Hi,
this is my first post on this forum. Glad to have found it, and glad I just ordered the PhalloSan Forte.
I just read that an erection is needed -or much easier- when putting the device on the penis.
My issue is that I have a hard time getting a hard on. (Pun intended.) Even using an inexpensive hand pump I only get one when I'm psychologically aroused, meaning that my new girlfriend send me an exciting picture of herself, or writes me how she wants me to do it with her, and how she came thinking of me, imagining it being me in her instead of her fingers. (I live in Amsterdam, she in California, but we expect to live together sooner or later, and are emailing every day. Last evening we talked over the phone for the first time.)
My erect size is normally 13 or 14 cm, depending on how aroused I feel. She says that is plenty good enough for her, and the adequate most common length. I know that is probably true, but I want to give her the maximum pleasure I can with my penis, making it grow to about 15 cm or 6 inches, the most bought size for dildos by women I read.
It has to do with me not having had real sex since 1998, living in celibacy, and since 2005 having only masturbated, watching lots of porn. (I don't even remember what a vagina feels like. Although I was married for 9 years, after that had plenty of sex for 6 years with another woman, and with many shorter affairs and one night stands in between and after.)
Long story short, how do I go about putting the PhalloSan Forte on every day without always having an erection to do so?