A-spot

[bherbigest]

Hey, been reading through this thread a bit, gonna go and double post (heresy!) - posted this in another thread, but think it'll mean more here. It's my technique for really hitting the A-spot...

One of my best sex tricks (apologies if it's not explained very clearly...) for reaching the really deep spots: In missionary position, have girl lift her knees just a little higher than usual. Next, shift yourself forward a few inches, so you're still in missionary, but thrusting at more of a 45 degree downwards angle (instead of horizontal thrusting). Next, place your hand around and under the woman's ass - just above anus, and hold your woman there. As your hand is under her (palm upwards, like you're holding her) it should cup slightly. Pull her slightly towards yourself (not lifting, just a tight squeeze - almost tilt her hips towards you) and imagine you're fucking into your own hand... that's the spot you should be aiming for - you'll probably be thrusting downwards at about 70 degrees from horizontal. Due to pressing her hips against yours and the steeper angle of penetration you usually slide nicely past the cervix and can hit those sweet spots that are usually hidden.
Best thing is, it only requires a small adjustment of the regular mish position, it's close and passionate and easy! Also, if you've got decent strength in your hands or a small/petite woman, you can hold her hips in position with just the one hand under them, so instead of just grinding or prodding you can get some heavy thrusting going on. Makes my girl come every time.


Enjoy!
PS: Be careful going fast here - it may hurt her! Start slow and speed up later, give the pussy time to expand to accommodate you.

I use this one as well, also knees on her chest, doggie while pushing down on the small of her back, and the most sure fire of them all for my wife, on her side with her top leg bent up towards her chest. Have to be careful with this one, moving straight in hits the cervix, have to aim more towards her back to get past the cervix, trust me, you will be able to tell when you hit the spot!!!!

 

[CaptainJohnson]

I use this one as well, also knees on her chest, doggie while pushing down on the small of her back, and the most sure fire of them all for my wife, on her side with her top leg bent up towards her chest. Have to be careful with this one, moving straight in hits the cervix, have to aim more towards her back to get past the cervix, trust me, you will be able to tell when you hit the spot!!!!

A lot of this becomes more effective with a pillow under her butt to prop her up. It allows you to thrust deeper, easier.

Also worth noting, is the classic bottom-boy position. You know when your girl is on top and she falls onto your chest as you start controlling the thrusts from below her? Lift up your lower body with your feet so your ass is off the bed. Change your thrusting angle so your penis is sliding along the shallow posterior of the vagina at an angle directed towards the anterior wall (your penis should be basically pointing at your own face from inside her). The goal is to slide your glans/frenelum along the anterior at a slightly deeper location along the clitoral root.

Also, in this position, muscles will be reacting differently when compared to a girl lying on her back, which can make orgasms easier for some girls. The clitoral root will be stimulated in different ways depending on a woman's unique anatomical structure.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/blogs/captainjohnson/446-anatomy-vaginal-orgasms-you.html

Enjoy my blog. Remember, physical stimulus is usually not enough to effectively bring a woman to orgasm. Emotional stimulus is of equal, if not greater, importance during sex, and makes orgasms that much better.

 

[NCGUY1972]

a can usually get there after a while but I have to elevate her hips and go at a slightly funny angle but with my wife on top she can go strait to it.

 

[Ivor]

A really great position, for my girlfriend and me at least, is with her lying on her front with a pillow under her hips and me lying pretty much flat on top of her. The end of my dick seems to hit just the right spot, on or near her cervix, and by fucking her steadily and deeply I can make her come without either of us touching her clit at all. It's also great for playfully biting the back of her neck, whispering sweet and/or nasty things into her ear and kissing her just as she starts to get there.

I think it this as a sort of 'reverse missionary' position, if you like. I've got a bit of an upwards curve which I think might help too - this position might not be work so well for a guy who's dead straight or curves downwards.

 

[NCGUY1972]

2 ways we have done it is me on my knees inside her her on her back and me holding her up off the bed with an arm around around the arch of her back lifting her on and off of my penis just barely but I stay deep the entire time and it seems to go right in place like this and I can feel it when my head hits Once im on there I rock her body back & forthand I barely move myself.
another is her on top sitting forward of the base of my penis a little and she sits very deep and moves forward/back not up/down this way she finds the spot and then rocks on it.
Another way I think we have done this is her on her belly and legs semi closed with my legs on the outside of hers it gets the angle just right but I have to go very deep from behind with her big ass in the way! ( i like her ass just like it is BTW!)

Biggest problem for me and this spot is it feels so good stimulating the tip of the penis on top of how she reacts It makes me want to cum instantly.

 

[NCGUY1972]

I thought the A-spot was in my back pocket you should see her face lite up everytime I reach for my wallet! lol just kidding mine is empty anyway lol

 

[jbeez8]

If trying to find this spot with your finger,right before the cervix that feels like your inner cheek,so if you stick your finger in your mouth and rub your cheek on the inside. That's what the a spot feels like

 

[epoch]

Yep... so many spots. A-spot, Deep Spot, U-spot, g-spot.

U-spot is on outside of vagina, just below clitoris and above the introitus (vaginal opening). Often compared in sensation to the male frenulum. Supposedly best licked "side-to-side" a-la the "Kivin Method" rather than top to bottom aka "up-and-down". My experience, seems to work, wife likes it, good for variety.

A spot is the Anterior (thus the "A") fornix erogenous zone. The fornix is a frisbee (maybe inverted saucer?) shaped structure that encircles the cervix where it projects into the vagina. If you insert a finger into the vagina and move inwards while pressing against the anterior (front, or if woman is laying on her back the wall of the vag that faces towards the ceiling) wall of the vagina, you will feel a "ridge" of more solid tissue. If you keep going, you will feel the cervix. The fornix is the area between the "ridge" and the cervix. Pressing rhythmically and firmly against the anterior part of the fornix stimulates involuntary muscles located in the uterus and around the fornix, eventually causing orgasm - assuming muscles and nerves are all intact and functioning normally. Also causes increased vaginal lubrication - a wetter pussy. The spot is easy to find with a finger, and probably better to learn the correct rhythm and pressure. You can also use your unit, simply locate the cervix, back out 1/2", angle to hit front wall of vagina and press, release, press, release.... Long strokes probably will not do it. I find it can take some time and a surprising amount of pressure to make this work... I suspect some give up before hitting paydirt and then say it is a myth. The wife says it feels "weird" at first, but over time gets better and better. The orgasm is "deeper and longer" (her words).

The Deep Spot is essentially the same thing, just on the Posterior (back/rear) part of the fornix. Works on the same principle, supposedly. Gotta be longer (finger or unit) to reach it. Supposedly stimulates additional nerve channels during orgasm that the anterior fornix stimulation does not. I personally believe this is related to a cul-de-sac orgasm, as the region and techniques involved are similar. "The best" orgasm according to the wife.

And I am just not going to comment on the g-spot. Old news.

 

[rollingthunder]

Just wanted to verify that with just over 6 inches bp, I can easily work my woman's A spot...though not here cul de sac.
She is not particularly deep, nor is she as shallow as some women I've been with.
I haven't hit it from behind yet, but folded up in missionary is easy. I have an upward curve.
She has been going on about "that spot I can hit" ever since the first time I hit it. It causes quite the melt down. Oddly enough, there is something about that angle that makes it REALLY hard for me to not come. The good part of that is it makes it easy for us to come together. This from a woman who never came vaginally until we got together, even before I ever hit her a spot.
She had plenty of cocks bigger than mine in her near forty years.
There is a lesson in there boys.

 

[donjelqer76]

Position is key for deep spot stimulation. It's also important for the woman to be involved in getting into the right position for this. My wife is very good at positioning herself to help me hit just the right spot.

 

[MrHammer]

Damn.. just been reading through some of the first pages of this thread.. Almost make me consider getting those last 0.25'' PBEL, haha

 

[hollyfranklin]

If I have done this right then on the diagram you are looking for the fornix.

This is what I wrote on my site about the A-Spot (also known as the AFE Zone)

Sliding the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall. This is the AFE Zone. This roughness creates the friction and increases the pleasure sensations in both vagina and penis nerves.

The AFE zone is a vortex of the nerves that carry information from your whole genital to the spinal cord and brain. These nerves when stimulated send arousal signals to the part of your nervous system which enhances engorgement of appropriate areas and is responsible for sexual arousal.

This is also true for women that are not normally sexually responsive. Obviously the easiest way to locate the AFE zone is to slide the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area than the G-Spot, which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall.

Hope this helps

 

[womenspleaser]

I have read The first few pages of this thread and saw that someone stated that squirting comes from The a spot.

I however think this untrue and think he meant The g spot

I dont know if this has been said further down The thread but i thought it might come in handy if it has not been said

 

[heretohelp]

I think I found mine by tightening up and rubbing my legs together. Interesting, especially when combined with G-spot stimulation at the same time. I had no idea masturbation could be such a cardio workout.

 

[MichaelJackson]

This is an awesome motivational thread for PE so thanks everyone.
Just wanted to add that all these numbers of inches being thrown around are great, but women can be very very different from each other. Working with 7.5-7.6" BPEL on my girlfriend of 4 years, I only once tapped the cervix and never properly bottomed out.

 

[someone_like_u]

This is an awesome motivational thread for PE so thanks everyone.
Just wanted to add that all these numbers of inches being thrown around are great, but women can be very very different from each other. Working with 7.5-7.6" BPEL on my girlfriend of 4 years, I only once tapped the cervix and never properly bottomed out.

That's great that you've only tapped her cervix once MJ. That just means she was properly turned on and her cervix moved up and away for intercourse like it's supposed to do

 

[bumble]

I have 6" to work with, and I have only been with three women, but I for sure hit this spot with one. The first one. She was on the bottom, pillow, as they say, her legs together, knees pressing down on her body as I was on top. I didn't thrust in, I moved in, like the ocean. Back and forth, pushing harder on the incline. I could feel it, and so could she. The first time I did it I saw her face tense up as if it was hurting, and she moaned. I said "does that hurt?" she said "no, no, I just don't know what it is, but it's good." I imagine it was the a-spot, I felt the cervix slightly, but was pushing up in front of it, I'm sure. She tended to orgasm easily by doing this for a minute, two, sometimes less, depending on her arousal.

As for the other two, in the exact same position, I didn't reach it, it didn't feel the same. And I didn't get the face or the moans. So I'm sure that length matters here boys... sorry to say. But then, some women you can, some you can't.

Get a dildo, don't be afraid of them. Honestly, she'll enjoy you with a dildo enough, and love that you do it with her, it will make her less promiscuous. Especially if she's had a guy hit her there before and wants it again.

However, that said, I've also hit it with my fingers. On all three women. And that's because, as others have said, their vagina must expand when your penis goes inside. Because for some reason, it doesn't when my fingers are in there, even after a good half hour of foreplay and clitoral stimulation.

I should also mention my finger is 4.25" long and 3" girth...

 

[lclutchl]

This is an awesome motivational thread for PE so thanks everyone.
Just wanted to add that all these numbers of inches being thrown around are great, but women can be very very different from each other. Working with 7.5-7.6" BPEL on my girlfriend of 4 years, I only once tapped the cervix and never properly bottomed out.

Im in that same boat me and my girl have loads of sex but ive only touched it in reverse cowgirl. Although then i never knew different positions go deeper in and that there were any other spots then the g spot. Im about to go and stir things up lol. A-Spot here we come.

Also one question guys my girl is always so super turned on when we have sex that im sure her cervix is as up and far as it is supposed to be because i do alot of foreplay and love it as much as she does. Will i still be able to hit that A-Spot with 8 bone pressed?

 

[samsi4life]

Lol vaginas... natures rubix cube

 

[wazzoz99]

As a self confessed insecure male, ive been reading quite alot of women journals, forum and mags and the picture i get from the girls who had reached this A spot is that it either the greatest pleasure for a girl or its incredibly painful. So uve got 2 parties, polar opposite in their reactions.