Balls deep vs not balls deep

[Jaw Breaker]

I'd say up to 7.5" is fine, after that.... depends. As I've said before my ideal range is in the 6-ish to 7.5", yes FWB is just a little shy of that but he's still an incredible lover. And as I've also said before yes there are times when I've wished he had a little bit more length - but never when fucking. The only time I've thought that has been when titfucking because I can't lick it while he's doing that. But for fucking, I wouldn't change one damn thing.

Thanks for your always honest answers.

 

[SXEUXT]

I would imagine so, if married but I'd also think some women might find very large girth to be uncomfortable. Like some positions may not be enjoyable any more, blowjobs become an issue, no more anal (if your into it), and the list goes on. Atleast that's what I've heard and read from guys with large girth on this forum.

Opinions vary from person to person though .

I guess if you count those things as well it indeed becomes a different question. Again, the women on here would probably better be able to answer it, or guys that have had the experience along the period in which the did PE.
I imagine that beyond 5.5" is really going to be a problem... right?

 

[Cool-Since-92]

I guess if you count those things as well it indeed becomes a different question. Again, the women on here would probably better be able to answer it, or guys that have had the experience along the period in which the did PE.
I imagine that beyond 5.5" is really going to be a problem... right?

I agree. "Q" whats your opinion on girth? Whats too big?

 

[Qandisa]

I agree. "Q" whats your opinion on girth? Whats too big?

Length I'm great with estimating, girth not so much. Somewhere on here I have an estimate of FWB's girth, I'll have to see if I can find it. He is a bit above average in that aspect.I can tell you that I

have been with one or two very girthy guys that yes were a little difficult as far as fucking. I did attempt anal with one, didn't get very far with that and really wouldn't want to try it again. And actually I have had opportunities to hook up with him again after and I'm just not interested in it.

 

[bigborer]

There is no general rule...

I've happened to bottom out at 75% in (so the remaining 25% were literally forced in), slow or fast pounding- she loved it as deep as I could give it to her. On a following conversation one thing led to another and she said that she could probably take 15% more, but more than that would feel from bad to horrible, and much more such as + 40% more she wouldn't even try it.
Would that be the same for all women? Surely not.
It's similar to clitoris stimulation- some will orgasm once and then won't take any more touching there for a while, some will only need 20 seconds to chill off so will practically take it for as long as you'll give it

 

[TPW]

Agreed...size preference will always come down to personal choice for each and every woman (and man) as will their preferred method(s) of sexual play.

And since there are no set rules or standards, we are then free to explore, experiment and discover just what gives both us and our lover(s) the greatest sexual pleasure and enjoyment.

So forget about any preferred size requirements - there are none - and instead choose to experience sex as the erotic and intimate adventure it is meant to be.

 

[Jaw Breaker]

Agreed...size preference will always come down to personal choice for each and every woman (and man) as will their preferred method(s) of sexual play.

And since there are no set rules or standards, we are then free to explore, experiment and discover just what gives both us and our lover(s) the greatest sexual pleasure and enjoyment.

So forget about any preferred size requirements - there are none - and instead choose to experience sex as the erotic and intimate adventure it is meant to be.

 

[Phoenix7672]

I'd say up to 7.5" is fine, after that.... depends. As I've said before my ideal range is in the 6-ish to 7.5", yes FWB is just a little shy of that but he's still an incredible lover. And as I've also said before yes there are times when I've wished he had a little bit more length - but never when fucking. The only time I've thought that has been when titfucking because I can't lick it while he's doing that. But for fucking, I wouldn't change one damn thing.

Damn, so in 0.3" I guess we need to stop talking lol

 

[Phoenix7672]

Length I'm great with estimating, girth not so much. Somewhere on here I have an estimate of FWB's girth, I'll have to see if I can find it. He is a bit above average in that aspect.I can tell you that I

have been with one or two very girthy guys that yes were a little difficult as far as fucking. I did attempt anal with one, didn't get very far with that and really wouldn't want to try it again. And actually I have had opportunities to hook up with him again after and I'm just not interested in it.

I know the 'toilet paper roll' thing is frowned upon due to the variance in size, but it would be interesting if you were to compare them to that, just because it is an easy thing to reference. Most should be within the 5-5.5" circumference range....especially since you live north of the wall like I do. lol

 

[Phoenix7672]

There is no general rule...

I've happened to bottom out at 75% in (so the remaining 25% were literally forced in), slow or fast pounding- she loved it as deep as I could give it to her. On a following conversation one thing led to another and she said that she could probably take 15% more, but more than that would feel from bad to horrible, and much more such as + 40% more she wouldn't even try it.
Would that be the same for all women? Surely not.
It's similar to clitoris stimulation- some will orgasm once and then won't take any more touching there for a while, some will only need 20 seconds to chill off so will practically take it for as long as you'll give it

Broken record, but what is your stats since you don't have a sig? Whenever I hear of guys bottoming out over 50% of the time I always wonder what they are presently at, size-wise (I don't have a large sample set of girls myself )

 

[SuperDD]

I know the 'toilet paper roll' thing is frowned upon due to the variance in size, but it would be interesting if you were to compare them to that, just because it is an easy thing to reference. Most should be within the 5-5.5" circumference range....especially since you live north of the wall like I do. lol

I was trying to run it thru the TP roll before I knew it was a test LMAO

 

[mangina_49]

my 2 cents.

A girl is going to angle her hips/arch her back/squeeze her thighs etc to control the depth of penetration thus making any difference in penis length irrelevant for the most part.

a long dick may make positions like doggy or missionary with her legs up painful or too deep, but it also opens up the door for other positions like sideways, or what seems to be their most favourite with me, missionary except she is basically in the fetal position. Always been able to go "balls deep" that way and pound away.

Also really like missionary except she wraps her hand around the base of my dick. She can squeeze, twist, whatever. Kinda like getting a hand job while i'm fucking her.

 

[cathy22]

I think guys just naturally want to put all of it in no matter what their size.

 

[Phoenix7672]

I think guys just naturally want to put all of it in no matter what their size.

I'd kinda have to agree, but there is something (male ego wise) when you have too much for the girl in question...or at least it takes quite a while until she can take you all in.

 

[cathy22]

I can take all of him now, not so much, (without some hurt) when we first started dating.

 

[theonering]

BP I am 7-ish inches [hell of a fat pad!] and I'm not sure I'd want to go any bigger because of the limitations it might put on some rough, uninhibited sex...

I'm all for slow sex, but it's great to just let loose, and I wouldn't want to compromise that for us both.

 

[mzlovely]

7"-9" hard and fast balls slapping against my clict yes amazing and exciting I love it

 

[cathy22]

while only having sex on the weekends lately the only thing that bothers me, (and I know he's anxious), is hard and deep thrusting before I'm really warmed up.

 

[Phoenix7672]

while only having sex on the weekends lately the only thing that bothers me, (and I know he's anxious), is hard and deep thrusting before I'm really warmed up.

I guess that is where both self control and good communication in bed is key. Not to mention vocal girls are better than quiet ones.