I work in an adult store. I sell toys to women all the time. Sometimes, I'll get a woman in her late 40's or even in her 60's come in and thank me for changing her life. She'll break down in tears when she explains that that was the first orgasm she's ever had.
Powerful stuff.
I have bought a few toys. I recommend them to any girl I'm with. I'm not at all ashamed of it. A lot of guys think "well, I've failed if I can't get her off." I think that's faulty thinking. I think, "I like anything that gets her off." Toys can just do a lot of things I can't, like vibrate, rotate, shuffle.
Recently, I had one of my gfs buy a toyfriend and she loves me for it. She was nervous and shy when she first came into the story. It actually took her three different days to work up the courage to buy one. Now, she wants another toy. She's making me have more sex just so we can play with it more often.
The tough things I gotta do, right? Hahaha. You should see the smile on her face when we use it.
I also like playing with rope, fire and whips. But, that's another story
