Why some people can fuck without problems?

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@Sea Cock I have you always had delay ejaculation all of your life? When did you start developing this problem?

I know as us with PE we would love to make love to a woman all night without cumming too quick, and experience some type of DE, but i do understand what your saying as well not being able to climax with a girl because your not having that satisfaction.

Ive had some issues with at times back as far as high school. I remember sleeping with one girl who was in a violent relationship with a guy I knew. I couldn't cum with her one night. She started crying and told me it was OK to hit her for not satisfying me! She said that was he would do if he didn't take care of him!

She was in the top 5 as far as looks went that I've ever been with...half white and half Latin. What a shame she was treated like that. Need less to say after she said that there was no way I'd be able to cum. So I took her home.

But I always rubbed one out before I went out. I knew even at that young age it would help me stay in the saddle a little longer. It didn't happen very often, but if I was drinking there would be a good chance I wouldn't be able to cum. I quit drinking at age 20...so drinking dones't have anything to do with my problm 33 years later.
 
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We can start a new thread re de on this forum it can have lessons for pre e and de sufferers.

I've tried that. The threads don't get much traffic. I get more responses piggy backing on threads like this....well almost like this. Normally the OP isn't troll like this guy.
 

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Your thoughts and actions determine the reality you live in, and currently your reality is to be an insecure little man with low self esteem and self worth who blames the world for how unfair he thinks things are that he's not taller or he has Pre e and those are the reasons you life isn't the way you want it instead of stepping up and being a man and taking responsibility for your life and all the decisions you've made in order for it to turn out the way it has. But no you'd rather blame others for being or having what you imagine makes them better than you.

The reason you feel so inferior to those men has nothing to do with their hight or ability in bed, it's because you THINK you're inferior to them and so you FEEL inferior to them because you BELIEVE it because it's much easier isn't it to blame and hate them for being what you want to be and living the life you think you want rather than do the hard work of taking action to make the positive changes necessary to live the reality you desire.

But none of this will make an impression you just like none of the post before this has that hasn't said what you want them to say, No you'll just respond with another angry post full of excuses that blames anything else for your problems rather than you while states you've already tried everything and nothing works.

So to quote Yoda, Do or do not, there is no try.
 

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Im 5'9'', you are 6'0''. You shouldn't have height related problems.
I on the other hand can't pretend to step inside a club without wearing LiftKits.
I have a friend who's all of 5'3" and he's probably the biggest manslut I know. At any given time he's juggling two or three women. Just sayin'.
 

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If you are a premature ejaculator and If your girl is really hot (objectively hot, not "she likes me so she is automatically hot" hot), she is a ticking bomb waiting to happen.

So good-looking girls are automatically sluts? What a load of misogynist crap.

If you have insecurities then you need to find ways to overcome them by yourself. Don't blame them all on women.

Edit: hadn't seen the bit in bold. Hmm, I guess that might change things a bit.
 
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Sorry for my post guys. Just couldn't handle someone who is trying to get advice and helped in here, one of the best forums with the most nice and helpful persons, and still attack all of you.
 
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Nah it's cool, I understand your frustration with him - I think we're all getting a bit frustrated - but it's good to watch what kind of words you use for insults, considering there are plenty of gay and bi members here.
 

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This topic didn't start on a good note, and by the likes of it, it is getting worse. Since the discussion has been completely derailed a lock might be a good idea.

Also naturesucks might be one of those people that simply can't find help in our "traditional" techniques, and for me that is understanding. Even somewhat annoying his behaivour is understanding to me to some point also.

If I was a good looking dude that had a buch of girls and failed over and over again while trying anyting recommended out there, I would be very pissed of and that would reflect trough my posts too, i would probably be as bitter. Please note I am not defeding him.

I am open to the fact that with some people it really can be all chemical or mental or physical.

I overcame (more or less) my thight frenulum (but it was not nearly as thight as your probably is) by changeing my way of edging and mostly ending with my frenulum at higher stress, in time I mostly get used to it, but even then there are times when that simply isn't enough, and it is pretty iritating.

So in a way I understand that frustration that thinght frenulum creates when everything you do simply doesn't work, I can only imagine how hard it is to fix it in actual sex.

Also naturesucrks it would be apriciated if you cut down on swearing, we here do not carry the blame for your inability to preform to your own standards and even tho some of us do understand the frustration this isn't the place for this.

No, im not going to get circumsized.
I probably need something done on my frenulum tho, is too tight and doesn't allow for 100% motion, it's too tight right when my gland is fully uncovered.
Im scared as fuck because of aesthetic reasons with a surgery.
Ive been waiting for months for the urologist appointment. Will also ask for Priligy pills. Social healthcare is so fucking slow nowadays. Thanks Wallstreet.

A girl won't care much for the aesthetics if your are able to satisfy her. And while the operation will pose some risk, at this point is there any other choice for you?
 
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This 'tight frenulum' thing - is it something that can result from circumcision?
 

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This 'tight frenulum' thing - is it something that can result from circumcision?

No it is mostly a problem that uncut people can have, how 'tight' deppends, it goes to pretty manageable (my case) to pretty much terrible (i guess naturesucks's case).

The more correct term would be short renulum, but it can be called tight because that is the feeling it gives.

Here's more info.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frenulum_breve

Frenulum breve - no reason for circumcision
 

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Ah I see, thanks for that. Hmm, looks painful. Has the OP considered surgery?
 

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Im looking into SSRI's next (5HTP has been said to help but then again I think it's not compatible with SSRI's. Also heard anti-histamines help)

I'm not sure about the validity of this statement but I'm using this as a post to look back when I have time to do the research behind it. I got this from another forum

"now I take 300-400mgs of 5htp and a normal dose of antihistamines and I find it helps quite a bit"
 

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I understand where @naturesucks is coming from. Had a thread a while back talking about how most of my friends can bang away on women porno style. They can withstand having sex for a long period of time without cumming. I remember being in college and having sex with a girl and watching my roomate with his banging away hard in the corner of the room while pacing myself not to cum fast. It is frustrating.
 

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Just get a circumcision, it should fix the tight frenulum thing and you will be less sensitive so you can last alot longer.

Who cares how it "looks", penises are ugly anyways. What matters is how it works.
 

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um...I believe I have a good looking penis considering I am small.


I can last for a very long time but that is for one reason and one reason only. In order for me to be turned on enough to cum, I must be satisfied with I have accomplished with her. For example, with my wife, she averages around 17 orgasms before I do. Now, I say 17 because we lose count most of the time so give or take about 2. After seeing her struggle with the constant orgasms it is when I can finally cum because I feel turned on about my accomplishement. Unfortunately there are times where I go too long and I need to go down on her because I pretty much dried her up and of course she still doesn't want to stop.


Fun fact: On November 6 I broke my personal record with how many orgasms I have her during intercourse before I did. It was 38 and in 1 hr 40 mins.
 

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um...I believe I have a good looking penis considering I am small.


I can last for a very long time but that is for one reason and one reason only. In order for me to be turned on enough to cum, I must be satisfied with I have accomplished with her. For example, with my wife, she averages around 17 orgasms before I do. Now, I say 17 because we lose count most of the time so give or take about 2. After seeing her struggle with the constant orgasms it is when I can finally cum because I feel turned on about my accomplishement. Unfortunately there are times where I go too long and I need to go down on her because I pretty much dried her up and of course she still doesn't want to stop.


Fun fact: On November 6 I broke my personal record with how many orgasms I have her during intercourse before I did. It was 38 and in 1 hr 40 mins.

Damn you must have delay ejaculation or something man. Man your blessed LOL
 

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I'm not sure about the validity of this statement but I'm using this as a post to look back when I have time to do the research behind it. I got this from another forum

"now I take 300-400mgs of 5htp and a normal dose of antihistamines and I find it helps quite a bit"

Poon goon. What type of 5htp and Antihistamine do you take? Do you take this before you go to bed or before you have sex such as a hour before getting action? Please let us know
 

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Who cares how it "looks", penises are ugly anyways. What matters is how it works.

You say that, but women often place quite high importance on the appearance of a dick, or more than you might think, anyway. I mean, you can tell an attractive cunt from an unattractive one, can't you? Same the other way around. I'm straight but I can tell an ugly dick from a nice one that I'd be happy to own and that I can imagine a girl would like to get to grips with.
 

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Fun fact: On November 6 I broke my personal record with how many orgasms I have her during intercourse before I did. It was 38 and in 1 hr 40 mins.

Please, please don't think I'm saying this just to be a dick, but...I had this girlfriend once who had a sort of hair-trigger clitoris, and when we first got together I played a sort of game with myself, seeing how many times I could make her come in one session, but once I lost count just after 40 it seemed pointless from then on. I just mention it because you've done pretty much the same thing yourself, although we were going for longer than that, haha. :) Your wife is a very lucky woman, clearly.

My current girlfriend takes a little bit more stimulation but often comes multiple times per session, often just from being fucked, which is gratifying. She was pretty impressed when I came six times in one day, but with women it can be on a different order of magnitude...