A-spot

[INS]

I'm not understanding how guys are hitting the A Spot with their fingers, I've never hit a girls cervix with my fingers, and it takes a solid inch more to properly stimulate the A spot. Its more about pressure on the A spot, you feel the area expand once you are in the right positions, as if it is stretching and opening up. Its the stretching and pressure on the A Spot that I've found to really do the trick, and I'm pretty sure that in most positions I wouldn't be able to do it properly with 6". And the Deep Spot definitely takes more to reach, expand, and apply pressure to. I'm definitely saying it take maybe 6.5" but more likely 7-7.5" to work and 8" is definitely advantageous for the Deep Spot stimulation.

I've heard of plenty of guys do it (one of them being an experienced swinger, and it works with the one girl I've been with too) Don't generalize like that. For instance:

Cervical Play, Cervical Orgasms : sex

See, it's not just my experience.

I can agree about the posterior fornix, because it can't be reached in my lady friend with the finger either, so it doesn't fit with my experience.

 

[INS]

PS: I wasn't trying to attack you or anything Zman. Just stating my experience with it. Sorry if I came off in that way.

 

[Zman007]

I've heard of plenty of guys do it (one of them being an experienced swinger, and it works with the one girl I've been with too) Don't generalize like that. For instance:

Cervical Play, Cervical Orgasms : sex

See, it's not just my experience.

I can agree about the posterior fornix, because it can't be reached in my lady friend with the finger either, so it doesn't fit with my experience.

Maybe I just have short fingers, middle finger is only 3 5'8" long. Short fingers relative my giant paw of a hand. I also know that in most positions when I am properly stimulating the A Spot I have ~7" inserted and the for some women the harder I push the more it expands the more powerful and easier it is to get them to Orgasm. There is absolutely no physical way I could stimulate the A Spot with my finger like I do with my dick. And there is no way I'd ever hit the Deep Spot.

I'll take your word for it that you can reach and feel the cervix with your fingers, I never have and that may be the random draw of my shorter fingers and the internal size of the women I've been with. I certainly wouldn't generalize that it is something that guys can expect to do either.

I was generalizing only as much as you were, based upon past experience. What I know is I spend a lot of time hitting the A Spot and the Deep Spot and I know how much I have inserted to do it on my partners and how it would be absolutely physically impossible for me to accomplish the same feat without sticking my whole hand in their Vagina.

 

[Zman007]

PS: I wasn't trying to attack you or anything Zman. Just stating my experience with it. Sorry if I came off in that way.

I understand, we each have different experiences. I also think we are referring to different techniques when we discuss stimulating the A Spot. I use lots of pulsing, lots of pressure, and very deep strokes finished with either pressure or pulsing. I also have the benefit of a large head which cushions me and reduces the pain the fell allying me to apply more pressure without pain.

 

[INS]

>sticking my whole hand in their Vagina

That would be fun as hell. I wish I could do it someday lol, but my current partner can't take that much (yet). I've heard fisting feels really intimate when your partner trusts you that make to make her a sock puppet

 

[Zman007]

>sticking my whole hand in their Vagina

That would be fun as hell. I wish I could do it someday lol, but my current partner can't take that much (yet). I've heard fisting feels really intimate when your partner trusts you that make to make her a sock puppet

Haha, can't say I really want to fist a girl. And my hand is a solid 4" across the knuckles, over an inch thick and muscled. I'm sure some women could so it, but none that I've been with and I have no particular interest to try. Lol!

 

[aBone2pick]

A woman who could handle my massive fist probably would get bored of my dick lol!

 

[theonering]

I can hit her cervix with my middle and ring fingers, and with my penis when she's in the doggy position.

I *think* I've reached the A-spot with my fingers [they are not that long], she said it felt incredible, but that it would be unlikely that she'd orgasm from it. That far into the vagina it must be the A-spot, as I can't think of something else 'that far back', for want of a better expression!

 

[kelthuzad1986]

I'm about 7.25 BPEL. Pretty close to 6.5 NBPEL. When my fwb gets on top of me and sits up I can stimulate a part of her deep inside of her. She's confirmed that's the case. I'm the first guy that she's ever been able to cum with just penetration and no clitoral stimulation. I guess it varies with each woman.

 

[silversid23]

at about 7 inches i hit someone in my girl during sex and she told me its the a spot and basically said it gets her wet like no other, so im confused on the people saying 7.75 or 8 inches, she is a small girl but im about 7 inches and she said i hit it

 

[RoarPE]

So I'm a bit late to this one but I thought I'd add my two cents. I'm a pretty averagely hung guy (6.25 BPEL x 5.5 EGM) and when really grinding deep on my girl with my full length inside her I could sometimes hit the A-Spot. As a small caveat I have basically no fat at all so almost all of that length is insertable. Unfortunately I'm not quite large enough to get it as often or as reliably as I'd like.

Depending on the girl, I wouldn't say you need to be massive in order to reach it.

The main reason I'm here though is I feel another 0.5-1 inch would really let me hit that spot well while having sex. At the moment its pretty rare I actually get it and its usually just a handful of thrusts per session. A little size increase would do wonders for my ability to stimulate this spot.

Best positions I've found is cowgirl, reverse cowgirl with her back straight, and missionary with her legs bent as far back towards her head as they'll go. Cowgirl is usually the best for us because she can grind around until she feels it. I've hit it occasionally in doggy but not as often. It helps if she's not supporting herself on her arms and instead has her head on the pillow with her knees forward of her waist so her ass sticks out nicely for me.

Slow, deep grinds with her pushing back on you works a lot better than just hammering away. In my experience you'll know for sure when you hit it. As a guy you'll feel like the head of your penis has just squeezed its way into a smaller, cozy chamber inside her vagina. For her she'll probably let out a little gasp and her whole body will shiver with pleasure.

 

[NCGUY1972]

lol A-spot is fun girls shake & quiver and it feels great on the head of the penis

 

[spanky]

Women are all different maaan.

Just think of every girl you've been down on or fingered... there are lots of different ways she likes it, totally personal. So, being edumacated is good, but you're only gonna hit the bell with half of your tricks on anyone. And a different half each time.

I'm 6.5-7 depending on the weather, so fairly average. I bottomed out memorably with two exes. I've been with 40ish i think?

A few women now I've reached something that was new to her with my fingers stretched as far as I could and either pulling up or down. Her reactions said it all, so a-spot or not, I found something she loved and got off on that was new to her, so I'll keep on doing that,

Not every girl I've been with got off on G-spot beckoning a comfortable half-finger in. I'm guessing it's in different places or different thicknesses between the inside and the right bags of nerves depending on the woman.

And I was with one woman for a bit who loved being fisted, and gave me my first go. That went fucking well, so, lord knows what spots I was hitting, but that sh*t works. Sadly I've tried with a few women since, and it's not every woman who's ready for a fist.

There you go, just some thoughts after spending the last hour reading this thread. Good evening

 

[closed224]

Nice thoughts.

 

[DakkaBomb]

Makes me think. Is cervical orgasm actually A-spot orgasm or completely different thing? Cause I saw nobody here mention it and I saw people mention it
The 8 Female Orgasms: #4 The Cervical Orgasm like here