Would you say a 8x6" dick is big or huge?

[stiff staff]

I know many people that claim to have 7". It's a great size and many girls love that size.

Like I said, nobody really ever says that 7" is a small size, which means that it is actually bigger than average. Not trying to get personal, but it sounds to me like you are competing with a certain type of male, guys who are already well above the true statistical average in a variety of metrics and categories. As far as people making claims about their own size, it's pretty likely that most guys stretch the truth a bit. I used to do so myself on occasion, just to avoid a judgment or data point about me that I didn't feel was other people's business.

 

[stiff staff]

Stiff Staff, last paragraph is absolutely one of the best summarising stanzas I have read on this whole jumble of insatiable egocentric emotions. I wonder if DSM-V was going to include an entry on penis anxiety before it was abandoned?

You know the Radiohead song which goes "Up above aliens hover, making home movies for the folks back home, of all these weird creatures who lock up their spirits, drill holes in themselves, and live for their secrets. We're all uptight, uptight, uptight, uptight!" Don't know about Aliens, but it's pretty close to the truth about the human condition. Lol.

 

[ColtAR-15]

This is why I say that guys will believe what they want regardless of the statistics and what answers they get here. I know that I am on the smaller side, but I am not ashamed when I am with a woman. I became more comfortable based only on my sexual experiences. With maybe a couple exceptions to either extreme, women have been very consistent in communicating that I am very close to average size (at 5.5x4.95, with a usual flaccid "hang" of about 2" cause I am normally chilly and turtled), indicating that 6" is average. I rarely date the kind of girls who get with bigger dudes, so bigger dudes are going to have their own subjective evidence to go by. It would be that simple, if not for the fact that insecure guys will always feel the need to be bigger-than-average if they have a sensitive ego (which, let's face it is very common these days). But for what it's worth...

I have been with the one jock-chick I mentioned on page 4, and another volleyball-jock-type, 5'8" 23-year old girl who was one of the tightest I ever had and probably the best I ever had (pretty sure she did consider me on the smaller side, and was also what you could call slutty or easy (so much so that she'd get VD tests regularly as she was on the pill), she had already spread it around a ton the time we got together, but we had a absolute blast for about 5 months, plus a great reunion vacation). And though there were 2 black girls, one was a professional ballerina (with the very slender lean body to go with it, though not particularly tight or small), the other was the thickest girl I've ever been with, she's half-black/half-white and her long-time boyfriend is white (somewhat open in their relationship), and she would tell me and text me that she masturbates to thoughts of giving me oral(!!!), she's amazing at it, and loves giving me oral and always does (which was honestly my favorite part of being with her)... there's more to that story, but again the reason that I am sharing these details is only to illustrate that if women uniformly thought I was a pinkie dick, I wouldn't have had these kinds of experiences. I've never been with a virgin, and if I was 1.5" inches shorter than average, I'd probably be the smallest most of them had ever had. But, many of them told me stories about smaller guys, a few of them have had several guys smaller than me. So that tells me a good deal about where I stand in the bell curve. I have one friend who is short and says he has a little one, and he used to get a ton of pussy before he got married. And another friend or mine who gets more women than everybody else I know combined; when he talks about his, he talks about his "six inch bone", so I'll take his word for it. He has a black baby-momma and daughter and has also been with hundreds of women, but he's charming as hell and hilarious.

So again, the point is that even 7" is big ol' dong. The size obsession is symptomatic of an anxiety-ridden and shallow pop culture that is intimacy-phobic and authenticity-phobic so it's easier to make jokes and pile in on the ever-increasing objectification of ourselves even though the cost of this is to perpetuate a chronically neurotic, somewhat delusional mentality in society which is why more and more people are depressed, violent, medicated, etc. Just sayin'! But, hey, by all means keep tuggin' on it! Just try to remember that some are showers and some are growers, porn is a distorted view of the world, and real people are more complex and sophisticated so it ain't just a matter of outward shapes and sizes.

I am kind of confused about something. You state several women have indicated that your "very close to average". You state your size is 5.5" x 4.95" NBP. So if I was too assume you have a .5" fat pad then that would make you 6" BP and according to some studies that would be a little above average. I believe you have indicated you think you are on the smaller side of average and at least one of your girlfriends said she considers you on the smaller side.

I think where a lot of the confusion comes from is the NBP (visible penis) Vs BP. I believe it to be the case that most women dont know jack about BP and base their observations on NBP, ie what they see. My NBP size and girth is almost identical to yours so I wouldn't think it is too far fetched to believe that most women would also consider me to be on the small side of average also. For me perception is reality and as far as I'm concerned if a women thinks its small then for all intensive purposes it is. Basically studies don't mean Jack if your SO still perceives you as small. Oh, and I do think 7" "Is a big ol dong" at least its getting pretty close if we were talking NBP but BP? Not really. Its actually fairly common and in my opinion pretty much average.

 

[WillyWacker]

having 8x6. I'll say its big. But now I want a 9x6.5. Mmmm. hehehehe.
I think that'll be one juicy, deliciously huge cock to stuff these little girls with. hehehe.

Yeah that's good stats. 6.5 meg is perfect. 9bpel assuming your nbpel is 8-8.5 then that's good. 9nbpel would be too big mate...

In my opinion the best length is 8nbpel. Ego craves more but its perfect for vaginal penetration. Deep spot without the pain. 6.5 meg is what I want!

 

[MySword]

I am kind of confused about something. You state several women have indicated that your "very close to average". You state your size is 5.5" x 4.95" NBP. So if I was too assume you have a .5" fat pad then that would make you 6" BP and according to some studies that would be a little above average. I believe you have indicated you think you are on the smaller side of average and at least one of your girlfriends said she considers you on the smaller side.

I think where a lot of the confusion comes from is the NBP (visible penis) Vs BP. I believe it to be the case that most women dont know jack about BP and base their observations on NBP, ie what they see. My NBP size and girth is almost identical to yours so I wouldn't think it is too far fetched to believe that most women would also consider me to be on the small side of average also. For me perception is reality and as far as I'm concerned if a women thinks its small then for all intensive purposes it is. Basically studies don't mean Jack if your SO still perceives you as small. Oh, and I do think 7" "Is a big ol dong" at least its getting pretty close if we were talking NBP but BP? Not really. Its actually fairly common and in my opinion pretty much average.

I agree Colt that the BP vs NBP does cause some confusion over sizing. Since most studies (and it is medically more reliable to measure) are BP many guys (and alot of women) use NBP to judge size. After all its what you see. Its worth noting however that humans (yes man too) are terrible judges of dimension and for most women its how it feels inside more than how it looks. Some hardly get a good look at it once you get under the sheets anyway....

I'm not saying this because of my dimensions (believe me i dont' see myself as having a big dick at all) but at 7bpel based on what i have read and what women have told me i am not small. In fact the worst thing ever said to me about my size is 'you are just above average in length, but way over in girth' and that was from a self avowed size queen! You say 7el is big but 7bpel is not. Well my fat pad isn't that big but i'm not skinny either (too much beer) so it isn't that big a diff. Remember it also based on consistent comparison...the average is 5.7-6.0 bpel (or so i remember) according to studdies, so bpel vs bpel is still a valid comparison. I think the average EL is 'only' about 5.5-5.8 inches if that. Sounds small but remember its average which includes below average sizes (who won't be showing off what they have anywhere i gather) and also statistically the bell curve means although shapes differ most guys are within 5.5-6.5 inches at most. 7bpel is not average...that is just statistical fact. Too many medical results (and even alot of self measured ones too) exist where bpel average is 6.5 or lower.

Its also interesting that there is so much debate over length average when girth is pretty well accepted to be 4.8-5.0 inches. If you are over 5.2 inches in girth you are well above average. Yet when you consider how hard it can be to reliably measure girth you'd think there would be more discussion. Part of the reason is because 'bigger' cocks are bigger in both dimensions usually and I think if you have more girth you appear shorter than you are....esp compared to more thin dicked brothers. my flaccid always looks small because of this and i know that since i started PE my flaccid length gains have been pretty good because often it appears thinner and longer....that is actually a positive in my case since i know PE is working (girth is the same as the start flaccid).

When it comes to size appearance I think of it like a man thinks of a womans tits. Depending on what they are wearing, bra etc. they can look up to one cup size bigger or smaller than they are. Your dick is the same, and when flaccid (esp in my case) it depends on weather and circumstance for how much size i have. Also shape makes a difference....i always thought my cock was 'short' esp compared to others guys in the locker room. you don't have to be gay to notice other dicks and most boys know they come in all shapes and sizes from a young ages. Shower vs grower is a fact, but within reason. One my mates at high school had a very long flaccid (we were in the swim team so you are going to see alot of naked guys), we are talking 6in fl at 16 yrs old.... I was more about 4.5 in back then. But he was much thinner so in a hot shower it looked like the teenager was packing 8 inches soft!!. But one girl that was 'active' with both of us (not at the same time!) said that although he was probably a little longer when hard it was hardly a half inch in it. I was much thicker apparently....and given she had given head to half the male swim team she knew her stuff...she used her hands to keep tabs so to speak. Low hanger can change size perception too...my large balls make my flaccid look pretty small and if they tighten up when i get hard the turkey neck also makes the shaft look short.

I think the issue of a 'big' or 'huge' is as much your experience or idea. To me big is 7-8 inches and over 8 is definitely huge. I did watch alot of porn though so it skews it a bit. My gf says i am huge (her next biggest was probably 6bpel if that though...she says at least a 'head' shorter) because its her experience and she knows the same stats i do. The size queen i was with once said her biggest was proabably 8 el but it did hurt a bit. She said anything over 7bpel was more than enough for her, so is suppose even she would have said 7bpel was 'big'. I had a mate at college who said he had a small dick (5.5bpel or so) and he had sex with a virgin who used to use those tiny little vibrators to get off. After a few weeks of them fucking we were at a party and she got a bit drunk and told me that she didn't understand how women had agressive sex since his penis was 'so big it hurt' and even after the 5th time still 'filled her right up'.... So there you go!

 

[Patrick]

Yeah that's good stats. 6.5 meg is perfect. 9bpel assuming your nbpel is 8-8.5 then that's good. 9nbpel would be too big mate...

In my opinion the best length is 8nbpel. Ego craves more but its perfect for vaginal penetration. Deep spot without the pain. 6.5 meg is what I want!

Ya cuz my fat content varies a lil bit... 9bpel and 6.5 meg sounds like an awesome size dick. i love goin real deep. mmm. hehehe.
that means id hafta grow 1/2" in girth still. i only just started some clamping a couple weeks. jeez it sounds like a long shot...

 

[stiff staff]

I am kind of confused about something. You state several women have indicated that your "very close to average". You state your size is 5.5" x 4.95" NBP. So if I was too assume you have a .5" fat pad then that would make you 6" BP and according to some studies that would be a little above average. I believe you have indicated you think you are on the smaller side of average and at least one of your girlfriends said she considers you on the smaller side.

I think where a lot of the confusion comes from is the NBP (visible penis) Vs BP. I believe it to be the case that most women dont know jack about BP and base their observations on NBP, ie what they see. My NBP size and girth is almost identical to yours so I wouldn't think it is too far fetched to believe that most women would also consider me to be on the small side of average also. For me perception is reality and as far as I'm concerned if a women thinks its small then for all intensive purposes it is. Basically studies don't mean Jack if your SO still perceives you as small. Oh, and I do think 7" "Is a big ol dong" at least its getting pretty close if we were talking NBP but BP? Not really. Its actually fairly common and in my opinion pretty much average.

If you read my comment #41 (on page 5 of this thread (not page 4, my bad)), I recounted that some women seem to feel I was smaller than average (saying that "there's not that much of difference", or "pretty much the same"), others were apparently convinced that I was very normal sized, for a few I was big, and I recall two others saying sexily in bed that "we fit good together" and at least one more expressly feels that I am the "perfect size" for her because I was not too long for her. I haven't looked at the stats and studies, BP, NBP, so I don't know that much about what is supposed to be technically average, but I probably wouldn't be here if I thought I was big. Many women have found me to be average size, which seems to be consistent with mysword's observations described in comment #65, however I wouldn't be too surprised to find that I am maybe even slightly above. I've seen 3 flaccid dicks other than my own (at the showers I always made it a point not to look, because I didn't want to be looked at either). 2 seemed to be bigger than me (including my father's), 1 seemed to be smaller than me. You add that to porno films, and sometimes I do feel that I am on the smaller side of average, and to some girls I was. To others I wasn't. I'd say that makes me pretty close to average. If I press the ruler in deep, or really stretch it I can reach 6" BP (these tricks are why I get inconsistent reading with BP and don't use it, 'cause sometimes I'd cheat the answers in that way and appear to be gaining and then losing again in my journal notes). So, if that means I'm above average, that's not much of a surprise.

When you say that 7"BP is pretty much average, I just think you are wrong and that maybe some insecurity is clouding your judgment. 7 inches is bigger than average no matter how you measure it, although it may still be relatively common BP. If 6" is above average, then seven definitely is. I doubt there's any question that 6x5NBP is above average, and even less than that can be a good size I know. If you wanted to say that 6"BP is "pretty much average", I'd say that that is much closer to the truth. 6NBP is on the larger side of average, there's too much evidence to that fact. Both personally, from what girls have said, and apparently what surveys have shown.

mysword at around 7 inches BP has never found that he was anything other than above average in length. To which I say, "no sh*t Sherlock, duh."

 

[Gravik]

In this day an age, big, seeing as how many dudes out there are rocking 8x6.

 

[Danster579]

This forum really turned into a great indepth discussion. Reading through this really cemented the fact that whatever you have within reason, will work for someone. You just have to find that person.

 

[MySword]

When you say that 7"BP is pretty much average, I just think you are wrong and that maybe some insecurity is clouding your judgment. 7 inches is bigger than average no matter how you measure it, although it may still be relatively common BP. If 6" is above average, then seven definitely is. I doubt there's any question that 6x5NBP is above average, and even less than that can be a good size I know. If you wanted to say that 6"BP is "pretty much average", I'd say that that is much closer to the truth. 6NBP is on the larger side of average, there's too much evidence to that fact. Both personally, from what girls have said, and apparently what surveys have shown.

mysword at around 7 inches BP has never found that he was anything other than above average in length. To which I say, "no sh*t Sherlock, duh."

It is interesting stiff staff that at 7inches bp i am considered by most women to be above average in length (and we all know how useless they are at judging length by appearance) yet on here everyone says that is average. I choose to think that skewed stats on here are due to our sample and not rampant lieing. I think the people who come on here are obviously very interested in how to please their partners and many have ego issues about having a small dick due to comments they have recieved or what they have seen around (porn etc.). However that means they often have a larger penis than the average because those guys with small dicks are probably not making their penis the center of their lives (they have accepted they aren't packing huge heat and make do with what they have). Basically if you have a larger dick you are more likely to be interested in what is can do and so that leads you to places like here.

Whether that theory makes any sense i do not know but i do still find it interesting how with so much comment about 'girth is important' why there is very little debate about the averages in that area on here. I suspect that is because sizes is more about ego than pleasure (for some) and so length is where the glory is. I've got a hell of alot more compliments over my girth than I ever got length. Its always been described as 'big', 'heavy', 'fat', 'thick', even 'a monster' (it isn't trust me...my photos on here prove that..). Never words like 'long'.

I am here to improve my understanding of my dick, increase my penis health (eq etc.) and get better at sex (mmo etc.). Gaining is my secondary aim because my current partner likes what i have (as have all the others so i could tell) so I will take any gains that i get. 8x6 is my aim because if possible it would be good to even out my girth and 8 inches lenght would balance out the look as much as anything. Also, despite the good reviews I have only ever reached the deep spots on one girl (and she is the one i almost made squirt....almost...) and would like to do that for my partner. She says i am close but i still think i am at least 0.5 inches away so if I can give her some more pleasure (she already comes from penetration) that would be great.

I am not doing it for bragging over averages or percentages of the population. I am already in the top 5-10% or something for girth so i suppose i can't speak for those who feel they are average or below average but to me it doesn't really matter where i am compared to other men (there will always be some bigger...just look on here) but where i am compared to my own goals RE pleasuring my partner and my own self confidence. I look at some of the guys packing 8inches BP or longer than think 'yeah i wish mine was that long' but that is more my own view of its appearance talking and lets fact it the way it looks isn't that important. I've never met a pussy i couldn't please with what i have now...and i think most guys on here can do just that with what they already have.....

 

[second lensman]

She said it's big.

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

You know what?...it f'ing better be big or I'll be pissed!

 

[stiff staff]

I've never met a pussy i couldn't please with what i have now...and i think most guys on here can do just that with what they already have.....

Lol. Me either. Like I said, I am 5.5x4.95 and they always come back for more, and are usually very excited and into me, to say the least. I feel bad for guys who won't acknowledge what can be accomplished with a smaller dick, or average one, or whatever. I mentioned that this one girl (mixed race) who I work with texted me that she masterbates to thoughts of blowing me. How it started with us was at a house party and I was getting pretty heavily buzzed and for some reason there was a group of us hanging out in the bathroom with the door open, kinda random. She was sitting on the bathtub with a few other girls sitting on the floor and in the hallway, and I was leaning against the sink chatting & drinking my beer, girls were walking in and pissing from time to time. After a while I said I have to piss, and nobody said anything. So I just stepped over to the john, lifted the seat, unbuckled and pissed. I look over to my left and I catch her staring at it. I'm trying not to be embarrassed, just thinking "whatever" cause I really needed to piss (beers, you know how that is). I know she has a BF who I've never met, that means off-limits to me (I don't think it even crossed my mind). Then, she mentions to me over the next few weeks at work that they have decided to be open in their relationship. To me, it still feels wrong to me, and I don't even consider it. She mentions it again. Little over a month later, I show up at a little after work backyard get-together and she's there and attaches herself to my side, offering me beers, smokes. Later that night, she tells me that she has begged her BF to let her suck my dick! I had to laugh. And after bringing it up a few times she says he told her, "well it's obviously important to you and so go ahead and blow him if you need to"! Long story short... um, yeah, and that was just the beginning as it quickly escalated all the way from there. Size is not a deal-breaker for most chicks! Go figure. (Though, actually, I have talked to plenty of girls who want little to nothing to do with really big "horse" cocks, some after having tried it; though I don't know exactly what size they were referring to.) I have a sneaking suspicion that some women like what they can do with an ordinary dick... after all, I know that I don't have only one type of girl when it comes to what turns me on, and me and my friends sometimes have very different tastes in women that we find hot.

 

[DaddyDick]

Doen't an 8x6 require someone to use Magnum XL or Durex XXL! I think that this should answer the question as to if it is big or not.

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

Doen't an 8x6 require someone to use Magnum XL or Durex XXL! I think that this should answer the question as to if it is big or not.

Those sizes are even tight, so that should tell the story.

 

[DaddyDick]

Those sizes are even tight, so that should tell the story.

Per condom manufacturers those condoms listed as considered HUGE! Your stats put you in the Ginormous category. On my spreadsheet, I did not even list your size. It was out of bounds.

 

[Patrick]

Doen't an 8x6 require someone to use Magnum XL or Durex XXL! I think that this should answer the question as to if it is big or not.

Come to think of it. I was so enlightened years ago when my dick wasnt getting choked out and strangled when I finally tried a plus size dome. hehehe.
was like, Ooooooo!
Ahhhhhh!
lol

 

[Datass]

7 (real) inches is already considered HUGE here in italy (18 fucking cm), 8 would be considered MONSTER (20+ cm)

 

[GTO]

Doen't an 8x6 require someone to use Magnum XL or Durex XXL! I think that this should answer the question as to if it is big or not.

I started using comdoms during pumping sessions several months ago and had to do some research on size since I hadn't worn one in years. The marketing these manufacturers do is sh*t - the best thing you can do is but a sampler pack that has a bunch of different brands and sizes and see which fits you best. I found that Magnums were crap. XLs fit but were still an uncomfortable. Finally settled on Kyng. Not the biggest on the market but they fit me better than the same sized XLs. So try them all and find what fits you best.

 

[EraStyle]

7 (real) inches is already considered HUGE here in italy (18 fucking cm), 8 would be considered MONSTER (20+ cm)

Hmm, how about fake ones?