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What's so fascinating is the ability to keep loving. No matter who you fall in love with when it ends you still have love for all you want. The heart has free refills :)
A break up can't take the ability to still love. At least this all applies to me. Even the pot head. I've seen him work related and I'm totally fine. Treat him like any other person. Good as I do. That matter between us can't make me someone I am not. I love that about me lol
 

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I'm at the stage where I have so many questions. How can an addict let the illness hurt people over and over. Why can't they keep to themselves. Why bring innocent people into their nightmare. So horrible
Can non religious people ever be a recovering addict. Do people who don't believe in any Hod have faith in something not seen?
I feel terrible I let this man into my family and circle. Now they are in pain knowing he is crippled by addiction and they liked him so they cry for him.
It's all so sad.
 

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Depressed
Discouraged
Tired
Fed up
Same O same O with the Rooster.
 

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:-( sorry big cock
It's ok for things to stink sometimes and it's ok to complain about it. But we have to find a few things to do for ourselves each day that we love.

Look at old photos. Jam to an old CD. Watch a favorite movie. Call someone to relive a hilarious moment and laugh till you cough lol
Drink a root beer float. Drink a beer. Play with a pet.

Try to add a few things each day. If nothing else it forces seratonin into your brain and wash the brain. You will feel good causing your body to want more of it.
Lets all give our brain a seratonin bath lol

Xo
 
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You called ?

No root beer, only have Sarsaparilla.
 

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Lol. Sorry poppy it's one of my favorite things. I rarely have it but when I do it feels good :)
( I sound like a commercial haha)
 

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Yes, it's been a long tome for me also.
My favorite was A&W root beer.
Now...I really want one.
 

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Dangler, Put a little carbonation in that Sarsaparilla, and you got it going.
Dang, going to have to stop saying Dang.
 

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Arguing, discussions and fights.

Arguing: about something affecting the other person directly
Discussions: things outside the relationship
Fights: hurting each other with words ( I'm not talking about physical stuff)

Does anyone agree?
 

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I am immensely happy I won't have to go to my college graduation, besides me not thinking it is much of an achievement the main reason I am glad not to go is that I HATE award ceremonies with a passion. Hate hate hate hate hate hate hate them.
 

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If someone meets me three months from now they will never know what I've gone thru unless I tell them. Even if I tell them it will be an easy matter of fact comment because I have gotten over it. I won't be wearing the pain of it.
Seems sad we can't give the same break to someone we already know three months from now after they have recovered from their sadness/troubles.
 

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Sometimes i fantasize a rare disease would kill every man in the world except me.

Then i'd be like... re-population time, girls!

also i believe the hottest girls are short in height.

Moreso, i am currently enjoying a big bowl of microwaved broccoli. microwaves apparently retain more nutrients than other methods of cooking.

have a bilingual/polar/sexual day.
 

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Sure can't wait to have the life that I deserve and want, looks I just gotta start applying for work again, except, this time around, I hope I get hired.
 

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What line of work are you interested in, Jay?
 

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My good friend was an escort. Wow does he have some stories. Mainly women in their 30s and 40s. Good money!

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Maybe I will create an online ad today lol