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Anyone know of ways to lower libido? Mine is getting on my nerves and I ain't getting sex, I can barely sleep because of it. I can't do NoFap for longer than a week without relapsing. I just want it gone now to be honest even if it means having permanent ED and never doing penis exercises again.

Only method I've heard of is antidepressants but I don't want them and they didn't lower my libido anyway, they just gave me delayed ejaculation.
 

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Try microwaving your testes :angel:
 

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Just find yourself a girlfriend or a FWB. Its the only real cure lol.
 

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soy milk everyday
 

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Ultra endurance training . Lack of sleep .
 

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Why do you need to do nofap? Isn't it generally meant to restore libido, EQ, PremE etc. And if you have no issues with these just fap away.
 

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Just find yourself a girlfriend or a FWB. Its the only real cure lol.

Tried, not worked out. Most girls don't wanna be FWB and I still struggled feeling satisfied when I was having one night stands. According to the symptoms of sex addiction, it seems that I have it. Struggled to go without porn or sexting and struggling to focus on anything because I'm just thinking about sex. I enjoyed it during my teens when I had a gf, was good having sex 5 times a day but now I'm older and have my career and things to think about it's just frustrating.
 

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Anyone know of ways to lower libido? Mine is getting on my nerves and I ain't getting sex, I can barely sleep because of it. I can't do NoFap for longer than a week without relapsing. I just want it gone now to be honest even if it means having permanent ED and never doing penis exercises again.

Only method I've heard of is antidepressants but I don't want them and they didn't lower my libido anyway, they just gave me delayed ejaculation.

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Sex and the Soybean: A Cautionary Tale

By Kaayla Daniel

Can soy be used as an aid to celibacy? Is it true that Zen monks eat soy because naughty behavior goes down when tofu consumption goes up? Do Japanese wives feed unfaithful husbands extra helpings of soy? Could politicians with the “zipper problem” better control their errant behavior if they consumed enough soy?

Anecdotally, the answer is, yes, and a fair amount of science backs it up. To date, many studies show that soy’s estrogenic isoflavones interfere with the production and usage of testosterone in the body. Some evidence points to soy as a feminizing influence that can lead to gynecomastia (man breasts). And there’s massive evidence of reproductive toxicity.


The latest news is a case study in the journal Nutrition. The subject is a 19-year-old heterosexual man who become vegan, began consuming a lot of soy, and, soon after, experienced loss of libido and erectile dysfunction. Prior to adopting veganism, he had an active sex life with no reported problems.


Lab assessment revealed low levels of free and total testosterone with increased levels of DHEA. During the year prior to this workup, the young man’s diet had packed a whopping punch of soy isoflavones, averaging 360 mg per day, from soy milk, soy crisps, tofu, soy sauce, soy nuts and edamame. This level of soy consumption is far above average, yet increasingly common these days as people quit meat and dairy products for soy substitutes. Prior to becoming vegan, the man had been on a Standard American Diet (SAD). After discontinuing his vegan diet and eliminating soy foods altogether, he noticed a gradual improvement in sexual function over the course of a year and his lab tests revealed gradual normalization of testosterone and DHEA levels.


The researchers conclude with the usual caveat “more studies are needed.” Yes, indeed, and assoy consumption increases, doctors and other health practitioners will most likely report many such cases. Let’s hope future studies focus on women as well as men, and include a study on the link between sex, soy and vulvodynia. What to do now?

The science may not be entirely in, but the message is already clear: “If you love and respect your naughty bits, Practice Safe Soy.”


To read the study:


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and erectile dysfunction associated with soy product consumption.
Siepmann T, Roofeh J, Kiefer FW, Edelson DG.Nutrition. 2011 Jul-Aug;27(7-8):859-62. Epub 2011 Feb 25.
 
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Ultra endurance training . Lack of sleep .

What's ultra endurance training? And I do have a lack of sleep, I get about 3 hours a night mostly because I think about sex and get constant erections through the night and I suffer with pain in my neck probably from stress.
 

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Why do you need to do nofap? Isn't it generally meant to restore libido, EQ, PremE etc. And if you have no issues with these just fap away.

I never understood how it fixes Pre-E. I would think not ejaculating would make it worse. It's because I'm a sex addict and doing NoFap is supposed to cure it. If I continue fapping then I'm just reinforcing the addiction.
 

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Faping makes my libido stronger.
Cumming after PE leaves me with a big flaccid,if I don t cum I m turtling.
 

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Faping makes my libido stronger.
Cumming after PE leaves me with a big flaccid,if I don t cum I m turtling.

I'm usually the opposite, tend to turtle more when I cum after a workout. It might be because I don't cum quick though so I'm putting extra strain on my penis so it turtles. Truth is I haven't gone past 17 days of NoFap and that was nearly 2 years ago. Recently my longest streak is 7 days so I don't know if my libido will lower from NoFap.

It might not just be a libido issue either, there may be a psychological factor which is addicted to sex/porn/girls, etc which makes me think about it all the time and trigger my libido.
 

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What's ultra endurance training? And I do have a lack of sleep, I get about 3 hours a night mostly because I think about sex and get constant erections through the night and I suffer with pain in my neck probably from stress.
Oh come on you are just being difficult .
Can't sleep fine go run 20 miles .

Take up triathlon and crossfit without drugs that increase recovery . So increase volume of running ,swimming,biking yada yada till you drop from exhaustion then do some more .


Is that plain enough ?
 

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I never understood how it fixes Pre-E. I would think not ejaculating would make it worse. It's because I'm a sex addict and doing NoFap is supposed to cure it. If I continue fapping then I'm just reinforcing the addiction.
I don't know either, I'm not sure if nofap is even claimed to cure that. I don't think nofap is that effective in dealing with sexual dysfunctions in general.

But I still don't see the harm in fapping, I understand the problems with porn but you don't need that to fap. It's normal for a healthy young man to have high libido. Repressing sexuality just for the sake of it seems odd.

I guess we all appreciate what we don't have though. I used to think it was a little annoying to constantly pop random boners in class and to have skyhigh libido while I was in middle school but now with my ED problems and flat libido I'd really appreciate to get it all back.
 

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Why exactly are you trying to destroy your libido?
 

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Oh come on you are just being difficult .
Can't sleep fine go run 20 miles .

Take up triathlon and crossfit without drugs that increase recovery . So increase volume of running ,swimming,biking yada yada till you drop from exhaustion then do some more .


Is that plain enough ?

I've had trouble sleeping since I was a child. If only going for a run cured sleeping disorders. Only thing that worked for me was Diazepam, apart from that staying up for 2 days straight allowed me to get a good nights sleep but then I would be exhausted for those days.
 

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Why exactly are you trying to destroy your libido?

Mostly because it's causing me psychological issues. I constantly have this girl on my mind that I met over 3 years but not seen her in a year and half yet I constantly fantasize about her. I clearly can't still be in love with her so I feel like lowering my sex drive may help forget about her.

Apart from that I struggle having a conversation with a girl without thinking about having sex with her or checking her body out and it affects my concentration on uni work, etc.
 

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I don't know either, I'm not sure if nofap is even claimed to cure that. I don't think nofap is that effective in dealing with sexual dysfunctions in general.

But I still don't see the harm in fapping, I understand the problems with porn but you don't need that to fap. It's normal for a healthy young man to have high libido. Repressing sexuality just for the sake of it seems odd.

I guess we all appreciate what we don't have though. I used to think it was a little annoying to constantly pop random boners in class and to have skyhigh libido while I was in middle school but now with my ED problems and flat libido I'd really appreciate to get it all back.

Yeah not knowing is why I struggled sticking with NoFap cause I'd always question whether it's gonna help or make the problem worse. I think even fapping without porn, I doubt I would be sexually satisfied so I'll probably still be frustrated. A high libido is good when you're in a relationship but it can be a nuisance when you're single.
 

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Mostly because it's causing me psychological issues. I constantly have this girl on my mind that I met over 3 years but not seen her in a year and half yet I constantly fantasize about her. I clearly can't still be in love with her so I feel like lowering my sex drive may help forget about her.

Apart from that I struggle having a conversation with a girl without thinking about having sex with her or checking her body out and it affects my concentration on uni work, etc.

Bro all that's normal. The day man stops thinking about sex is the day man goes extinct. I think you're torturing yourself.