Just Talking

[islander]

I was so silly last night! I laughed for hours, hard labor laughing, on the phone with my male friend.
One of the laugh attacks started because he said "honestly...."
I interrupted and said "well what else would it be, what you gonna say Well to tell you a lie..."
OMG I laughed so hard. 2am and a house full of guests sleeping. I'm laughing into my pillow.
Then he said ( im laughing right now as I type this)
"well at least I'd be telling you honestly"
Bahhhhhhhhhh

Can you imagine to start off your answer to a question saying "well to tell you a lie"
And then have the other person say "well at least your being honest"

Hahaha. Honest about telling a lie!!

You had to be there type of thing.

 

[islander]

Here's another one

Your waiting for your friend to finish their homework so you can go out.
Hour after hour you wait.

Finally you call and say " hey, are u done yet?"
Friend says, "yea I'm done. I just need to clean up the file, spell check, print it etc""

You say, "so basically you still have to finish it!"

Bahhhhhhhhhhh

Yes still in a silly mood.

 

[Total_Honesty]

I was so silly last night! I laughed for hours, hard labor laughing, on the phone with my male friend.
One of the laugh attacks started because he said "honestly...."
I interrupted and said "well what else would it be, what you gonna say Well to tell you a lie..."
OMG I laughed so hard. 2am and a house full of guests sleeping. I'm laughing into my pillow.
Then he said ( im laughing right now as I type this)
"well at least I'd be telling you honestly"
Bahhhhhhhhhh

Can you imagine to start off your answer to a question saying "well to tell you a lie"
And then have the other person say "well at least your being honest"

Hahaha. Honest about telling a lie!!

You had to be there type of thing.

Sounds to me like islander has been "hitting the greens", and I don't mean golf!

 

[Hanma]

I sip tea while I listen to heavy/death/black metal. Man I'm good.

 

[amiok]

I sip tea while I listen to heavy/death/black metal. Man I'm good.

sweet

 

[Total_Honesty]

4:30am this mernin our dog shows up at my bed asking me to come up. Yes he has a language and I understand him. I was SO tired I just picked him up and let him in. Within a few minutes he is dry heaving. GAG ME. I put him on the floor and there he goes. HURL. I start following him around my room picking up after him.

Took him in my arms to the kitchen and gave him some medicine for his stomach and put him down on the floor.

Once he is done, I kid you not, he looks at me with the cutest face like "thanks mom" and heads off head low back to his room (with my son)

Now its just past 5am and I am wide awake so I decided to go to the gym.

Dogs are funny. At least ours is. Just like a child. "mommy my stomach hurts HURL" hahahaha

So I get back and son is up getting ready for school. I go into his room to tell him about what happened and gag me with a spatula there is dog puke on his floor! I yell OMG there is puke on your floor!

Son says "oh mom please pick it up. I cant get out of this bed with that on the floor in the morning" Oh, oh, I am all pumped up from the gym. I dove into the bed and tickled him until he about cried from the laughter pain.

So the kid left to school and I just went into his room and can you believe this, HE LEFT THE PUKE ON THE FLOOR!

Men!

I want so badly to leave it there until he gets home but I have this thing with clean floors hahahahaha

Top of the mornin to you all

Uhh...you REALLY need to stop toking before going to bed. If you don't, you might start having the urge to solve mysteries with your talking pooch.

 

[islander]

Wow that was really funny. Made me lol for real haha
That's me totally straight. Imagine me on the green haha

 

[ryansambas]

Probably going to be doing the same job currently at retail here for the summer/Christmas, was looking for internships from December to Feb before I go back to uni in March but they're very competitive and I doubt I'll get one, two more applications to do and one response still left to receive. I didn't want to work my current job for December to Feb because of Xmas it gets REALLY busy, plus I'd get experience at an accounting internship before I finish my degree in November 2012 but one of the worst things is I'll probably see that girl at work who didn't want to go out with me on a consistent basis. It's good now because I never see her really, maybe once a month because of our schedules but since we'll both be off uni and probably she'll be working a lot xmas and so will I and maybe together, can't avoid her then loll. It'll actually be strange when it happens to be thinking of the exact timespot a year ago when everything was so different with me and her (or I thought) buttttttttt we'll see what happens. My mindset is I don't want to see her simply because I don't really want her in my head again, I still like her as a person and everything and she is still one of my favourite people at work if I take away all this bad stuff but hmmmmm it'll be an interesting summer/christmas I'm guessing, hopefully some positive stuff comes along too.

 

[islander]

I live in the land of the living!
In my world it's better to have tried then not to have tried at all.
Better to have felt then not at all.
Better to have a memory then none at all.

Thought for the day (no that up there wasn't it lol)

You know that sound the comes from your lover. The orgasm sound that is only in their language.
Your mind can recall it whenever you want to hear it.
It causes a chain reaction in your body.
That beautiful sound. It's such a major turn on. It's foreplay in the mind.
Pay attention to it. Memorize it. Burn it in the frontal lobe.
It's priceless.

Good morning

 

[islander]

Hi Ryan!

Yes stay away from her lol

Talk to everyone Remember if she laughs, smiles or talks it doesn't mean anything hidden. Just that she is a nice person.

 

[ryansambas]

Hi Ryan!

Yes stay away from her lol

Talk to everyone Remember if she laughs, smiles or talks it doesn't mean anything hidden. Just that she is a nice person.

too bad it only took me about 7 months to figure that out. Mind you if she never would have agreed to go out with me at all (the first time I asked her out, she said 'yes'), this wouldn't have been as big of an issue as it was and I could have just moved on beginning in March instead of giving up in June but it is what it is I guess. That was another thing though because then I felt like I somehow did something to turn a 'yes' into a 'no' (not that she said it but it certainly happened that way) but I don't think she ever wanted to go out with me...I think

 

[islander]

Last night one of the guys I was hanging with shared a dilemma. He has been enjoying a FWB for several months with another one of our friends, female.
They are both adults and knew from the start what it was.

She is one of the cutest looking ladies in the group. Super hot body. Funny smart. Everything a guy could want right?
Well not him.

She is freaking out because she wants more. A commitment and doesn't understand why he doesn't.

This rejection she feels is heart breaking.

To want someone or something more in a relationship than your lover does or can.

I have felt this once before. It's very confusing. I think I now know that what I felt was indeed rejection.

I guess there are many levels/degrees to it but feels bad all the same.

In her case they had drama but in the end she stayed with him.

Sometimes timing for each persons reasons are just not in sync. We can't control that.

It makes me wonder my philosophy on better to go for the experience than not.

Because if someone wants or feels more and you know it, then you are enabling their hurt.

Then the flip side is, that people tell me all the time, don't think or make decisions for other people. You don't like when they do that to you.
You make your own decisions and they theirs.

It seems so mean though. I blurted out dude then why do you let her in your bed? Protect her from herself!
The dude said back to me, hey I never lied. She can hear. She knows what this is.

My other friend eye balled me to basically be quiet.



So after the dude went back inside I told my friend why do you think he was telling me the story asswipe!
It was because he wanted my opinion or thoughts.
He proceeded to tell me, no sometimes we just need to hear it outloud. Best advice is to just listen.
If he had asked you specifically what you thought then answer if you want.

Women are from Venus. Men from Mars. So clear once again haha

 

[Steve23]

Interesting..
I'm trying my best to make my GF think im from Venus, I think it's slowly working

 

[Hanma]

Women are from Venus. Men from Mars. So clear once again haha

The planet is named after Venus, the Roman goddess of love and beauty. So they look adorable, gentle and understanding from the outside.
Venus is covered with an opaque layer of highly reflective clouds of sulfuric acid, preventing its surface from being seen from space in visible light. Meaning they know how to hurt and are deadly when needed' also they're stubborn and it's VERY hard to get into their hearts.So they give subtle hints every damn time.
Venus's surface is a dusty dry desertscape with many slab-like rocks, periodically refreshed by volcanism. Probably mood swings.

Mars has a very thin atmosphere. Meaning guys are direct and say what they mean and you can see where they are coming from. Life used to be on Mars, but it is now lifeless. Mostly dry and now barren. This is what happens to men eventually. Mars has two moons (relate them to the balls!)

Hmm ...

 

[Hanma]

Hamma I'm glad I didn't say that; the women folk on here would have roasted me. If you need any help if they come after you, well I can speak for most of the guys here; you're on your own! Good luck!

I have a way of driving women wild.

 

[islander]

So does that mean if your strong or hard enough to make it thru the reflective layer you make it to the sweet spot?

 

[Hanma]

So does that mean if your strong or hard enough to make it they the reflective layer you make it to the sweet spot?

I have no idea what you just said...
Also my chin is testicles...

 

[Hanma]

So does that mean if your strong or hard enough to make it thru the reflective layer you make it to the sweet spot?

That makes sense!

Well, to answer you, it did cost millions of dollars to get to that sweet spot.

 

[Total_Honesty]

Those are easy questions to answer:

"Last night one of the guys I was hanging with shared a dilemma. He has been enjoying a FWB for several months with another one of our friends, female. They are both adults and knew from the start what it was."

She knew they were FWB and she knew that they were in it mainly for sex. Yet, she started to fall in love and he didn't. WHAT DID SHE EXPECT?

"She is freaking out because she wants more. A commitment and doesn't understand why he doesn't. This rejection she feels is heart breaking."

He (like most guys) don't put as much emotional value to sex as women do. He thought of her as a booty call and probably nothing more.

"It makes me wonder my philosophy on better to go for the experience than not."

It depends. Will the experience leave you a better person? If it does, then it's worth it.

"Then the flip side is, that people tell me all the time, don't think or make decisions for other people. You don't like when they do that to you. You make your own decisions and they theirs."

You shouldn't make decisions for other people. Let them screw up. It's like the old saying "Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime." Sometimes people need to crawl out of the ditch they dug themselves into. If you keep trying to bail them out, they'll never learn.

"It seems so mean though. I blurted out dude then why do you let her in your bed? Protect her from herself! The dude said back to me, hey I never lied. She can hear. She knows what this is."

If she continues to go into his bed, then there's not a damn thing you can do about it. You can be there to help her out, but she has to learn to make decisions on her own. It's her life, not yours.

I don't know either of the people involved with your situation and I could be wrong, but this is how it looks from a viewpoint of Total_Honesty.

 

[islander]

TH: You are right on 100% of your comments. Makes 100% sense. It makes me sad and I wish I could pull her aside and talk to her. I do understand its not my business, right, place and actually hurts her to help her (or anyone).

Thank you for reading it. I was venting but it was nice to see a POV on it.