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Well it doesn't matter it's not like I'm using it in any great or innovative ways. One thing I think most of us can relate to is putting on condoms, whenever I have tried to put one on my penis either goes soft or gets 'less hard' and if i pull the foreskin back (i'm uncut) it gets to a semi-erect. I really have to master this.
 

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I once found a box of condoms in my parents' drawer. When I put one on it seemed tight. Or maybe I was doing it wrong. But anyways, I'm glad (?)
 

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Speaking of which, I found a box of condoms in the grocery bag :laugh: durex ultra sensitive something like that.
Too bad it didn't say which size =/
 

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I don't even know where I put my condoms they were durex ribbed or something
 

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Yeah yeah I think it was that one.
I'll try one of them on when my parents leave.
 

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Having an AWFUL ant problem with all the rain. I am setting out ant bait using boric acid in places our pet cant reach.
In place the pet can reach I am using small plastic bottles from the Dollar Store (3 for $1) and poking holes on the top and keeping the lid screwed on and placing behind furniture. I will report if it works and how long it took. I cant stand that spray the fumigator sprays in the house. Smells and everything gets wet. And the store bought seems to be made up of the same stuff I can make!!

Homemade Ant Killers: Recipes & Tips : TipNut.com
Homemade Ant Bait Recipes
Sugar Bait
2 TBS Boric Acid (Borax)
Jam (or Jelly, Honey, Maple Syrup)
  • Mix the boric acid with the jam or jelly to make a paste. Slather it on a piece of paper, a plate or in a covered container with holes. You may have to adjust amount of Boric Acid if the ants seem to eat up the bait like crazy, but are getting fatter from it instead of dying.
Sugar Bait
2 cups Sugar
1 cup Water
2 TBS Boric Acid (Borax)
  • Mix and place in small saucers around the home.
Protein Bait
2 TBS Boric Acid (Borax)
Peanut Butter or Bacon Grease
  • Mix and set out in mounds on pieces of paper or plates.
Sugar Bait
1 cup Confectioners Sugar
2 TBS Boric Acid (Borax)
  • Leave this in little mounds or in covered containers with holes.
Sugar Bait
2 TBS Molasses
1 TBS Yeast
1 TBS Sugar
  • Mix and place mounds on paper, plates or in covered containers with holes.
Important: When baiting the ants to bring poison back to the nest, resist the temptation to kill them when you see them. You want them to live and take big juicy pieces of poisoned bait back to the nest for the rest of the colony to feast on.
Baiting Tips:
  • Boric Acid can be harmful if swallowed. If you have kids or pets in the home, set the bait in covered plastic containers with a few holes poked in the sides. You could also use glass jars sealed with lids–just poke holes in the top lid. For strong attraction, smear a bit of non-poisoned bait on top of the lid so the ants find it easily.
  • For best results lay out fresh bait daily.
  • Lay the bait in areas where you see regular ant activity and near their points of entry if you know them.
  • Don’t be diligent washing away the ant trails, you want them to find the bait spots easily again and again. All the worker ants in the colony can follow each others trails, so even if you killed off the first foragers, their partners will follow the trail they left.
  • You may find that a sugar bait will be popular for a few days, then a protein bait is needed as the ants switch to protein foods. Change your bait method as needed.
  • If you’ve set out both types of bait (sugar and protein) yet the ants are attracted to neither, reduce the amount of boric acid used until they starting feasting on the bait.
Did You Know: If a colony senses something is up when its members start dying and begins to feel stressed, the Queen Ant will likely give orders for the colony to split up into a few smaller colonies, trying to preserve as many members as she can. This is why it may take several days of laying out fresh ant bait regularly–you’re trying to get enough poison into all the colonies to wipe out the whole lot.
 

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now I'm back to being in a shitty mood cos of this https://www.pegym.com/forums/relationship-forum/28704-how-do-i-get-over-girl.html . It's the girl at work, one of my mates brought her up last night in a chat on fb to me and ughhhhh it's just not leaving. It's obviously because I've not wanted anyone so badly in my life and I really can't be bothered to look for someone else and put so much effort in, in case it does not work out. It's more me doubting myself and the fact that I am not what she wants and comparing myself to the type of guy she wants which I try to convince myself is some '6'3, tan, Italian, ripped' guy and not a '5'11, white, English, average' guy but I think that's probably bullshit. Also with my mate going through a similar situation with a girl from his work and the end result being him going out with her it's just hard to know that if she really liked me working with her wouldn't make a difference so I can't use that as an excuse, I never told her how I felt because it's pointless. Didn't give me any time out of work so it shows how much she likes me but her personality, her looks and everything just attracted me from the first time I talked to her.

I don't think anything bad of her for not giving me time because obviously she never wants to make me even think that we have any chance of going out which obviously doesn't feel good. I haven't made it awkward, she still talks to me if we see each other but it's not like I want to see her that much anymore.

I'm sick of this cycle too I seem to get over her, then not over her, then over her, then not over her. It's really annoying. I miss this time last year where I didn't think anything of relationships, girls etc because I wasn't asking anyone out, wasn't thinking about asking anyone out and I wasn't interested in anyone so I didn't have anything to worry or be sad about and all my focus were on other things. Bahhhhhhhhhhhh hate this feeling.
 

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now I'm back to being in a shitty mood cos of this https://www.pegym.com/forums/relationship-forum/28704-how-do-i-get-over-girl.html . It's the girl at work, one of my mates brought her up last night in a chat on fb to me and ughhhhh it's just not leaving. It's obviously because I've not wanted anyone so badly in my life and I really can't be bothered to look for someone else and put so much effort in, in case it does not work out. It's more me doubting myself and the fact that I am not what she wants and comparing myself to the type of guy she wants which I try to convince myself is some '6'3, tan, Italian, ripped' guy and not a '5'11, white, English, average' guy but I think that's probably bullshit. Also with my mate going through a similar situation with a girl from his work and the end result being him going out with her it's just hard to know that if she really liked me working with her wouldn't make a difference so I can't use that as an excuse, I never told her how I felt because it's pointless. Didn't give me any time out of work so it shows how much she likes me but her personality, her looks and everything just attracted me from the first time I talked to her.

I don't think anything bad of her for not giving me time because obviously she never wants to make me even think that we have any chance of going out which obviously doesn't feel good. I haven't made it awkward, she still talks to me if we see each other but it's not like I want to see her that much anymore.

I'm sick of this cycle too I seem to get over her, then not over her, then over her, then not over her. It's really annoying. I miss this time last year where I didn't think anything of relationships, girls etc because I wasn't asking anyone out, wasn't thinking about asking anyone out and I wasn't interested in anyone so I didn't have anything to worry or be sad about and all my focus were on other things. Bahhhhhhhhhhhh hate this feeling.

If she never liked you, there is nothing to fret over. Had a similar situation and I let it eat at me. (Now, I was really mad because of other things and years and years of bullshit but I digress). It ate at me so bad and life was terrible. Eventually it just went away. I mean I finally figured that I never had a chance so why even worry about it.
 

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There are only two things that smell like fish............... and one of them is fish.
 
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There are only two things that smell like fish............... and one of them is fish.

LOL. Guess I was lucky, didn't get that smell.
 

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I know but it's one of them things where we got on so well that I'm thinking it has to be purely physical in how I look and now my confidence is gone because of that and I feel the type of girls I seem to be attracted to now will never be attracted to me which sucks cos I thought I looked good enough for her but ehhh. I've never literally listed what a girl I like should have and what qualities etc but if I've liked a girl it has always been from the first time I've met them within the first 5 minutes and that has only been three girls in my life so I don't expect to find anyone I like anytime soon so I guess gives me time to improve myself physically.
 

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I know but it's one of them things where we got on so well that I'm thinking it has to be purely physical in how I look and now my confidence is gone because of that and I feel the type of girls I seem to be attracted to now will never be attracted to me which sucks cos I thought I looked good enough for her but ehhh. I've never literally listed what a girl I like should have and what qualities etc but if I've liked a girl it has always been from the first time I've met them within the first 5 minutes and that has only been three girls in my life so I don't expect to find anyone I like anytime soon so I guess gives me time to improve myself physically.

You think you're bad looking?
 

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I don't think I'm 'bad' looking. If I was to put a number I'd say 6.5 to 7 out of 10 but of course that is very subjective so I don't know. I just think that I wasn't good looking enough for her I guess.
 

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I don't think I'm 'bad' looking. If I was to put a number I'd say 6.5 to 7 out of 10 but of course that is very subjective so I don't know. I just think that I wasn't good looking enough for her I guess.

Different people like different things. So yea if you are a good looking guy but maybe not universally so, as per your rating, it would depend on what she likes. Like you said maybe she likes the big, tall, jacked douche guys. A lot of girls do man. One girl.

And this might sound fucked up but if she didn't like you there is nothing to even worry about man. It is easy you say fuck it. I had a couple girls who seemed interested and I pussied out. I feel awful because girls don't like me yet I pussy out when I had good chances. You could think back about that and be like "oh man."

Or my fucked up situation now when I am too emotionally attached to a girl who doesn't want that. That could be something to be like "Why?"

But the girl who didn't like me I just liked her? Never had a chance so why worry?
 

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Beer and ice cream, a match made in heaven?

Just saw a character on "How I Met Your Mother" pour beer into ice cream. Got me to thinking lol
 

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Different people like different things. So yea if you are a good looking guy but maybe not universally so, as per your rating, it would depend on what she likes. Like you said maybe she likes the big, tall, jacked douche guys. A lot of girls do man. One girl.

And this might sound fucked up but if she didn't like you there is nothing to even worry about man. It is easy you say fuck it. I had a couple girls who seemed interested and I pussied out. I feel awful because girls don't like me yet I pussy out when I had good chances. You could think back about that and be like "oh man."

Or my fucked up situation now when I am too emotionally attached to a girl who doesn't want that. That could be something to be like "Why?"

But the girl who didn't like me I just liked her? Never had a chance so why worry?

I don't know, its more or less because ive never felt this way about anyone in my life and it feels shitty that i couldnt make it happen. And in going for this girl i went for her over a girl who probably was interested in me so yeah i have that regret too. Something tells me that my only opportunity i had with this girl was boxing day which im not sure if i wrote about that in one of the threads but yeah i think its there but ahhhh. it takes a lot for me to like a girl it seems and then 2 came at once and then im back to zero so its probably a while till i find someone else who i like, not that i really actively look
 

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Hmm, I can relate.
 

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Yeah it sucks haha, especially when everyone else seems to be finding people but I don't want it just for the title of 'relationship' and 'boyfriend' so I'm not desperate for a relationship, just would be great to have one with someone i like a lot (which is no one atm)
 

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It'd be nice for a woman to cup my face in her hands and spend some intimate time with me.

The only reason any female has been that close to me physically is when the doctors were checking to see what was wrong with me. :)
 
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Thanks for the rep 1471988 :rolleyes: Since I am a sadist I will make jokes of my luckless situations if I have to.