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yes, if im 100% hard its 6.8 inches NBPEL

i havent measured bone pressed yet. im waiting untill after the 90 day begginers period to do my next measurement, so i dont get dissapointed or anything like that lol.


i just looked over the acronomes thread and yeah, it NBPEL. im sorry. dident realize there are so many ways to measure your dick lol.
 

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For those that pleasure the A-spot with fingers, tongue (If you are either a snake or a band member of "Kiss"), penis, or otherwise .

1. Do you have any tips or techniques that can be passed on to others on how to pleasure it?

2. How "far" did you have to go (measurements would be great, but general things like "barely reached by my index finger" is acceptable as well) and did you have to curl your fingers (or penis :))?

3. What kind of orgasms did she have? (violent bursts? a long one? several little ones? etc)

4. If she did orgasm, did the area become over-sensitive to touch afterwards?

The purpose of this is to educate all that are unfamiliar with A-spot/AFE-zone in general, and to those that want to reach & pleasure it.

Batwoman/baybabe, we would love to hear from you ladies as well. Would you ladies would suggest we start a separate thread on the U-spot,...anal orgasms?

Thanks a bunch!
 

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I am all in favor of orgasms of all kinds, and threads on various types would be fine by me! However, I have no experience with U-spot or anal orgasms, so I would not have anything to add there. But if some of you guys do, by all means start a thread.
 

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I can't speak about using my fingers to reach that spot; however, I can touch my nose with my tongue. :p
 

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Whoa g4's tounge is in proportion to his dick.

G4 after reading this thread I believe I am doing cul de sac sex, not a-spot, what is your take?
 

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I agree Peg. And I think that is true for me as well. It's really hard to tell. My wife is not one to describe in detail which spot gives her the most pleasure. I just go by her moans and groans. I think my base girth gives her the most pleasure and that is peripheral--not deep down G or cul or whatever.
 

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Mine defnitily likes the deep thrusting.
 

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Just remember, Peg, that when you're deep thrusting, your base girth, usually the widest, is rubbing against her peripheral highly erotic/sensitive area, that is, if you're in to the hilt.
 

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Yes but then she doesn't like peak girth. I think her perfect dick would be 8.5" to 9"bpel by 5.5" girth.
 

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I agree Peg. And I think that is true for me as well. It's really hard to tell. My wife is not one to describe in detail which spot gives her the most pleasure. I just go by her moans and groans. I think my base girth gives her the most pleasure and that is peripheral--not deep down G or cul or whatever.

Hi g4,

Does the base girth give your woman that blissful pleasure because it directly rubs against the clit? or simply it just stretches out the inner walls of her vagina closest to the enterance.
 

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Contrary to some of the notions being bandied about in this thread, you don't have to be a giant (or even above average) in order to hit the A-spot -- generally speaking.

One thing guys often fail to realize is that just as we men tend to differ in construction (from large to small, from show-ers to growers), so women tend to be varied in how they're made up. Some women are large externally, some are small, some are looser than others, some unbelievably tight.

And inside, some are deeper than others.

One poster earlier, I believe it was Kingpole, stated correctly -- if you have your wife/girlfriend place her hips atop a relatively firm pillow it arches her into a more accessible position. I've used that technique for years and swear by it.

Another is to place your OWN hips atop a pillow for when she's on top. Not only will it allow for her legs to be slightly more extended (and therefore comfortable) but will keep you thrust up hard against her without quite so much work.

In that position I'd say the majority of you are quite large enough to tap the A-spot on a regular basis.

Also, rather than her bouncing up-and-down while atop you, try keeping her crushed firmly against you while in cowgirl position and grab her hips yourself, use them to slide her back-and-forth (front to back) on top of you, grinding. This keeps you pressed against her clitoris, causes the base of your penis to caress her tightly with each stroke, and slides your penis around quite a lot inside her in a kind of top-to-bottom motion that will stroke the G-spot when she's slid forward and move downward along the roof until on the back-stroke you hit (or at the least come very near) her A-spot.

Trust me on this one, she'll love it, along with her legs not falling asleep since the pillow will help.

Q1E ;)
 

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Oh, I do like the sound of that!

Welcome to Gym, Q1E. Nice first post!
 

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The so called A spot is nothing more than the tail of the clit/G spot, and you don't have to have an 8" penis to reach it. If you are average size you can reach it. The best position to reach this spot is missionary with her legs back and her pelvis arched up (with a pillow). The area you all are referring to with the 8" is the cervix itself. An unaroused cervix looks like the photo shown earlier (bulb). When it's in it's aroused state then it opens up and looks like a flower(daisy). When you hit this area while it's aroused it will feel like there's something scraping lightly on the head of your penis.
 

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Quirky One Eye hit it right on the head as to positions for A spot stimulation. Especially, with the back and forth (glide and slide) motion.
 
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Whoa g4's tounge is in proportion to his dick.

G4 after reading this thread I believe I am doing cul de sac sex, not a-spot, what is your take?

Liked the posts though guys.
 

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Contrary to some of the notions being bandied about in this thread, you don't have to be a giant (or even above average) in order to hit the A-spot -- generally speaking.

One thing guys often fail to realize is that just as we men tend to differ in construction (from large to small, from show-ers to growers), so women tend to be varied in how they're made up. Some women are large externally, some are small, some are looser than others, some unbelievably tight.

And inside, some are deeper than others.

One poster earlier, I believe it was Kingpole, stated correctly -- if you have your wife/girlfriend place her hips atop a relatively firm pillow it arches her into a more accessible position. I've used that technique for years and swear by it.

Another is to place your OWN hips atop a pillow for when she's on top. Not only will it allow for her legs to be slightly more extended (and therefore comfortable) but will keep you thrust up hard against her without quite so much work.

In that position I'd say the majority of you are quite large enough to tap the A-spot on a regular basis.

Also, rather than her bouncing up-and-down while atop you, try keeping her crushed firmly against you while in cowgirl position and grab her hips yourself, use them to slide her back-and-forth (front to back) on top of you, grinding. This keeps you pressed against her clitoris, causes the base of your penis to caress her tightly with each stroke, and slides your penis around quite a lot inside her in a kind of top-to-bottom motion that will stroke the G-spot when she's slid forward and move downward along the roof until on the back-stroke you hit (or at the least come very near) her A-spot.

Trust me on this one, she'll love it, along with her legs not falling asleep since the pillow will help.

Q1E ;)

You got it right, Quirky One-Eye

I manage to hit these areas. I think another requirement to hit them, other than those factors already mentioned, is the angle of erection. My penis curves upward, and when at maximum hardness, is at about 1 o'clock. This makes it easier to hit the A-spot when I am on top, and the U-spot (or whatever it's called) in doggy-style type positions. I stay deep so that my head is always rubbing that spot. Pulling the penis out too far doesn't seem to be that effective.

On the size issue, I was 8" when I starting sexing my GF, and I continued to grow to 8 1/4". Maybe she is deep, but I go past the cervix above and below it. Below it (cul-de-sac I believe) is very stretchy, but both areas driver her wild.
 

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I have had a couple of lovers who seemed to be able to orgasm very reliably with deep penetration, but how is one to know whether that was the result of the tip of my penis stimulating some "deep spot" (whether it be the A-spot, cul-de-sac, or other)? I also happen to be thickest at the base of my penis (about 6 1/4" as opposed to around 5 1/2" for most of the shaft) so maybe it was the greater girth at the base indirectly stimulating the clitoris?

With maximal penetration there was also firm pubic bone pressure which might have contributed to indirect clitoral stimulation, or perhaps it was some combination of all three?

When I orgasm with vaginal intercourse I'm not sure I can identify exactly what mechanism is stimulating precisely what portion of my penis, I can only say that it feels good and works.
 

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I have had a couple of lovers who seemed to be able to orgasm very reliably with deep penetration, but how is one to know whether that was the result of the tip of my penis stimulating some "deep spot" (whether it be the A-spot, cul-de-sac, or other)? I also happen to be thickest at the base of my penis (about 6 1/4" as opposed to around 5 1/2" for most of the shaft) so maybe it was the greater girth at the base indirectly stimulating the clitoris?

With maximal penetration there was also firm pubic bone pressure which might have contributed to indirect clitoral stimulation, or perhaps it was some combination of all three?

When I orgasm with vaginal intercourse I'm not sure I can identify exactly what mechanism is stimulating precisely what portion of my penis, I can only say that it feels good and works.

Ask the woman.
 

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Of course cubah the woman may not know.
I have found this thread educational, which is something I don't say that often.