ng/dl. Such men face a lack of urge for any sexual activity.

04/7 ​​Medications: ​

Some medications can have side effects that reduce sex drive, such as antidepressants and blood pressure medications. Men taking radiation treatments or chemotherapy for cancer suffer from decreased sex drive along with those who take anabolic steroids like sportsmen.

05/7​​ Poor lifestyle habits: ​

Poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, consumption of excessive alcohol, and drug use can all contribute to low sex drive. Also, if proper sleep and rest are not taken then that also creates problems and causes low sex drive.

06/7 ​​Relationship issues: ​

Problems with a partner, such as communication issues or unresolved conflicts, can reduce sexual desire.

07/7​​ The solution to low sex drive in men include:​

Addressing stress: Finding ways to manage stress, such as through exercise, meditation, or therapy, can help improve sex drive. Adopting a healthier lifestyle: Cessation of smoking, eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, and reducing alcohol and drug use can all help improve sex drive. Treating hormonal imbalances: According to Dr. Caranj, “If low testosterone levels are the cause, hormone replacement therapy may be necessary.” Addressing relationship issues: Working with a partner to address communication issues and resolve conflicts can help improve sexual desire. Switching medications: If medication side effects are the cause, switching to a different medication may be necessary.

Does sex count as exercise?

By Gretchen Reynolds
February 15, 2023 at 4:15 p.m. EST

This article is a repost which originally appeared on The Washington Post

Edited for content. The opinions expressed in this article may not reflect the opinions of this site’s editors, staff or members.

Key Points

‧ Sexual activity counts as physical exercise.

‧ The more fit you are, the further you can engage in vigorous sexual activities without impediments.

‧ Contrary to popular belief, sex before exercise does not negatively affect performance.

Whether it’s Valentine’s Day, the next day or pretty much any day throughout the entirety of a typical year, many couples will be indulging in sexual relations. Some, glancing at their activity trackers or watchers, might idly wonder, so, are we exercising right now?

Curious scientists have wondered, too. Sexual activity is a popular and pleasing way to spend 32.38 minutes (more on that later). But is it physically intense or leisurely? Can it burn as many calories as jogging, or is it more like a mild stroll? Does it spike heart rates? Can it initiate heart attacks? And what if you have a big competition tomorrow? Should you remain chaste tonight?

Given the prevalence of sexual relations — it may be the physical activity least likely to be skipped — the answers matter, and a bevy of recent studies offer preliminary answers, including some surprising new statistics about the typical age of someone who experiences a “sudden cardiovascular arrest” during sexual relations and the extent to which exercise improves sexual function and satisfaction.

But probably the most pressing question about sex and exercise is, “Is sex exercise?”

The answer, in various ways, appears to be yes. In a review article published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, researchers at the University of Almería and the University of Murcia in Spain gathered every past study they could find that examined the physical exertions involved in coitus.

There weren’t many. As an activity, intercourse is difficult to study, for reasons ranging from politeness to politics. The studies the researchers found involved mainly committed, heterosexual couples, usually married, who often visited a lab for scientific observation of their exertions. On occasion, the coitus took place at the volunteers’ homes. Some of the couples wore heart rate monitors or other trackers. Others were filmed and their movement patterns analyzed. No one was blinded as to whether sex was taking place.

But even with these limitations, patterns emerged, the Spanish researchers found.

Sex counts as moderate exercise

Most obviously, sexual relations sped up the heart and burned through energy. In the studies in which people wore trackers, heart rates averaged between 90 and 130 beats per minute and peaked at anywhere from 145 to 170 bpm. Women’s heart rates tended to be lower than men’s.

The average caloric burn during intercourse also ranged widely, depending on people’s positioning, gender and more ineffable factors, such as whether they were at home or under observation at the lab. In one study, total energy expenditure during a single session of sexual activity reached 130 calories, while in another experiment, it topped out at about 101 calories for men and 69 calories for women.

These measurements indicate that “sexual activity can cause physical demands of moderate or even vigorous intensity,” said José M. Muyor, a professor at the Health Research Centre at the University of Almería, who led the review study.

The numbers are similar to those for a gentle run, except for the heart rate peaks, which rose higher than typical while jogging, and usually during orgasm, which is uncommon then.

As for the length of the sexual episodes, they likewise varied. In young, healthy couples in one study, sex lasted for an average of 32.38 minutes, while it continued for only about 19 minutes in another study among couples with health conditions, such as heart disease.

In all of the studies, duration was considered to start with foreplay and end with the male orgasm. Whether those parameters adequately capture the experience of both partners is disputable, but “we are limited to describing the methods and protocols that each study conducted,” Muyor said.

Can sex stop your heart?

Other researchers recently have been probing whether sex, while briefly invigorating hearts, might also, under certain circumstances, stop them — and not metaphorically.

A noteworthy 2022 study in JAMA Cardiology, for instance, of casualties in London due to sudden cardiac arrest within an hour of sexual relations found that such deaths were reassuringly uncommon.

Of 6,847 fatal sudden cardiac arrests referred to one pathology center in London between 1994 and 2020, only 17 occurred during or almost immediately after intercourse.

But of those 17, six were women, which was unexpected, and most were relatively young. The mean age was 38.

Similarly, a 2018 study in Paris of people who survived sudden cardiac arrests between 2011 and 2016 found that about 0.6 percent, or 17 in total, all of them men and most in their 50s, went into cardiac arrest during or soon after sex. By comparison, 229 of the other cases occurred during sports or other exercise, and 2,782 in other situations.

Interestingly, resuscitation attempts on the men who became afflicted during or soon after sex tended to begin later than in the other situations, perhaps because of partners’ disbelief or “some degree of embarrassment,” said Eloi Marijon, a professor of cardiology at Paris University and co-author of the study.

“We do not have the marital status of the partners,” he added.

But the primary finding of his and other research in this area is that cardiac arrests during or due to sex remain vanishingly rare, he said. And the more someone engages in intercourse, the more the risks drop.

“During any physical activity,” he said, including sex, “the risk of cardiac arrest is higher than at rest.” But hearts, like other muscles, strengthen and grow more resistant to arrest the more people exert themselves, including with sex. “Sexual activity,” he said, “should not be seen as a riskful situation.”

Sex does not weaken legs

It also is unlikely to compromise tomorrow’s competition or workout, despite widespread myths to the contrary. (“Women weaken legs,” Rocky’s trainer warned him in the 1976 film.)

A 2022 review published in Scientific Reports concluded that “sexual activity within 30 [minutes] to 24 [hours] before exercise does not appear to affect aerobic fitness, musculoskeletal endurance or strength/power.”

The review, which pooled data from nine studies, involving 133 people, almost all male, who had sex in the hours before some type of physical test, also found that coitus did not improve physical performance.

Sex, in other words, was a wash, which is perhaps comforting both for people who are and those who are not sexually active.

“I would say there is no reason to avoid or promote sex before a race or sexual competition,” said Gerald Zavorsky, an incoming professor of physiology and membrane biology at the University of California at Davis, who led the review.

Of course, thinking about sex solely as a competitive tool or even just as another form of moderate exercise is to risk diminishing some of its poetic mystery and intimacy.

On the other hand, if you should choose at any time to think about exercise as a way to improve sex, that would seem to be fine. In a 2019 study of more than 6,000 men and women, the more people exercised, the less likely they were to report erectile dysfunction, among the men, and sexual dysfunction, among the women.

 

 

 

 

Get a Stronger, Healthier Penis – Penis Health Plan

The Ultimate Training Plan for a Stronger, Healthier Penis

Power up your package and sexual performance.

By Jon Irwin

Published: Oct 25, 2022

This article is a repost which originally appeared on Men’s Health.

Edited for content. The opinions expressed in this article may not reflect the opinions of this site’s editors, staff or members.

Our Takeaways:

· Exercises can be performed for better penile function.

· Regular, productive sexual activity is excellent for optimizing penile function.

· If you suffer from serious negative effects, please seek out medical professional assistance.

“Fitness Routine” usually conjures up whatever gets you more endurance or stronger muscles. But devoting a little time to a few routines and developing new habits can also result in a stronger, healthier penis. Think of it as Third Leg Day.

Peak-performing junk (penis, balls, prostate, and pelvis—the whole enchilada) puts bathroom breaks under your control and houses sperm that are both plentiful and swift. Whether you think your package is working great, struggling, or doing something in between, these tips will help you get your gear in gear.

How to optimize your package if you are basically fine

That means everything is working okay—you just want to keep it that way.

Raise the frequency

Men who had sex less than once a week had a higher risk of erectile dysfunction than guys who did it at least once a week, according to a study in The American Journal of Medicine, making it one of the most useful (and fun!) ways to keep your penis strong. Even better, DIY sex is good, too. If you’ve noticed that you have a hard time maintaining an erection or reaching orgasm without, say, watching certain videos on the Internet, then you might want to try an orgasm ban during sex, even for a day, says sex educator Lawrence A. Siegel. This shifts the focus away from the endpoint and toward pleasure in the moment.

Find the right stuff for your stuff

When jock itch is driving you nuts, bypass online advice to apply apple–cider vinegar, cocoa butter, or Vicks VapoRub—they can leave you more uncomfortable without helping—and start with an OTC antifungal cream (like Lotrimin). Then avoid repeat infections: Put those boxer briefs on carefully at the gym and treat athlete’s foot and sweaty shoes with an antifungal powder, says MH dermatology advisor Corey L. Hartman, M.D.

Wrap it

Rates of the most reportable sexually transmitted infections have surpassed prepandemic levels, according to the CDC. At last estimate, one in five people in the U. S. has an STI. If you’re convinced condoms are still nothing but barriers to pleasure, you haven’t checked out the market for a while. P. S. condoms are known for feeling as if there’s nothing there. Skyn condoms have a soft texture and are nonlatex.

How to optimize if you are sort of fine

“Sort of fine” meaning you have problems getting or keeping it up—and maybe bladder leakage. Things may also look slightly . . . off?

Add a daily workout

Treat your pelvic floor like the muscles it’s made of and do isometric contraction sets. These Kegels improve bladder control and “have been shown to allow men to control ejaculations and enhance orgasm,” says Jamin Brahmbhatt, M.D., an assistant professor of urology at UCF College of Medicine. Tighten the muscles that stop your pee midstream for 3 seconds, relax them for 3, and repeat 10 times. Aim for 3 sets a day.

Get that checked out

Pimples? Bumps? Rashes? Go to a doctor to figure out what’s going on. Yes, there are apps out there where you can take a photo of your stuff and get a diagnosis of what’s up, but MH urology advisor Elizabeth Kavaler, M.D., says that using an app to detect an STI is “totally crazy.” You can order an at-home STI test kit (LetsGetChecked.com, Everlywell), but if what you have isn’t an STI, the kit can’t tell you what the trouble actually is. Only a real live doctor can do that.

How to optimize if you are not fine

In other words, “not fine” is when you can’t maintain an erection. And the urge to urinate is all the time.

Bolster your bladder

If “drip” describes your latest bathroom trip, you may have benign prostatic hyperplasia, a usually innocuous yet annoying enlarged prostate gland. The good news is that there are many treatments after diagnosis. Talk to your doctor about saw-palmetto extract, a supplement that can reduce urinary symptoms for some men, says Dr. Kavaler. Prescription drugs and minimally invasive surgeries can also help.

Eliminate the negative

Having a hard time staying hard? Maybe it’s your attitude. Men with higher levels of suspicious jealousy concerning their mate tend to have higher levels of erectile dysfunction, according to research by Gavin Vance at Oakland University. One way to cut through the envy is with sensate-focus therapy, a technique that uses touch, like holding hands, to decrease anxiety and increase intimacy.

Seek treatment for ED

If you’ve ruled out pills due to side effects or preexisting conditions, consider injectables. Sounds scary, but intracavernosal injections do the same thing as pills—increase blood flow—and people who use them consistently have high satisfaction rates, according to a 2019 study. Just stay skeptical of shock-wave therapy, says Dr. Kavaler. Using high-frequency ultrasound to irritate the penis lining as a way to help new cells grow and increase blood flow is being investigated, but its marketing may be stronger than the evidence—at least right now.

This story originally appeared in the November 2022 issue of Men’s Health.

Reference: Recent advances in the understanding and management of erectile dysfunction: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6348436/

Sexual Dysfunction: What All Men Should Know

Sexual Dysfunction: What All Men Should Know

This article is a repost which originally appeared on Women Fitness Magazine

Sexual Dysfunction: What All Men Should Know : All around the world, millions of men secretly suffer from health problems that prevent them from experiencing a fulfilling sexual life with their partner. Whether it’s the inability to get erect, ejaculate, or a loss of sexual desire or stamina, these issues affect men of all ages and backgrounds but tend to manifest with age.

More often than not, sexual potency problems arise from underlying physical or psychological causes that must be treated to allow gentlemen to enjoy healthy and satisfying sex life. In that spirit, here’s a useful reference guide covering sexual dysfunction problems in men, along with what you can do if you ever suffer from one of these conditions.

What is Sexual Dysfunction?

Essentially, male sexual dysfunction encompasses all physical or psychological conditions that avert gentlemen from experiencing normal sexual activity. These typically involve bedroom issues such as having a difficult time maintaining an erection, ejaculating too early or too late, or simply not feeling the desire to engage in intercourse. They diverge in nature and gravity and have a different diagnosis, causes, and treatments. As such, understanding these problems will enable the patient to treat it effectively and durably.

Types of Male Sexual Disorders

When it comes to sexual potency issues in men, it’s important to analyze each condition individually to fully grasp its extent and select the most appropriate solution. Sexual dysfunction comprises three main types, including:

  1. Erectile Dysfunction

    Perhaps the most widespread sexual potency issue, erectile dysfunction (ED) is characterized by the inability to grow an erection or maintain one throughout intercourse. Needless to say that impotence can have a great negative impact on performance and self-esteem, but ultimately, it’s perfectly treatable. For your reference, it’s been estimated that nearly 1 in 2 American men over the age of 40 suffer from ED to varying extents.

  2. Abnormal Ejaculation

    Another common concern pertains to ejaculation or the act of ‘coming’. While there’s no standard duration that dictates how long a man should last in bed, ejaculating too early, too late, or not at all can pose problems in a couple’s sexual dynamic. On the one hand, premature ejaculation makes a man reach orgasm too early, typically in less than 5 or 10 minutes. Naturally, this can prevent the partner from having an orgasm themselves. On the other hand, delayed ejaculation (also referred to as male orgasmic disorder) involves experiencing late ejaculation, over 30 minutes in the intercourse, or non-ejaculation.

  3. Diminished Libido

    Reduced sexual appetite can also block men from having a fulfilling sex life. It’s characterized by a decreased interest or desire in partaking in intercourse, despite having the physical ability to (usually no erectile or ejaculation problem here). Diminished libido is typically a sign of a deeper psychological ailment, which brings concrete repercussions and prevents a man from enjoying a healthy and dynamic life. There’s a lot more to find out here on how to boost your sexual stamina and drive for your pleasure and that of your partner’s. Invariably, consulting specialized online guides can be an effective first step towards alleviating this debilitating condition.

Common Causes

In modern days, thanks to the advancements in the scientific and medical fields, we possess a much clearer understanding of what may cause gentlemen to experience sexual potency issues. These symptoms often come together and result in sexual dysfunction. On a physical level, low testosterone levels, high blood pressure, prescription drugs, smoking, alcoholism, or drug abuse can take an immense toll on a man’s sex life, along with existing conditions such as diabetes, nerve damage, or strokes. On a psychological level, stress, depression, performance anxiety, relationship problems, or past sexual trauma has been proven to cause performance issues.

Treatments

Fortunately, all these sex-related problems have proven and tested remedies. The Doctor or healthcare professional will typically start by asking questions relating to your sexual activity, frequency, and habits, which you should answer in all honesty and transparency to establish the right diagnosis. Next, they will proceed with a battery of tests (blood pressure, blood sugar levels, testicular examination, prostate check) to determine whether everything is in working order. They will then prescribe the appropriate solution, whether as medication or therapy, to be followed thoroughly.

All things considered, sexual dysfunction in men can take many forms and arise from a variety of physical or psychological predispositions. Regardless of what you’re dealing with, there’s no point in feeling shame or anguish; instead, focus on finding the cause of your ailment and seek the professional medical help you need to overcome it and start enjoying a fulfilling sex life once again. Remember that, the more proactive you are, the higher your chances of finding a permanent solution to your problem.