Just Talking

[islander]

Ryan: You need to tweak out your thoughts. You need to change your spin about yourself.
You need to remember that not everyone gets the really hot girls. Just like girls dont always get the really hot guys. You will see more hot chics with average looking guys and vice versa if you start to pay attention.
That said, if you are happy on the inside you will be happy on the outside. If you walk tall, smile, nod up at people when you see them (eye contact) even if you dont know them and smile. THAT is hot. That is confidence. Automatically you become someone that is approachable. Somebody that a person would want to meet.

Hair: You can "train" your hair to do what you want. If your hairdresser is not helping or suggesting then change hairdressers. Put a product in it. Many guys use hair products. If nothing else do it until the hair is trained. Do something about these bothersome things.

Instead of thinking about all the things about you from head to toe that you dont like. Only think about the ones you do like. Even if its 2 or 3.

I just got this email today on a forward from a friend. Its great check it out...


If you're not being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Perhaps you have marked yourself down. It's YOU who tells people what you're worth by what you accept. Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables! Bottom line: value yourself more! If you don't, no one else will!


WORD!

 

[ryansambas]

I don't go for 'hot' girls by choice in terms of I've looked at a girl, then walked over then talked etc. All three have been by circumstance where I was talking to them anyway or pretty much had to talk to them because they were in close proximity (one at school, one at work, one talking to my mate at a club). I've looked at girls who aren't 'hot' and thought I'd like to go out with them, to be some girls aren't 'hot' but the right word is 'pretty', they look cute and they are great to talk to but they aren't the type of girl you spot out at a great distance and go 'wowwww', I'm not trying to be rude with that either, I'm telling the truth. I don't imagine myself being a 'wowww' guy but I know I have a good personality although I'm starting to think being an alphamale/jerk probably has more success.

And self value is very important but it's easier to have that when you seem to be or think you are doing well, when it doesn't work it goes right back to negatively.

I do spike my hair, but the way my hair grows these days annoys me but there isn't much I can do about it. It doesn't look too bad but ehhh wish it was better, don't feel too bad about it now, maybe just the initial shock.

I'm going to the gym now, already been 3 times a week so maybe that'll help in valuing myself more but yeah with this girl from work it's my sub conscious or something, it's like I can't control it and my feelings come back in cycles, I seem to get over her then it comes back with something trivial. I know it won't change until I find someone else but I don't expect that to be any time soon (having expectations about when someone will come next is pointless, you have to live in the moment so to speak). I first talked to her almost 9 months ago so it's weird to me that I can like someone for that long and still like her (to an extent, obviously not as much as in the pasT) even though I know nothing will happen anytime soon or ever most likely

 

[blulite]

i see where your coming from with the hot girl thing.. i dont really tend to go for those either. not as a rule anyway. the pretty ones tend to have a better personality, although some of them pretty ones are slags...especially as a lot of men have the same idea.

 

[Hanma]

the pretty ones tend to have a better personality, although some of them pretty ones are slags...especially as a lot of men have the same idea.

Not really.

 

[ryansambas]

yeah you just cannot control who you like in my opinion, at least for me. And I just hope my hair grows quickly, woke up this morning and I don't feel good about it again Stupid receding hairline, if I ever went bald or it was a receding hairline where I didn't grow much hair, fuckkkkk I'd have no hope, I don't think I'd have any confidence or self esteem at all.

 

[islander]

I LOVE bald men. Even if they are not really bald but shave their head. OMG.
Luv it .

 

[ryansambas]

lolllll fuck that im not going bald hahahaha, i'd cry. do anything to avoid it, but im not going bald just have a fucked up hairline, when it grows in it'll be alright, just when i get it cut it looks badish.

lucky i have good mates though, it's Saturday Night here so I just went to a mate's house to catch up as he went to Europe for a month in July and I hadn't seen him since. I was with another mate so there was three of us and the mate's whose house we were at gets a call that his girlfriend is drunk and her mates wouldn't go home with her or something, so all three of us went to pick her up in the city (about a half an hour drive, probably more) and then she's drunk (although she wasn't vomiting or anything, she seemed to be putting it on a bit too as she was in tune with what we were saying). The other mate was like if that was any of us we would look at for each other and if I'm ever in trouble I can call him cos we're mates for life and stuff which is good, we dropped my mates girlfriend off and then we dropped my other mate off.

So my mate who has the girlfriend was driving home brought up the girl from work which surprised me cos I hadn't talked about her with him since probably March/April a long time ago and I just say it didn't happen, I didn't like how she agreed to go out with me then gave me the whole 'I'll get back to you' message and stuff and he's just talking saying I look good at the moment (no homo) which I guess I do, I look leaner and I'm starting to hit the gym and I don't know, it's good to know he remembered actually. It wasn't a long talk, we were near my house when he brought it up but yeah it's good to know you have loyal mates I guess.

And just as I type this my brothers ex girlfriend comes in the house, god my brother's an idiot haha.

Then

 

[Messerschmidt]

I LOVE bald men. Even if they are not really bald but shave their head. OMG.
Luv it .

I think it really depends on head shape. Don't think I could pull it off, but some certainly can.

 

[ryansambas]

I think it really depends on head shape. Don't think I could pull it off, but some certainly can.

I'd look horrible, think I have more of an eggish head. just awful. i'd be no vin diesel.

 

[TheSnitch]

I've been thinking about light today. Light is the most amazing thing in the universe. I never really grasped the profound affect light has on reality, not to mention our perception of reality. The more I think about it, the deeper and deeper I get into understanding and it's freaking cool!!!!

 

[OMG!]

I've been thinking about light today. Light is the most amazing thing in the universe. I never really grasped the profound affect light has on reality, not to mention our perception of reality. The more I think about it, the deeper and deeper I get into understanding and it's freaking cool!!!!

Snitch.... lay down the pipe and back away.

Just kidding. Light is cool.

 

[ryansambas]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/exerci...erious-10-12-week-gym-program.html#post346169

(in more detail of what im talking about here)

but I'm starting to eat clean, go to gym yada yada. I'm motivated, have a good mate who I think will motivate me even more. Starting to prepare meals properly for the next day, feel good about this

Get to concentrate on me instead of chasing womennnnnn lol (which from about January to June was my story :-/ even if it was only 2 girls ) but that's a whole different topic on it's own and I know I made huge mistakes with bothh but can't turn the clock back now unfortunately.

 

[blulite]

i never read cusps post on dead chickens, but being that he never wrote about it a second time round in this thread i thought id share a a bit about my mates chicken farm, so anyway, i go help on my mates farm from time to time and he ha 15000 freerange chickens which are used for egg production. while were there we sort eggs, stack pallets, fix machinery etc. we also keep an eye out for what we call "gimpy chickens" these gimpy chickems are basically chickens that are injured or lame for some reason. there is a smalll encolsure in the packing room that we use to keep the gimpy chickens. most of them die(ask cusp about dead chickens) but the ones thaat dont we put back to work.

one of our other friends has a tendency to name these chickens...no idea why...

anyway thats a bit about the gimpy chickens

 

[Hanma]

As much as I would like to read everyone's comments and reply ... I turned 20 now.

 

[blulite]

20....man i wish i was 20 again...wait till you get to 29 and your only a few month away from 30...

 

[Hanma]

:laugh: Of course.

 

[islander]

As much as I would like to read everyone's comments and reply ... I turned 20 now.

Meaning today is your birthday? If so Happy Birthday and WOW you have great years and great growth coming your way.

 

[Hanma]

This be my birthday

And I know what kind of growth I'm looking forward to.

 

[amiok]

As much as I would like to read everyone's comments and reply ... I turned 20 now.

Happy Birthday man

 

[schlittle]

This be my birthday

And I know what kind of growth I'm looking forward to.

Happy birthday!