e.d trouble (maybe venous leak)

[Batwoman]

How about you stop masturbating now -- completely -- for say two weeks. Yes, I know that would be hard to do, but it could REALLY help.
You say you would do anything to get better. Would you do that?

 

[Minuteman]

How about you stop masturbating now -- completely -- for say two weeks. Yes, I know that would be hard to do, but it could REALLY help.
You say you would do anything to get better. Would you do that?

Sound advice. I will also add one little thing and that is that you from time to time in those two weeks read some erotic stories, look as some highly erotic pictures or something like that (i would not recommend porn but you can try that also), just to keep the fire in yourself glowing but do not touch your penis

 

[CUSP82]

Stop jerking off and give the guy some rest! Let's try 2-3 weeks of no touchy!

 

[giantsrule]

How about you stop masturbating now -- completely -- for say two weeks. Yes, I know that would be hard to do, but it could REALLY help.
You say you would do anything to get better. Would you do that?

ill give it a shot. its not gonna be easy though. im trying not to crack right now hahha

 

[Pirate]

Good luck, Giantsrule!
Sublime torment!

 

[Batwoman]

Nobody said it would be easy.
But big payoffs sometimes take big sacrifices.
(And no, I am not joking here!)

 

[Big Al]

Listen bro, i have the same condition: cripple dick and some moderate venous leakage. But i think we godda have faith. We have one thing on our side and that is youth, my friend. You are 24, i am 29.
Maybe within 10 -15 years there will be some miracle cure and we'll be sending messages to each other about what great hard dicks we have and how we can fuck for centuries. This has to be in the back of our minds.

Try to get a cavernosogram done. Then they can see wether or not the blood is leaking. I had one done and i thought i had venous leakage, but they didn't see a single drop in my case. Not the most pleasure of procedures but that's the only way to know it, as Doppler is a less specific examination. If the doc sees the leaking vein, he can fix it. But if they see nothing, they cannot fix anything.

Bare also in mind that one can still fuck with a full but less than rockhard erection.

*I'm also still convinced i 'somehow' did some damage do my unit whilst jelqing and stretching. Ok, we may have some ED, but millions of guys have ED and they're still fucking every day and do have relationships, so i don't think we should ignore girls or not get in a relationship and stay alone for the rest of our lives.

Can you explain what appears to be discrepancies in your posts above?

If you posted about an actual diagnosis somewhere and I missed it, I apologize in advance.

*(Cavernosogram shows you're all clear- it sounds like you're psyching yourself into ED)

 

[giantsrule]

i cracked bad. back to square 1. i really dont think this will make a differnce but im gonna really try

 

[CUSP82]

You can do it if you want to! You do want to try to get better? Hey anytime you get the urge get on here and someone will kick your ass for you!

 

[Big Al]

i cracked bad. back to square 1. i really dont think this will make a differnce but im gonna really try

You may be trying too hard. The more pressure you put yourself under the harder it's going to be for you to get erect. Try giving your mind a break from the worry of this and see what happens. I know it's easier said than done, but if you approach this issue more calmly then that in itself could make a positive difference in your progress.

 

[UKGuy]

Try to get a cavernosogram done. Then they can see wether or not the blood is leaking. I had one done and i thought i had venous leakage, but they didn't see a single drop in my case. Not the most pleasure of procedures but that's the only way to know it, as Doppler is a less specific examination. If the doc sees the leaking vein, he can fix it. But if they see nothing, they cannot fix anything.

Bare also in mind that one can still fuck with a full but less than rockhard erection.

I'm also still convinced i 'somehow' did some damage do my unit whilst jelqing and stretching. Ok, we may have some ED, but millions of guys have ED and they're still fucking every day and do have relationships, so i don't think we should ignore girls or not get in a relationship and stay alone for the rest of our lives.

Hi Pete I do want physical testing done however the last time I spoke to my GP he was convinced there was no physical cause despite me insisting there was. Prior to this the first Uroligist I saw refused to do any test he said it was "all in my head". You see I don't know how it works in the United States or other countries but here in the United Kingdom if you don't get approval from your doctor to see a uroligist you can't see one period. Perhaps you can see one privately but I am not sure.

I am not saying we (those of us with this problem) should stay alone forever with no female company. However I am not dating myself or trying to partly because I feel like crap having a smaller penis below average which doesn't work that well anymore which is the main reason. My general confidence is pretty good, healthy but my sexual confidence is pretty low it's hard to feel attractive and masculine when you are impotent. I know though people out there have it MUCH worse than us but still it's hard to feel good when I know I am a young guy walking around with a limp dick and I am not capable of doing something 99% of men can do naturally.

Unfotunately we can't change the past I did something stupid that stupidity resulted in me damaging my penis and it's functioning I don't want to bitch and moan about this issue but I am lost and I don't really know where to go next with the problem or what to do. Although I believe I have "Venous Leak Syndrome" I refuse to believe it can't be fixed somehow or perhaps I am still in deep denial.

 

[Bomber44]

I think people are to quick to diagnose themselves with venous leak. Do you ever get full erections?

 

[giantsrule]

I think people are to quick to diagnose themselves with venous leak. Do you ever get full erections?

No and what I do get dies fast. I want to believe it's not a leak but I'm only 24 I don't know what else it could be

 

[giantsrule]

I went 9 days without masterbating and I think it actually made it worse. I'm really starting to Lise hope here

 

[WhiteCloudz]

i have had ED and alot of similar things that you have explained on this thread....first of all i am sorry you have been going through a hard time and that things dont seem to be getting any easier for you....long before i came to this site i thought i would never solve or get away from the sexual dysfunctions that were haunting me....i too thought i had some serious nerve damage or a venous leak but believe it or not it was my mental health that was the problem...i was in a bad place and it spilled over into everthing i done...the truth is 9 days without masterbating is an exellent achievement for you because of how it has been but it will never be enough...you need a proper rest from the draining of all your sexual energy and the mental torture you have been going through....it will be hard but you must give it up to see what the real cause of all these problems are and then you can watch as a healthy approach returns to you....a mans penis and its functions are the best way to tell if he is healthy...if they are not working then something in his system is out of balance....we all have different opinions and i know that your problem could be exactly what you have been thinking-a physical one but in most cases it is the mental health of a person that brings up all these problems especially the emotional ones that are so hard to accept....

Just remember that if you keep fighting it you will remain stuck in that same place.....Make friends with the situation now and promise yourself that you will get through it one day at a time,one hour at a time if you have to....i know you dont want to hear these kind of words now but if you dont recognize the problem now and deal with it,it will get worse....masterbating is perfectly okay but when it becomes addictive it just becomes destructive to your health...give your body a chance to recover and your mind a rest from sexual thoughts....nothing improved for me until i gave up ejaculating for at least 2 months then i started to get morning wood again...when you cum everyday especially when you are depressed you squeeze all your energy out at that moment....it is a negative release when it is supposed to be positive....if you can find some balance everything will be okay...

sorry for rambling on cos i know your problem is probably not what i experienced and you may need to do something totally different but i wish you the best of health and happiness for the future Giantsrule....

 

[fatalbazuka]

give your body a chance to recover and your mind a rest from sexual thoughts....nothing improved for me until i gave up ejaculating for at least 2 months then i started to get morning wood again...when you cum everyday especially when you are depressed you squeeze all your energy out at that moment....it is a negative release when it is supposed to be positive....if you can find some balance everything will be okay...

sorry for rambling on cos i know your problem is probably not what i experienced and you may need to do something totally different but i wish you the best of health and happiness for the future Giantsrule....

Very very wise and true words my friend. This is the best piece of advice in this thread, and in the forum right now.

We need rest ! the body is an amazing place of which can be cured naturally when you leave it alone.

 

[Big Al]

Very very wise and true words my friend. This is the best piece of advice in this thread, and in the forum right now.

We need rest ! the body is an amazing place of which can be cured naturally when you leave it alone.

Great response! The mind is extremely powerful, and excessive worrying alone can have disastrous effects on your sexual functioning.

 

[fhmn777]

I have been skimming here, and I already posted on another thread, but I am looking for some input on a problem that's is similar to this one. Somewhere along the line, I was jelqing AND doing stretches. I'm pretty sure I jelqed too much, because I have enlarged veins on the left side of my shaft, and very thin red veins on the right (that a month ago were in the middle of a small bruise). The bruise and the vein faded over time, but the problem of softness stayed. This started 2 months ago. Obviously I've not done anything else pertaining to PE since...the
thing is, I remember reading a thread somewhere where someone was saying that the person had just "overworked" their penis, and swore that the person should rest for a week, not masturbate, and use a hot wrap. All while taking ginko daily. Anyone vouch for this? A personal message would be nice, as I have yet to muster the willpower to abstain from jerkin it for more than 2 days. Maybe I should add one more thing; I'm a smoker with a past of drug use that you would never believe. No drugs as of late, though...just cigs.

 

[NP97]

Take the time off. Want it to work better? Then do it. That simple. If you don't, then go ahead and jack off.
Veins are suppose to get bigger. They grow so your dick can. Needs more blood to get bigger, so... yep.

 

[fhmn777]

I will add that I DO get erections (hence my usual masturbating) , they are just so soft. Like a sponge! I DO, however, get the occasional "stuffy", meaning it's hard to bend it, but it stays squishy, and my flaccid penis reminds me of a water baloon. hell, even 90% of my erections, the only word that comes to mind is "water baloon". This just reallllly bothers me, guys, so, as I said, I would greatly appreciate a personal message. what would be REALLY cool, is if someone has gone through the exact same sh*t I have, and found a rememdy...