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Well, I feel like I failed my AP challenge. I went on my favourite pornstar's Twitter to see some X-rated pictures. At first, I was just looking at her in bikinis and that's what my goal was in searching it but I saw some porn pics/GIFS. I didn't jerk off to it though so it's not a total loss. It has been constantly going through my head though. I am thinking of blocking the Twitter page on my phone and laptop to make it that much harder for me to access. Thoughts?
 

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If you're trying to avoid that sort of stuff, if it were me, I'd block the site.

Well, I feel like I failed my AP challenge. I went on my favourite pornstar's Twitter to see some X-rated pictures. At first, I was just looking at her in bikinis and that's what my goal was in searching it but I saw some porn pics/GIFS. I didn't jerk off to it though so it's not a total loss. It has been constantly going through my head though. I am thinking of blocking the Twitter page on my phone and laptop to make it that much harder for me to access. Thoughts?
 

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for years I have used porn for masturbation and arousal, but I generally never have issues with ED for sex with my gf.

My issue is becoming dependent on porn for pumping/ girth sessions. for the last 30 days I quit watching porn that really turns me on, and stuck to other avenues, like pics or videos of striptease, stuff that wouldn't get me hard in the past, is now helping me maintain those hard erections.

I am essentially weaning myself off porn, and looking at more softcore things, but I was hoping to stop it all together, as it is a slippery slope.

I want to do the next 30 days with softer things, like audio porn, or sex stories.

then the next 30 days, just mental stimulation.

So far, I have not actually masturbated to visual porn and ejaculated, I refuse.

What do you guys do to get an erection for pumping/girth excersies?
 

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for years I have used porn for masturbation and arousal, but I generally never have issues with ED for sex with my gf.

My issue is becoming dependent on porn for pumping/ girth sessions. for the last 30 days I quit watching porn that really turns me on, and stuck to other avenues, like pics or videos of striptease, stuff that wouldn't get me hard in the past, is now helping me maintain those hard erections.

I am essentially weaning myself off porn, and looking at more softcore things, but I was hoping to stop it all together, as it is a slippery slope.

I want to do the next 30 days with softer things, like audio porn, or sex stories.

then the next 30 days, just mental stimulation.

So far, I have not actually masturbated to visual porn and ejaculated, I refuse.

What do you guys do to get an erection for pumping/girth excersies?

Everybody is different. Some guys swear by the erotic stories and audio dialogue. IMO, it's better than watching porn but it's still forcing scenarios in your mind, leaving little to the imagination. I think you're on a good path and very similar to me. I usually jelq while watching TV which can get me hard depending on how much pressure I apply. For edging, I use my imagination. I try to think of my girlfriend but my mind usually wanders off to other avenues (coming fresh off of of a porn addiction).

Wishing you luck, keep us posted!
 

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If you're trying to avoid that sort of stuff, if it were me, I'd block the site.
I blocked her site, blocked searching her name and any adult sites. The blocking app I use doesn't work 100% though. Say I search for videos or pics on Google, the thumbnail still appears but the link to the site gets blocked. Oh well, better than nothing.
 

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Having major withdrawals this week. Is there any way to fully block a website or porn from your search? The Blocksite app works but I can see the thumbnails in Google Images.
 

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Having major withdrawals this week. Is there any way to fully block a website or porn from your search? The Blocksite app works but I can see the thumbnails in Google Images.

You could change the SafeSearch settings
 

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This may be slightly off topic but I just recently read a very well researched book on cell phone use and addiction. The author's main conclusion was your smart phone was the gateway to all other addictions like viewing porn and just phone usage in general. If you're struggling with a porn addiction possibly the best way out of it is to just set your phone or device aside for a few hours each day.
 

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You're not alone.

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This may be slightly off topic but I just recently read a very well researched book on cell phone use and addiction. The author's main conclusion was your smart phone was the gateway to all other addictions like viewing porn and just phone usage in general. If you're struggling with a porn addiction possibly the best way out of it is to just set your phone or device aside for a few hours each day.

Cell phone addiction is very real. The colors, the likes from posts, the laughter, the porn, the games, everything releases dopamine. We are overly stimulated. The world has changed, and we wonder why so many people are stupid now. The answer is right in front of our face.

If any of you are struggling with phone addiction invert your screens colors, and see if it has an impact on your mind state. Also spend more time in the real world, instead of in the matrix. I wish you all well.
 
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Preach it bro! I wholeheartedly agree!

Cell phone addiction is very real. The colors, the likes from posts, the laughter, the porn, the games, everything releases dopamine. We are overly stimulated. The world has changed, and we wonder why so many people are stupid now. The answer is right in front of our face.

If any of you are struggling with phone addiction invert your screens colors, and see if it has an impact on your mind state. Also spend more time in the real world, instead of in the matrix. I wish you all well.
 

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This may be slightly off topic but I just recently read a very well researched book on cell phone use and addiction. The author's main conclusion was your smart phone was the gateway to all other addictions like viewing porn and just phone usage in general. If you're struggling with a porn addiction possibly the best way out of it is to just set your phone or device aside for a few hours each day.

Thanks this is very well of interest to me, can you elaborate wich book it is?
I am finding this myself too, that cellphone usage can be a gateway drug to P usage. Also compulsive youtube or instagram use leads to P use in my opinion.
 

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Cell phone addiction is very real. The colors, the likes from posts, the laughter, the porn, the games, everything releases dopamine. We are overly stimulated. The world has changed, and we wonder why so many people are stupid now. The answer is right in front of our face.

If any of you are struggling with phone addiction invert your screens colors, and see if it has an impact on your mind state. Also spend more time in the real world, instead of in the matrix. I wish you all well.

I also noticed that when you put your phone in grayscale mode you really panic when looking at it , it just doesnt give you the same pleasure anymore

i always end up setting it to deafault never lasted a day in grayscale

you should try it and find out if your addicted

Thanks for the reminder will put mine in grayscale again and try to last as long as possible
 

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I also noticed that when you put your phone in grayscale mode you really panic when looking at it , it just doesnt give you the same pleasure anymore

i always end up setting it to deafault never lasted a day in grayscale

you should try it and find out if your addicted

Thanks for the reminder will put mine in grayscale again and try to last as long as possible

I know I was addicted. The effects were bizarre. It's not so bad anymore but I gotta pay attention to not fall back in that trap.