Would you say a 8x6" dick is big or huge?

[stiff staff]

Everybody is going to answer this question for themselves, regardless of the answers here. Bigger than 6x5 is definitely bigger than average. Funny how guys seem to doubt that. Also funny how being insecure means wanting to be the bigger than the other guys she has had/will have. It's a stupid form of objectification to measure yourself just as dick with a driver's license, but some guys definitely do that to themselves. Big, huge, average, lacking? Sometimes you gotta just be able to handle a dent to your ego, and keep living without sweating it too much.

joeshmo209,
if you are watching porn, it WILL mess with your perceptions. It will mess with your ideas about your own body, and about what girls like day in and day out. 8x6 is very big, for some girls it is too big (or so big that quickies are out of the question, and you have to resort to a work-around). At 5.5 NPBEL x 4.95 MEG, I've had plenty of women, and they ALWAYS come back for more. Honestly and truly. Chicks fall in love with me, I don't know why. Sadly, it sure as hell ain't the money since I haven't got very much of it. But they want my babies. I'm honest and unguarded, and open (and curious): One girl considered me bigger than average, and I just had to laugh; another I never asked because I bottomed out on her in missionary, which she liked in moderation; Several women said I'm a shade on the smaller side, and some seem to have trouble saying it outright; Others have told me that I am perfectly average and you could tell they totally believed that, including a divorcee FWB who had two young kids and she felt quite tight to me and we were relentless in the sack whenever the kids were at their dad's; And one girlfriend told me I was the perfect size because I didn't quite reach her cervix, cause she utterly hated the pain of that from her past experiences. She was really into me, and still is even though we have broken up, so I believe her too. We broke up 3 years ago, and are friends and she still tells me and everybody that I'm the best she ever had, and the one that got away. She makes jokes about that I can marry her anytime I want. She's super beautiful and very sweet, but goes through high-maintenance spells that are basically deal-breakers for me; then there's the fit woman who definitely wanted to marry me, and scared me because I got her prego (though luckily, she miscarried), and who was actually taller than me and had been a US National team volleyball star (and sports model besides), but even she was insatiable for my stuff (and I hardly ever went down on her, or fingered her, or anything... just bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, bang). She said she had been with bigger guys, some by a lot. It sure didn't seem to matter. Breaking up with her was an emotional bloodbath which dragged on and made me feel like a heartless monster. So, that's my experience.

Now I say that guys will answer these questions for themselves, because I have been with less than 20 women (i'm not gonna take the time to count right now), and they always come back for more. I had a hard time accepting that I wasn't too small. But some of them have shown me explicitly how much smaller some guys actually are. And for most I was either average, slightly below, and in a few cases even a little bit big including the one girl I fully stuffed. But guys will cling to their own doubts and insecurities about it. And I know, because I am here too. Though I'm not the most dedicated PE'er, I would like more size at the urinal (lol) and hot tubs, and if I ever do get legit gains, then maybe I'll have a different perspective. But, 8x6 is VERY big by any standard, subjectively it's huge to most women... but bigger is somewhat overrated, certainly in the pop culture talk about it. Big guys tend to get together with other kinds of women, and hang with other big studly-type dudes, and these guys have their own experiences of what average is. But the tall volleyball player usually dated the quarterback, the fireman, and though she likes big ones, it didn't matter (it actually would have been easier on me in the end if she wasn't so into me). Other than that I date certain kinds of women, I guess.

I'm certainly not trying to brag here, just to illustrate that it's subjective. 8x6 is bigger than I'd even want to be, given my experience. The big dudes can have their women, and leave the rest to me. Lol.

 

[DaddyDick]

PEople claim average is 6 BPEL or 5.5 NBPEL, but imo average is 6.5-7 NBPEL. So many people have 7". But 8"-9" NBPEL is huge.

Scientific data proves otherwise. You have seen so many erections and measured it to be able to claim to know of a new average?

 

[Pegasus]

hahahaha I don't believe 6'8 an 300lb is as rare as 8.5x6.5!!! naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa wayyyyy

I just showed how it is,

 

[ColtAR-15]

PEople claim average is 6 BPEL or 5.5 NBPEL, but imo average is 6.5-7 NBPEL. So many people have 7". But 8"-9" NBPEL is huge.

I agree if you said you thought average was 6.5" to 7" BP. Yea I am primarily basing this on anecdotal evidence and seeing flaccids but from what I have seen most have been bigger quite a few significantly bigger than me. Yea I know the spill about flaccid not being a reliable indicator of erect size but I think this can only be carried so far. I have also never had any experience with a woman that would indicate that 6.5 to 7" is anything more than average. The studies supposedly say 6" BP is average but sorry, I just very skeptical. 6" NBP I believe is plausible though.

As for average EG. I think the studies underestimate by at least .25".

Oh, and I do not wish to argue with anyone about my opinion on this. You are free to believe what ever you want.

 

[WillyWacker]

I just showed how it is,

Well I say its bollocks

 

[turtler]

The studies supposedly say 6" BP is average but sorry, I just very skeptical. 6" NBP I believe is plausible though.

Considering how 3 out of 4 american males are overweight or obese, the average fat pad probably lies between 1.5-2". So if 6" NBP is average, then average BPEL is around 7.5-8". So, if you're 8x5.5 then you're in the high average. Well done.

Oh, and I do not wish to argue with anyone about my opinion on this. You are free to believe what ever you want.

Oh, but where's the fun in that?

 

[BigO]

I bought my wife a 7 x 5 inch jelly dong, that looks big and I would have to say that 8 x 6 would be huge.

 

[Vulture]

Lol DaddyDick I like your use of humour bro, but it's true regardless. There is NO way 6 BPEL is average because that will make the NBPEL .5-1.5 inch less considering different sized fat pads in the US. And everyone will doubt 4.5" is average. It's way below average. Woman laugh at people with -5". BPEL measurements don't mean anything to anyone but yourself, it is to keep track of your gains precisely. NBPEL is the real measurement, it is what the girls care about, the visible part, not whats inside of the fat pad. There is also other things associated with the whole average/above average concept, like where your testicle is located. I've also heard people measuring their Erect Length from after their testicle to the glans, so there goes another .5-1" of length. There is NO SCIENCE associated with the above average/average/below average thing...And you think every men on earth was surveyed? I know I wasn't!

My theory about why 5-5.5 NBPEL is the common average. It is because the 5 inchers did not want to be considered below average so they decided to consider the 6 BPEL as average...And a lot of things are possible with mutual thinking. Say a survey about average size was done with 1000 men of one race/nationality. It is beneficial for EVERY sized guy to put as small a number as possible so the ones that are below average are now closer to the average length, the ones that are above average, are much much bigger than the average...You get my point?

 

[Pegasus]

Well I say its bollocks

Gee that is a convinceing argument

 

[Pegasus]

Lol DaddyDick I like your use of humour bro, but it's true regardless. There is NO way 6 BPEL is average because that will make the NBPEL .5-1.5 inch less considering different sized fat pads in the US. And everyone will doubt 4.5" is average. It's way below average. Woman laugh at people with -5". BPEL measurements don't mean anything to anyone but yourself, it is to keep track of your gains precisely. NBPEL is the real measurement, it is what the girls care about, the visible part, not whats inside of the fat pad. There is also other things associated with the whole average/above average concept, like where your testicle is located. I've also heard people measuring their Erect Length from after their testicle to the glans, so there goes another .5-1" of length. There is NO SCIENCE associated with the above average/average/below average thing...And you think every men on earth was surveyed? I know I wasn't!

My theory about why 5-5.5 NBPEL is the common average. It is because the 5 inchers did not want to be considered below average so they decided to consider the 6 BPEL as average...And a lot of things are possible with mutual thinking. Say a survey about average size was done with 1000 men of one race/nationality. It is beneficial for EVERY sized guy to put as small a number as possible so the ones that are below average are now closer to the average length, the ones that are above average, are much much bigger than the average...You get my point?

Wow there is a piece of twisted thought.

 

[Vulture]

Wow there is a piece of twisted thought.

How is it twisted? It's the truth brother!

 

[Danster579]

This threads gotten out of hand.

 

[donjelqer76]

This threads gotten out of hand.

Unfortunately they always do. That's why most of them end up getting closed

 

[Vulture]

What's your measurements for august in your signature?

 

[stiff staff]

There is NO way 6 BPEL is average...

I agree if you said you thought average was 6.5" to 7" BP. Yea I am primarily basing this on anecdotal evidence and seeing flaccids but from what I have seen most have been bigger quite a few significantly bigger than me. Yea I know the spill about flaccid not being a reliable indicator of erect size but I think this can only be carried so far. I have also never had any experience with a woman that would indicate that 6.5 to 7" is anything more than average. The studies supposedly say 6" BP is average but sorry, I just very skeptical. 6" NBP I believe is plausible though.

As for average EG. I think the studies underestimate by at least .25".

Oh, and I do not wish to argue with anyone about my opinion on this. You are free to believe what ever you want.

This is why I say that guys will believe what they want regardless of the statistics and what answers they get here. I know that I am on the smaller side, but I am not ashamed when I am with a woman. I became more comfortable based only on my sexual experiences. With maybe a couple exceptions to either extreme, women have been very consistent in communicating that I am very close to average size (at 5.5x4.95, with a usual flaccid "hang" of about 2" cause I am normally chilly and turtled), indicating that 6" is average. I rarely date the kind of girls who get with bigger dudes, so bigger dudes are going to have their own subjective evidence to go by. It would be that simple, if not for the fact that insecure guys will always feel the need to be bigger-than-average if they have a sensitive ego (which, let's face it is very common these days). But for what it's worth...

I have been with the one jock-chick I mentioned on page 4 [EDIT: page 5, comment #41], and another volleyball-jock-type, 5'8" 23-year old girl who was one of the tightest I ever had and probably the best I ever had (pretty sure she did consider me on the smaller side, and was also what you could call slutty or easy (so much so that she'd get VD tests regularly as she was on the pill), she had already spread it around a ton the time we got together, but we had a absolute blast for about 5 months, plus a great reunion vacation). And though there were 2 black girls, one was a professional ballerina (with the very slender lean body to go with it, though not particularly tight or small), the other was the thickest girl I've ever been with, she's half-black/half-white and her long-time boyfriend is white (somewhat open in their relationship), and she would tell me and text me that she masturbates to thoughts of giving me oral(!!!), she's amazing at it, and loves giving me oral and always does (which was honestly my favorite part of being with her)... there's more to that story, but again the reason that I am sharing these details is only to illustrate that if women uniformly thought I was a pinkie dick, I wouldn't have had these kinds of experiences. I've never been with a virgin, and if I was 1.5" inches shorter than average, I'd probably be the smallest most of them had ever had. But, many of them told me stories about smaller guys, a few of them have had several guys smaller than me. So that tells me a good deal about where I stand in the bell curve. I have one friend who is short and says he has a little one, and he used to get a ton of pussy before he got married. And another friend or mine who gets more women than everybody else I know combined; when he talks about his, he talks about his "six inch bone", so I'll take his word for it. He has a black baby-momma and daughter and has also been with hundreds of women, but he's charming as hell and hilarious.

So again, the point is that even 7" is big ol' dong. The size obsession is symptomatic of an anxiety-ridden and shallow pop culture that is intimacy-phobic and authenticity-phobic so it's easier to make jokes and pile in on the ever-increasing objectification of ourselves even though the cost of this is to perpetuate a chronically neurotic, somewhat delusional mentality in society which is why more and more people are depressed, violent, medicated, etc. Just sayin'! But, hey, by all means keep tuggin' on it! Just try to remember that some are showers and some are growers, porn is a distorted view of the world, and real people are more complex and sophisticated so it ain't just a matter of outward shapes and sizes.

 

[Vulture]

You would find some girls that are like this...You know, everybody has had different experiences..But maybe they didn't care, OR saying it to make you feel better, ever thought of that? What I see your point is that some girls don't care. But that does not have anything to do with the average measurements. There's girls that had more 4-5 inchers and there's girls that had more 7-8 inchers so if you decide to count sizes, you cannot claim that 6 is average and 7 is big ol dong because even girls have different opinions on size. And I know many people that claim to have 7". It's a great size and many girls love that size. But again, we're not talking about pleasing girls here, the average/below/above is all about the census. Nobody's arguing about how to please girls and be her man.

 

[Patrick]

having 8x6. I'll say its big. But now I want a 9x6.5. Mmmm. hehehehe.
I think that'll be one juicy, deliciously huge cock to stuff these little girls with. hehehe.

 

[Vulture]

What's your Non Bone Pressed EL?

 

[giggedy]

Stiff Staff, last paragraph is absolutely one of the best summarising stanzas I have read on this whole jumble of insatiable egocentric emotions. I wonder if DSM-V was going to include an entry on penis anxiety before it was abandoned?

 

[stiff staff]

But maybe they didn't care, OR saying it to make you feel better, ever thought of that?

Yeah, of course I've thought of that, but it's more the context of the way they have made their comments to me when I can tell if they are expressing themselves with genuine feeling or not. The spontaneity or enthusiasm with which they have made such comments, it's often pretty easy to tell if someone is just trying to be nice or if they are expressing genuine conviction on the matter. This is true whether they are answering my question, or are randomly commenting out-of-the-blue. Also in light of their memories of other guys, in many cases I can tell where they really stand on the issue pretty easily. And it goes both ways, some people will lie very easily just to avoid discomfort and come across sounding guarded. But sometimes I am able to get real with girls and it's actually feels harmless and comfortable talking about her flaws, my flaws, while other girls can't handle any criticism very well as we all know.

It's funny, though. Most guys tend to think that they are smaller in relation to their own ideas of what average is. There is a consistently observed and demonstrated psychological tendency of the human mind to skew to the negative, and dwell on negatives. It seems like there are subtle amounts of fear and paranoia at play in this. So it's not surprising that so many guys think we should be bigger. I'm not saying 7" is rare, just that it's on the bigger side of average. Think about it, many people would call average "small"... but no one would realistically think 7" a short dick. When you reach the point that most people are saying it's not small, it's sure to be bigger than average at that point.

There's girls that had more 4-5 inchers and there's girls that had more 7-8 inchers so if you decide to count sizes, you cannot claim that 6 is average and 7 is big ol dong because even girls have different opinions on size.

Well, that's important to keep in mind. It's mostly relative. Because the science is sparse, and those would-be stats would still be relatively meaningless in practice, what we are dealing with is actually mostly a matter of opinion. Maybe there is a subset of society where 7" is so common that it's the relative average, but that's still only relatively average. I tend to date very pretty women, but versus the real world they are very different from the variety of shapes and sizes that women come in. Just in terms of asses and breasts alone, there is an enormous spectrum of difference. Likewise, I am sure that there are more small pricks out there than you realize.