Well, the cervix is pretty close. And the A-spot is shallower than the other one. So you either hit it or the cervix.
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If she wants to talk afterwards, your not doing it right, completely knackered with jelly legs, smudged lipstick and messy hair = job well done:zonked:
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Hey wishful10x8,
Sorry for the delay in responding. No, the A-spot is still intact following a hysterectomy as it is located on the wall of the vaginal canal between the bladder and uterus rather than on the uterus itself.
Sorry for the delay in responding. No, the A-spot is still intact following a hysterectomy as it is located on the wall of the vaginal canal between the bladder and uterus rather than on the uterus itself.
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Can someone clarify when we say you need to be X inches to reach the A-Spot in what position is this normally referring to? I assume vanilla missionary but am I mistaken?
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Hey jieshao,
Yes, it most cases they are referring to the missionary sex position. However, it is worth noting that the A-spot can be stimulated with fingers so penis size is seldom an issue.
Yes, it most cases they are referring to the missionary sex position. However, it is worth noting that the A-spot can be stimulated with fingers so penis size is seldom an issue.
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This is interesting...I think I need to have a little discussion with my partner. She has vaginal orgasms fairly easily. I'm pretty sure she is having this type of orgasm. I believe she has G-spot orgasms when I thrust shallow and up, and she also has great ones when I am deep, to the point where she rocks her hips wildly to climax. I need to ask her if these are two different orgasmic feelings.
How do you get the uterus to lift up as you say? I use big toys on my wife from time to time, but they're still only 6.5" invertible length and i can barely get that all the way in. She usually stops me when its nearly buried. Hearing you guys say a 7.5-8" guy can hit it makes me scratch my head. Do i need to angle the toy downward to get further? Or is she not aroused enough? I feel like i need some diagrams and an overhead projector to figure this sh*t out.
1) You donot need to lift the uterus to hit the a-spot. That is a shallower pocket (anterior fornix) on the front side of the vagina(same as gspot). You do have to tilt it to reach the posterior fornix.
2) Which toy is it? What is it made of? What's the temperature?
3) In my lady friend, I can hit the A-spot with middle finger fully buried (with perhaps her legs over the head or so). Depends on the woman. Try it, you might find it with her too. What's strange is I can barely touch it with the peen (and no, it's not the g-spot)
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Its this toy - its pretty big. Says 9 inches, but its not 9 insertible. Almost 7 i think, i measured once.
But i feel it hit the end, i guess i need to try angle it to her belly button when i get towards the back eh?
The temp? I should warm it up, but i go room temperature with coconut oil rubbed all over it.
Maybe i'm thinking of another erogenous zone? The one that's right before the cervix? I keep reading 7.5-8 on here, i can't imagine you have a finger that long.
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Warming it up, feels more comfortable. Okay, which toy is it, and what's the material? Ideally something a bit curved upwards with a tapered head would get it, but with angling others can too. If you reach the end, try asking her if you've reached the cervix, and angle it up. If the toy is too floppy, you won't be able to angle it upwards, and it might shape inside her in a way that hits the cervix instead.
Look, I've only been with one woman, and I can reach her cervix with my fingers. So from there I just go up and hit the a spot. I've done it with a toy too, and it's the same spot according to her. I've heard plenty of other men doing it with their fingers too. However, it does take a longer penis to touch it. I don't know why that is exactly, but I have some theories.
Edit: The finger trick doesn't work for all women, because women are different too. I've heard some women say that a finger doesn't even rub their g-spot (not to be confused with A-spot) properly, because they need something longer to stroke, it properly but other women say they enjoy fingers best for the g-spot.
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I'm not understanding how guys are hitting the A Spot with their fingers, I've never hit a girls cervix with my fingers, and it takes a solid inch more to properly stimulate the A spot. Its more about pressure on the A spot, you feel the area expand once you are in the right positions, as if it is stretching and opening up. Its the stretching and pressure on the A Spot that I've found to really do the trick, and I'm pretty sure that in most positions I wouldn't be able to do it properly with 6". And the Deep Spot definitely takes more to reach, expand, and apply pressure to. I'm definitely saying it take maybe 6.5" but more likely 7-7.5" to work and 8" is definitely advantageous for the Deep Spot stimulation.
