e.d trouble (maybe venous leak)

[NP97]

I don't mean to be a dick bit you need to man up. Quit making excuses. There are few women out there who care about the size of your penis. You also don't even know if you have physical ED.... you obviously have mental ED. Maybe you need a therapist or something.... I dunno.
Either way, killing yourself is the loser way out. Life is never worth giving up on. It takes no guts and no balls to just end it.
So I'll say it again... be a man and do whatever is necessary to get your sh*t together and make yourself happy. Live life and enjoy the challeges it brings. Or you can be a pussy and end it. Your choice man.....

 

[Batwoman]

So what kind of treatment are you getting for your restrictive lung disease? There are still lots of things you can do to get fit, even if cardio is a problem for you.
Try not to focus so much on the negatives. You're 6'4"? There are plenty of guys here who would LOVE to be that size. 5 1/2" penis? That's perfectly normal -- I have had great sex with guys that size. Anyway, I think you are searching for negatives in your life right now. Please, go get some professional help.

 

[Pirate]

Listen to the BatWoman.
We can be supportive but you really need to get professional help.
Do not give up on yourself.

 

[giantsrule]

So what kind of treatment are you getting for your restrictive lung disease? There are still lots of things you can do to get fit, even if cardio is a problem for you.
Try not to focus so much on the negatives. You're 6'4"? There are plenty of guys here who would LOVE to be that size. 5 1/2" penis? That's perfectly normal -- I have had great sex with guys that size. Anyway, I think you are searching for negatives in your life right now. Please, go get some professional help.

I'm still waiting to see a specialist for s second opinion but domethings def wrong. The treatments they gave me havnt done jack squat apparently just like everything else they have one kind of treatment and If it doesn't work your screwed. Now I'm just embarresed to be around people just walking around makes me breathe hard. I can never catch a break anymore something new always comes up right when I accept the problem I'm dealing with. It shouldn't be this hard. I don't see how it can be mental e.d since my nighttime erections are always week too

 

[giantsrule]

I don't mean to be a dick bit you need to man up. Quit making excuses. There are few women out there who care about the size of your penis. You also don't even know if you have physical ED.... you obviously have mental ED. Maybe you need a therapist or something.... I dunno.
Either way, killing yourself is the loser way out. Life is never worth giving up on. It takes no guts and no balls to just end it.
So I'll say it again... be a man and do whatever is necessary to get your sh*t together and make yourself happy. Live life and enjoy the challeges it brings. Or you can be a pussy and end it. Your choice man.....

So I should tough if out and hate my life and wait for more bad things to happen so I can say I dud it? I just don't see the point if I died right now I wouldn't care one bit. It's easy for people who like there lives and got dealt s good hand in life to say to just be happy. I try to and something else always happens

 

[NP97]

Buddy my life has been anything but easy. It sure would be easy to end it... damn would it be. But why would you not want to try to make things better for yourself? You only have one life to live.... ending it prematurely just seems stupid. See a therapist if you're really having those bad thouhts.

 

[giantsrule]

Buddy my life has been anything but easy. It sure would be easy to end it... damn would it be. But why would you not want to try to make things better for yourself? You only have one life to live.... ending it prematurely just seems stupid. See a therapist if you're really having those bad thouhts.

I just don't get the point in trying to hang on and hope it gets better when your misseeable. I'll never be cured so I'll just have to deal with other things on top of that. I know a lot of people have it worse than me but they must want to live for something. I really don't have anything to hang around for. Am I supposed to do it for pride

 

[CUSP82]

I believe God gave me life.I believe to take that life will get God really really pissed off at me.I don't care how long I have to stay in a miserable life because after 60 or 70 years it will be over and I will have enjoyment with God.If I piss God off He is going to be mad at me for all eternity and that's a lot longer than 60-70 years! All eternity scares the sh*t out of me!

 

[Pete28]

I'm still waiting to see a specialist for s second opinion but domethings def wrong. The treatments they gave me havnt done jack squat apparently just like everything else they have one kind of treatment and If it doesn't work your screwed. Now I'm just embarresed to be around people just walking around makes me breathe hard. I can never catch a break anymore something new always comes up right when I accept the problem I'm dealing with. It shouldn't be this hard. I don't see how it can be mental e.d since my nighttime erections are always week too

Listen bro, i have the same condition: cripple dick and some moderate venous leakage. But i think we godda have faith. We have one thing on our side and that is youth, my friend. You are 24, i am 29.
Maybe within 10 -15 years there will be some miracle cure and we'll be sending messages to each other about what great hard dicks we have and how we can fuck for centuries. This has to be in the back of our minds.

 

[giantsrule]

Listen bro, i have the same condition: cripple dick and some moderate venous leakage. But i think we godda have faith. We have one thing on our side and that is youth, my friend. You are 24, i am 29.
Maybe within 10 -15 years there will be some miracle cure and we'll be sending messages to each other about what great hard dicks we have and how we can fuck for centuries. This has to be in the back of our minds.

Did you get checked out and there was no cure?

 

[kenlee6]

I agree with Pete. Be strong in faith. If we trust that God can heal us, he will reward us for our faith by healing us. We need each others support here

 

[Big Al]

I know there's a lot of people that run into problems that are pychological but I really don't think mine is...

I state this with kindness and caring- your latest posts reveal a deep psychological pain that requires immediate attention. At this stage, what can we on this forum do for you except to encourage you to seek the help that you need.

 

[dsfan]

I just don't get the point in trying to hang on and hope it gets better when your misseeable. I'll never be cured so I'll just have to deal with other things on top of that. I know a lot of people have it worse than me but they must want to live for something. I really don't have anything to hang around for. Am I supposed to do it for pride

Hey man,

Read through this whole thread to this point. Glad to see you're getting around to having it looked at, long story short (full story @ https://www.pegym.com/forums/penile-anomalies-injuries/12609-penile-fracture-without-surgery-screwed-i-think.html#post117418 ) I know how frustrating it can be at our age to make a appointment/show up to it, but believe me... After it's over, you'll feel a lot better, particularly if it is a physical problem (which it sounds like), you'll have a reason as to what the problem is. None of this "its all in your head" BS that my family dr fed me for a couple years.

I went on SSRI's because of this problem about 5 months ago, which I recently stopped taking -- the reason for my depression/anxiety, is of course, penis related. Wish I had some solid advice to give to you about dealing with it mentally, I'm about as down in the gutter as possible about it. I'm well aware that most women around my age would run for the hills if they knew I wasn't able to get solid/keep it up, at least you can ejaculate easily, which is more than I can say for myself.

Keep hitting the gym I suppose, whenever you have a weak moment/need to push that extra rep, just think of how frustrating this situation of yours is, it works for me every time.

Ever feel like ranting/screaming send me a PM

 

[giantsrule]

anybody who has the same problem that i do says it cant be fixed i think its safe to say theres no hope. i can either be alone for the rest of my life because no descent girls gonna want a broken dick loser or i can just kill myself now and save myself the pain

 

[giantsrule]

i overeacted i dont want to kill myself i just want to be normal again. if anyone has any ideas or has gone through this and taken care of their problem id like to hear it. i just dont wanna hear stories about how i need to accept that ill never be normal agsain and theres more to life and all that crap. im only 24 im not gonna give up that easy. theres got to be something.

 

[CUSP82]

Very good my young friend.We don't give up! Giving up is for babies, quitters, and girls! ( I just had to say that).Now let's have some greatminds from the pe community come here to help you. Yes you told us about your ed. Can you get an erection with hand stimilation to the point of ejaculation? Do you masterbate?

 

[Batwoman]

Hey, watch what you say about girls!
Yes giantsrule, tell us more about what you can do and let's see what people can contribute.

 

[hsarge]

Giant: I PMed you. I was having problems and even investigated surgery. But I started PEing and things improved. There are many solutions to investigate.

 

[kenlee6]

Be thankful that u have a penis that can pass urine without using any device. There's a lot of people out there who need catheters and other devices to help them pass urine. Some have penis embeded in their abdomen. I think there's a lot of people who prefer to have ED than to have the diseases they are having. Not to say having sex, these people are also having problems in their daily living

So we should feel blessed. Let's feel grateful for the things we have and not concentrate on the things we dont have. This is one of the way that we can see things that will make us happier although life is never perfect.

 

[giantsrule]

Very good my young friend.We don't give up! Giving up is for babies, quitters, and girls! ( I just had to say that).Now let's have some greatminds from the pe community come here to help you. Yes you told us about your ed. Can you get an erection with hand stimilation to the point of ejaculation? Do you masterbate?

i can get an erection usually buts its never fully hard if it is it dies in seconds. i masterbate all the time to ejaculation but its never fully hard. its a pretty rough thing to look at. i have a problem. i havnt taken the cialis for a while when i did take it i would have nonstop semi hard erections. i think i should have stopped masterbating the first time i ran into problems in 06 but i didnt andnow im worried its too late and it will never heal