It's especially hard to do if you don't try.
EDIT: Celibacy is fine, but it sounds like you just want the easiest route rather than the more fulfilling one.
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It's especially hard to do if you don't try.
EDIT: Celibacy is fine, but it sounds like you just want the easiest route rather than the more fulfilling one.
Snitch: Out of life? I just want to be happy. Women? To be able to get AND KEEP someone I actually like. Self improvement? To be ripped and have a big dick.
Alas none of that is possible.
BTB: I hate 99% of women. And I mean hate.
Alas none of that is possible.
BTB: I hate 99% of women. And I mean hate.
So go for the 1% that you don't hate? Why is it impossible to get ripped? Why is it impossible to be happy? Why is it impossible to find and keep someone you like? I'll tell you why and pay close attention to this: It's because you believe it's impossible. That is literally the only reason.
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What do you hate about women? Is it possible you're gay? No offense intended just a question.
How do you see yourself becoming happy? What's your measuring stick for success in that regard?
How do you define liking someone? Is it commonality? Is it their personality? Some people like those who are very similar to themselves, some people like people who are totally different, some like those who are more inferior or superior.
Amiok, just have sex with an ugly woman. She'll make you feel good about yourself!
Why the cross? To ward off any vampires "out for blood" due to my truthful statement!
Why the cross? To ward off any vampires "out for blood" due to my truthful statement!
Totally straight. I hate how 99% of women act. Straight disgusting.
Happy is just happy. I like girls that are similar to me in most regards. Except they cant be shy like me.
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How do 99% of women act? Or is it that you're afraid you don't act correctly in order to get 99% of women?
So happy is just happy and you don't know what makes you happy? Sounds like a tough journey if you don't know the path to your destination.
So happy is just happy and you don't know what makes you happy? Sounds like a tough journey if you don't know the path to your destination.
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I'm not into the bar scene or club thing either. I don't mind going with friends for a night just to hang out but I don't go to look for someone. And I despise internet dating sites......
They are either shallow as fuck, boring, or just awful
Yea i have never been happy so i dont know
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You are generalizing almost the entire population of women out there.
Wbat I'd like to know amiok is why you hate women so much? The word "hate" is a very powerful word and one filled with negative, ugly emotion. There are a bazillion beautiful, caring, loving women in this world and yet you seem intent to lump all but 1% of them into some ugly, shallow light. Yes, there are alot of crappy women out there just like there are a TON of crappy men out there. Did someone burn you in the past and you simply can't get past it?
So you've been hurt several times in the past. That's not a good reason to give up looking for the right one. The right one is out there. The easy thing to do is give up but the thing that will make you happy is too keep searching.
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Well, change of behavior is predicated upon, in a large way, changing your environment.
If you're actually interested in changing yourself and not just interested in thinking about it and living a life of fantasy in your head, then I suggest that where ever you live change it.
Not necessarily the location or anything - unless that's possible - but change your bed position, change your book shelves and desk. Change your books around, reorganize your DVDs and CD's. sh*t, redo your computer files and organization. If you're able, buy some new things to replace your old ones.
Change is hard Amiok, the hardest part is changing your outlook, your reality is so strong to the negative you have a lot of work ahead of you. But, if you can come up with a vision of where you are, who you are, what you look like and what you do, in this future happy you - then you'll have a good starting point.
If you're actually interested in changing yourself and not just interested in thinking about it and living a life of fantasy in your head, then I suggest that where ever you live change it.
Not necessarily the location or anything - unless that's possible - but change your bed position, change your book shelves and desk. Change your books around, reorganize your DVDs and CD's. sh*t, redo your computer files and organization. If you're able, buy some new things to replace your old ones.
Change is hard Amiok, the hardest part is changing your outlook, your reality is so strong to the negative you have a lot of work ahead of you. But, if you can come up with a vision of where you are, who you are, what you look like and what you do, in this future happy you - then you'll have a good starting point.
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I'm sorry, BUT YES YOU DO! sh*t happens to everyone amiok.......you act like you're the only one out there who has sh*t to deal with. It's all in how you personally choose to handle said sh*t. You can let it get you down which apparently you seem to do or you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and you keep moving forward.
And I guess I'm just crazy.......
