A-spot

[phil88]

Ahh ic. Red bear I dont think its that first position. Im standing at the foot of the bed, shes lying on her back on the bed with a pillow under her for comfort. The only thing I think I have been doing wrong is holding her by the hips with her feet up around my ears. Ill try pushing her legs back by her ears, with legs spread. Thanks for the info everybody

I like doggy style, but I cant really go all out without causing pain. My penis also curves to the left. I find just doing a windmill motion really makes a girl go crazy. However only one way, if i go the other way, I'm assuming against the bend, it causes pain.

 

[SwedGuy]

Not every woman enjoys the A-spot and my wife does not or have not learned to do so. I cannot reach it but we have a pretty fat and long dildo (about 9" x 5.5") and when I push it all the way in and kind of give short bumps against her A-spot, she feel more pain than pleasure and begs me to not go that deep. Except for her, I have no experience on the subject.

 

[danvers]

My wife orgasms very easy, which isn't a bad thing. However, if she has a clitoris orgasm first she will start to dry out. When she has an orgasm from the G-spot or A-spot she stays wet and has multiple orgasms.

With us its a time thing, some times we have to make it quick, other times we can go for a marathon.

I find I can reach the A-spot with my middle finger facing up. You will feel a smooth spot, behind the pubic bone where it starts to tilt. I found it's best to work from the C, to G, then the A. Considerable warmup is necessary and no I'm not talking about the rice sock.

 

[somebodyelse]

in my experiences with it, it's usually easy to hit when you've warmed her up. You have to really ease it back in there and you'll feel something "slide" out of the way and it feels like you've entered into another vagina inside of her. I remember going in and out with deep thrusts, had a moderate wood and I kept sliding into it. 5 stokes sent her into a violent orgasm and she squeezed so tight that I flopped out.

This girl also told me "the back of my p*ssy is aching..." after we finished. I was like "Oh my bad, i didn't mean to hurt you" she said "oh no, it's a good hurt, don't feel bad at all" as she smiled naughtily.

 

[LongWood]

There's a lot of spots in women and men. I think the main question is how to combine them all at the same time during the sexual itercourse. it's like to switch gear without pressing a clutch if u do it wrong... The System is so complicated that all you can do, i think, is being sensitive to to your partners feelings. The indicators are so subtle that if you hesitate what you're doing, you loose the moment and touch..carpe diem - all the time. It is like you melt to an other person's progress to reach orgasm in many levels..a to b to c to d to e all together f**king difficult

 

[Batwoman]

Like everything else, it takes practice. Great sex is like a dance. It takes some skill, yes, but also lots of timing.... and it is often much better when the partners have been together long enough to have learned how each other move.

 

[Bones]

Like everything else, it takes practice. Great sex is like a dance. It takes some skill, yes, but also lots of timing.... and it is often much better when the partners have been together long enough to have learned how each other move.

Exactly

Been 2 years with my girlfriend and only lately I found her A-Spot...

Thought you had to be over 7.5" to reach it..but I guess with certain positions it can make it easier

 

[papaki]

Sooo...that I was reaching back then when I sayed I hit the cervix and she pained enough but the pain was sweat...She didnt say no to deep pound but she pained some times..

 

[hge1234]

The front of the deep spot is located on the front wall of the vagina about 3-4 inches in, if your fingers arernt that long just go back as far as you can, you should be able to use enough pressure to stimualte it. It feels like the rim of a frisbee.


I will try and use a diagram to demonstrate how to stimulate the front of the deep spot.
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Have your fingers like the diagram shows, go about 3-4 inches inside or as deep as you can, once you have done this, push your hand up thus making more contant with the upper vaginal walls. Now pull both of your fingers back in a come over here motion, or pull them back about 2 inches towards you. It would be advisable to start off slower, then increase pressure gradually {can put alot of pressure on this spot so dont be scared of hurting her}. Would be advisable to give them a clitoral orgasm before doing this. The girls i have done this to seem to have a deep spot orgasm quicker when i gave them a clitoral orgasm before using this technigue.


Watch her body lanquage aswell, hips buckling forward, increase in iractic breathing, or the girl sayin dont stop are all signs that she is enjoying it. Also if shes says faster,harder, from my experience dont follow her advise, just keep doing what your doing and hopefully she will have a deep spot orgasm

 

[funflyer]

hge1234,

Isn't that the G-Spot and not the A-Spot?? Less than 3-4 inches in and you hit the deep spot as you pull out 2 inches? I would say you have found the G-Spot. The A-spot is on the cul-de-sac.

 

[ColtAR-15]

...this would shorten the length of her vagina? ie, bring the A-spot/AFE-zone "closer" to the opening?

Try this. Basically missionary but with the womans legs on your shoulders. This shortens the length of the vagina. I did this with the Wife and I was putting pressure on something (not the cervix ). The wife said it felt weird. Didn't really hurt but didn't feel good either. I sometimes touch something when she's on top during deep thrusts and when I do she usually orgasms.

 

[runrenny]

Not sure if this is what happened but we were on an air mattress last summer she was lying on her belly and kinda towards the bottom of the air mattress her legs were hanging over and it was a little deflated not to much though anyways I entered from behind with my legs straddling just about the bottom of her buttocks and just went at it she got pretty loud and I am sure people heard us as we were on a camping trip, anyways, next thing I knew she was cumming giblets and while still inside of her she begged and kept begging me not to move and I was so close to going. After she calmed down I came and she said that what ever I did she has never cum like that before. And to my dismay since. I have a feeling it was the damn air mattress.

 

[hge1234]

Funflyer,

From a few books ive read on the atomany of the females vaginas, they state that unaroused its depths is around 3-4 inches. When aroused the cervix just retracts to allow something larger to be placed inside the vagina when this happens it doesent like the location of the g spot/aspot change at all[not certain on this, just from expeirence}. The g spot is about 2 inches in has wrinkled feel like the beginning of the mouth just past the teeth, it also seems to baloon when increased pressure is placed onit, or maybe its the urethral sponge which baloons out as the two things seem to be located around the same area. Whilst the A spot seem to have a smoother texture to it. The front of the deep spot is on the front of the vaginal wall, like the g spot, but about 1-2 inches deeper inside the vagina

 

[runrenny]

All I can say is that she came like crazy..

hge1234 are you funflyer? Or just quoting him?

 

[hge1234]

No, i just put his name in there to adress him directly as it is what he did on his post.

 

[Diabloo696]

there's a Trick for the A-spot... look at any diagram, it's past the end of the vagina a little to the top if the girl is laying on her back, it would be down in doggy style...

the vagina of all girls and women on earth expands when she is sexually aroused up to 8" and retracts when she's not in any sexual stimulation to 4" of course it varies from a girl to another for many factors, if she's taller, petite, fat, thin.. but that's the averages...
so i guess for me it was and for all fellow PE friends, as long as we're not a 9" with a mushroom head! hear this trick...
this is why they say mushroom heads gives the best orgasms... only if they do this trick or they're over 9" and both ways you don't need to be a muchroom head to do it...

what we wanna do is hit it by surprise, it would take few minutes to make her orgasm if stimulated correctly, the A-spot is merely a 5-6" deep if she's not sexually stimulated or hot.. so my trick is, surprise sex ! i take off her pants while she's washing dishes, lube up while i'm hard and ready, and BAM !! after i insert it i don't start fucking i just keep pushing inside... it might be a little painful at first, when the head of my penis touches her A-spot and this is how i know i'm there... i go with my body a little up, "if she's bending down or doggied" or vice versa in missionary or if she's on her back, and i move small movements up & down rather than out & in... as she's aroused enough i start hidding as hard as i can... sometimes it will work & she'll orgasm instantly! sometimes, her G-spot will be aroused instead, and her vagina will expand "many times it may happen, it's natural" she got a little pleasure of the A spot, and when it happens i just move to regular G-spot action..

feedback me if it worked with you...

of course there's an upsize of being a 10" to be able to reach any girl's A spot at any time, but there's also a down size, like anal and oral, i had girls who never done anal agree on my 4.9" loool, if i was a 10" it would have been very hard convincing them "believe me it won't hurt as you imagine, other guys do it wrong etc.... loool

 

[OMG!]

Thanks for all the advice and info on the A-spot. Tried it the other night. Bingo! My wife had a very intense orgasm within seconds. Here's how we did it....

Using a vibrator and a 7" dildo, I let her work the vibrator on her clit while I operated the dildo. Recalling from your posts and diagrams here I found the A-spot immediately (about 6" inches in). She was groaning and loving it and then convulsing uncontrollably. Took just a minute or two, after which she rewarded me with a delicious hand job (my fave).

Thanks for all the info, folks, especially Batwoman, who started this thread. What a discovery! I LOVE this forum!

 

[thenewdude]

If you can get deep in it and feel a spongy spot way up there, you have hit the a-spot and she will moan! Some woman are deeper and other not. The longer you are the easier it is not having to have her legs up to her shoulders which is the position most woman don't like being in. If you are under six inches, I don't believe you can reach it.

 

[Diabloo696]

If you are under six inches, I don't believe you can reach it.

you can... of course it depends on how deep the girl you got is, it's different from one to another but if their vagina is retracted "i.e. not stimulated..." you can.. here's some scientific data

Vagina Size: the Average Vagina Size

 

[Batwoman]

That may be true.... but personally I don't much enjoy penetration if I'm not aroused. At worst it hurts, at best it just doesn't feel good. So why would I want a man to do that to me?