The AP90 (Anti-Porn)
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My EQ is fine from ejaculation once a day if I watch porn but if I'm not using porn then I can only ejaculate once every 3-4 days for 100% EQ lol I really struggle with my edging sessions from too much ejaculation too. I usually struggle the most with sex drive for a day after I ejaculate and then after 4-7 days since ejaculation then sex drive just comes and goes as it pleases but it's mostly there haunting me lol
Sounds like you're a little too wired/addicted to porn, instead of physical stimulation. You need to rewire your brain to enjoy physical stimulation more than visual stimulation. Porn probably has also given you an overactive PF, or fapping habits as a teen has. Should probably fix that also.
You think your libido is high now? Wait till you fix those issues. LOL
You think your libido is high now? Wait till you fix those issues. LOL
Yeah I'm definitely aroused more from visual than physical stimulation. I heard about training to respond to physical more than visual and tried it once but couldn't get the hang of it. I just couldn't maintain an erection at all. I need at least a little fantasy. Any idea where I can start on retraining to respond to physical stimulation?
Watch porn, but focus more on physical stimulation. That's how I did it. :mosking:
Could be difficult though, especially if you kegel a lot during stimulation, whether voluntarily or involuntary. It'll be a hurdle to jump over, but you can indeed jump over it with practice.
Also I've experienced that the more overactive your PF is, the more one depends on visual stimuli. Once I fixed my PF, I no longer needed visual stimuli. It's actually mind bending if you ask me, but hey I'll accept it.
Does an overactive PF not cause Pre-E? I know that I contract quite a lot during masturbation but it's mostly voluntary. I think I have IKs when I'm about to ejaculate and just after. If I do training for physical sensations then I'd prefer to do it without porn cause porn causes a lot of other issues and I think it would be hard to focus on sensations when I'm viewing porn.
I'm thinking that if I just learn to enjoy the sensations even if I can't get 100% hard for a while, eventually I should be able to have 100% EQ whilst focusing on the physical. It just means no ejaculation for a while to allow for penile sensitivity to increase.
I don't think I have PIED. I can get hard with girls, photos of girls in bikinis, fantasy, etc. it's just trying to masturbate with no fantasy that I struggle with.
An overactive PF can cause pre-e. It can also cause DE, and ED. Fixing it will increase sensitivity, so you're on the right track. IK's happen during ejac, don't break that. When my PF was overactive, only stimuli that felt good was during a kegel or ejac. Now that it's fixed, stimuli feels better than ejac. Ejac is just the finisher, the boner killer, and to be honest, sometimes it doesn't even kill the D. Sure ejac feels good, but stimulation feels so much better. I also control when I ejac, with core tension. No more pre-e, ED, DE, or even PIED. Did I miss one?
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My main problem was DE especially during my teens, I would masturbate for over an hour and sometimes get frustrated cause I couldn't ejac. Since cutting down on masturbation, it's not as bad, I usually go 20-30 mins now sometimes more but when I'm on a good streak of NoFap I can cum in about 10 mins.
My stimuli usually feels best when I'm watching porn and something really turns me on then I get a boost of sensitivity along my shaft and then again when I ejaculate but without porn I can get hard for the most part but don't really feel much along the shaft and the ejaculation doesn't feel too good either. It seems that I should be focusing on increasing the sensitivity without porn and who knows I may find myself fantasizing less about women (a guy can dream).
My problem is, I fantasize more about women because fixing the issues gave me more power and control in the bedroom, not that it's really a problem.
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I have no doubt now that internet porn videos is the direct connection to the devil. This may be useful for people who practice witchcraft or other taboo stuff. Now for me, I quit porn for life. Heaven help.
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After battling a porn addiction for years, Tuesday will make 3 weeks that I have been off of porn cold turkey. As I have more and more urges to watch it, I'm looking for ways to replace it besides sex. What do you guys use to get horny or to keep your member rock hard?
Congratulations on being porn free for 3 weeks! From what you posted sounds like you need to continue being careful so you don't fall back into the old habits. Sometimes going cold turkey can be a lot harder than you think.
Thanks! Yup! Getting harder and harder! Been noticing improved EQ and flaccid hang at least, so there's that. What do you guys use as replacements for porn? I've tried erotic stories, voiceover fantasies, they don't do it for me.
I know I've mentioned this before privately and publicly here, but I mostly just use my imagination. The main thing is to allow yourself time so you don't feel rushed. Relax and just let it happen!
Very encouraged your EQ is improving! Nice job!
Very encouraged your EQ is improving! Nice job!
