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Balls deep vs not balls deep
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Wouldn't do anything for me personally. When it comes to fucking slow" isn't exactly in my vocabulary
Hard, fast, and furious is more my style.
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Wouldn't do anything for me personally. When it comes to fucking slow" isn't exactly in my vocabulary
More proof that every woman is different. The tempo my wife likes is about two trust a second. At first is slow and deep, passionate, feeling everything there is to feel with penetration. After everything is all well lubricated its that two trust a second tempo that she likes, even when she's on top. Sometimes its faster, sometimes it slower but all depends. When she's getting ready to cum its balls deep shallow hard thrust is what she likes to cum to. My wife does not like when I only put about half in, or does she like sledge hammer sex... well very rarely does she want it that hard
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Just kidding N2B.
I like how guys answer this. How would a guy have an answer unless they have been both to big to pound it balls deep but yet the right size.
Your guessing one way or the other.
I should ask my wife but if she says she did not like the guys that were too big to go balls deep I may get a complex.
Maybe I can go get one of those rambone dildos and surprise her when the click strikes 12.
Should I spit on it first?
I like how guys answer this. How would a guy have an answer unless they have been both to big to pound it balls deep but yet the right size.
Your guessing one way or the other.
I should ask my wife but if she says she did not like the guys that were too big to go balls deep I may get a complex.
Maybe I can go get one of those rambone dildos and surprise her when the click strikes 12.
Should I spit on it first?
Well, I started at a length where I could go Balls Deep and only bottom ones out in certain positions and grew to a length that made it difficult and bottomed out in most. I even made that change with the same partner.
I did that to my woman a while back (without warning ) and she also squirmed away at 7. She has often told me I'm right on that threshold to where longer would be painful & she is like Q, she likes it extremely hard. She also loves girth, which I'm very fortunate to have.
The points being made about being careful are good ones. I'd imagine women who like slow love making would be easier to handle with an extra long cock since your not hard thrusting and it would be easier to not accidently ram it all in.
Nice answers from all.
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Yep, so ~7.25" to ~8.25". And with her the loss of balls deep with reckless abandon was worth it as the Deep Spot and A Spot were really the only ways to get her to have reliable and frequent penetrative orgasms. She told me when we first were together not to be upset when she didn't have any and that she would need clitoral stimulation for them.
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Since there are quite a few erogenous zones or “hotspots” in and around the vagina, the depth, rhythm and speed of penis thrusting will most certainly generate different pleasurable sensations for a woman, with each woman having her personal preferences.
Often these preferences will be dependent on sexual mood, sex position, which "hotspot" stimulation is desired as well as the size of both the penis and vagina (some women have a shallow vaginal canal, for example).
And while the depth, speed and rhythm of penetration will feel different for women, it will also feel different for men too. This is why it is often beneficial for men to vary their thrusting during penetration for it can often generate greater pleasure for both partners.
The Fine Art of Penis Thrusting
Often these preferences will be dependent on sexual mood, sex position, which "hotspot" stimulation is desired as well as the size of both the penis and vagina (some women have a shallow vaginal canal, for example).
And while the depth, speed and rhythm of penetration will feel different for women, it will also feel different for men too. This is why it is often beneficial for men to vary their thrusting during penetration for it can often generate greater pleasure for both partners.
The Fine Art of Penis Thrusting
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This is so true TPW. Just like all PE questions they are best answered for the individual. With thrusting or other sex questions they are best answered by partners. I believe different things should be tryed by partners to establish what works best. Sometimes thrusting is not even best, but instead side to side or figure eights or.... So many possibilities. Great blog article by the way. Top drawer as usual.
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Exactly. It takes time to learn what your partner likes and it's important to pay attention ... especially in the bedroom.
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This whole discussion reminds me once again that I really find the male obsession with size to be misguided -- what a lady experiences during sex with a man depends so very much on his control and learning what she likes, not on how big he is.
If most of the guys on this site spent 1/100 as much time learning about female sexuality, how to talk about sex with their partners, and how to read the signals of their ladies during sex than they do worrying about penis size..... well, they would end up with much larger gains in the Lover Department than a bit of added penis size could ever contribute!
If most of the guys on this site spent 1/100 as much time learning about female sexuality, how to talk about sex with their partners, and how to read the signals of their ladies during sex than they do worrying about penis size..... well, they would end up with much larger gains in the Lover Department than a bit of added penis size could ever contribute!
Granted Batwoman, but why not do both? Arguably that's why I'm here.
Also, at least for a male's view, I'd like the idea of being able to hit the A-Spot and CDS 99% of the time, as that would be something a lot of girls might never have experienced since it takes a certain length/size to pull off. Granted if they did not like it, then it would mean leaving some out in the cold as to not go 'too deep' for them.
Also, at least for a male's view, I'd like the idea of being able to hit the A-Spot and CDS 99% of the time, as that would be something a lot of girls might never have experienced since it takes a certain length/size to pull off. Granted if they did not like it, then it would mean leaving some out in the cold as to not go 'too deep' for them.
You know I've heard various things on this subject such as having a larger glans can make the pressure softer even during harder thrusts
Hey if the woman has shallow depth and you have a large size you'll just have to settle for doing less with more
