Why some people can fuck without problems?

[SeaCock]

As an ED sufferer with little/no sex drive I envy all of you folks with premature ejaculation problems. I can appreciate how distressing it must be at times but you are at least able to have sex, which is something!

I almost cut and pasted your response...but I had to change a few thing!

As an DE sufferer......I envy all of you folks with permature ejaculation problems! I'm one of those who has to fuck for hours and still don't cum!


AND IT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with many in this thread...stop whinning and get to work!

That is what I'm trying to do...one of these days I'm going to cum within 30 minutes!

 

[Pegasus]

As a former de suffer I understand sc.

 

[Ivor]

As a former de suffer I understand sc.

Same here, and I wish him all the very best in overcoming this problem (pun intended).

It's a case of grass-is-always-greener - guys who have real difficulty reaching orgasm through intercourse envy the guys with PE, and vice-versa. Really I think anyone with either problem should aim to reach a state somewhere in the middle, rather than try to acquire the opposite problem. A big mistake that guys with PE make is to assume that women will be pleased as punch with a partner who can fuck for hours and never ejaculate. Well just turn that round for a second: would you like it if your partner never reached orgasm with you? That would suck, right? Well the same thing works the other way round. Women - in my experience, which I think is fairly representative - like being able to make guys come. It makes them feel sexy and wanted. So while it's obviously not great if to have a hair-trigger, it's not necessarily great to be at the other end of the spectrum either.

With regards to the original post, I would just say: don't believe everything you hear or imagine. Fantasising about everyone else's sex life is the enemy of self-confidence and is one thing pretty much guaranteed to have a negative impact on your own sex life. Just try and stay 'in the moment' whether you're dancing in a club, chatting to a girl, in bed with one or whatever. If you think some specific techniques, pills and so on might help you overcome some specific problem then yeah, it might be worth researching what's out there and giving it a go. Just don't assume that all this stuff comes naturally to everyone else, because it really doesn't.

 

[sandiego27]

I almost cut and pasted your response...but I had to change a few thing!

As an DE sufferer......I envy all of you folks with permature ejaculation problems! I'm one of those who has to fuck for hours and still don't cum!


AND IT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with many in this thread...stop whinning and get to work!

That is what I'm trying to do...one of these days I'm going to cum within 30 minutes!

I have the same problem, almost impossible for me to orgasm through vaginal intercourse. What exactly have you done to change this? Techniques or exercises?

 

[no minute man]

There are plenty of guys on here who have stable, healthy relationships or marriages, and their significant others are not cheating on them. Myself included.

"They fucked a lot of hot girls in their prime and we didn't"? Speak for yourself. I'm still in my prime, and regularly fucking a hot girl. If you can't get girls to sleep with you or stay with you despite your pre-e, then well...

 

[SeaCock]

I have the same problem, almost impossible for me to orgasm through vaginal intercourse. What exactly have you done to change this? Techniques or exercises?

One thing that helped but seems I have not gotten any more sensitive in a month. I started using good hand lotion on my dick everyday. I have even done it at night while wearing a condom. I'm working on not forcing myself to cum while masturbating and trying to cut back on the amount of time I masturbation every week. I tend to masturbate every night, even on days when I've had sex with m GF. This week I have had sex twice and masturbated twice...one day I masturbated that night after sex during the day.

How old are you? I'm 53...not sure how much this matters.

 

[capital255]

@Sea Cock I have you always had delay ejaculation all of your life? When did you start developing this problem?

I know as us with PE we would love to make love to a woman all night without cumming too quick, and experience some type of DE, but i do understand what your saying as well not being able to climax with a girl because your not having that satisfaction.

 

[naturesucks]

naturesucks did you get circumcised? I recall that you where saying something about doing that.

No, im not going to get circumsized.
I probably need something done on my frenulum tho, is too tight and doesn't allow for 100% motion, it's too tight right when my gland is fully uncovered.
Im scared as fuck because of aesthetic reasons with a surgery.
Ive been waiting for months for the urologist appointment. Will also ask for Priligy pills. Social healthcare is so fucking slow nowadays. Thanks Wallstreet.

 

[naturesucks]

All I'm hearing is excuses and insecurity, If you want to change something then take action and change it. Don't whine about what other guys can do, comparing yourself to them will do no good for you, Especially that by making that comparison you're stating that you already think that their better than you.

What the fuck do you think im trying bro?
And of course they are better than me, they can please a girl, I can't.
Admiting that reality doesn't mean im trying to change that.

 

[naturesucks]

I havnt been here long but sh*t man, your not helping improve yourself or any other Pre-e sufferer by posting a "he's tall and looks good" story. Sob stories and pitty me's help no one....Dont group everyone in the idea of "Well, they fucked a lot of hot girls on their prime and we didn't." Who's problem is that? Yours...so fix it. Everyone is here for a reason, to improve themselves, not complain about how tall and how long he can last... Im not very tall just south of 6'0 I dont have a "male model" figure as you stated, but that has never kept me from banging out 8's through 10's...your game is probably just wack

If your Pre-e is that big of an issue for you to not attempt to bang out chicks, then develop a routine...People like MinuteMan, IMac, and Pegasus, have all delt with this problem or like problems...I dont know any of them but I have learned a lot from all their trial and error's in fixing their issues...I give great thanks and praise to them all, because without their insight I would have nothing to go upon and would be stuck at square one. Im not trying to be a dick, but do something about it, if its affecting you so deeply.

Change your thinking, change your reasoning, change your life.

Im 5'9'', you are 6'0''. You shouldn't have height related problems.
I on the other hand can't pretend to step inside a club without wearing LiftKits.

LOL at game.

I've had enough routines and kegel exercises. That isn't the fucking be-all-end-all cure for PE. Just deal with it.

 

[Pegasus]

We can start a new thread re de on this forum it can have lessons for pre e and de sufferers.

 

[naturesucks]

So now its because you are not a tall good looking football player, get a grip man. i had many friends that were not into sprts that got laid. There are tall good looking football players that are intimidated and not getting laid just like "normal" guys.

Can't you read the part where I said "i am good looking myself and could have had girls if it wasn't for PE" part?

 

[naturesucks]

I almost cut and pasted your response...but I had to change a few thing!

As an DE sufferer......I envy all of you folks with permature ejaculation problems! I'm one of those who has to fuck for hours and still don't cum!


AND IT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with many in this thread...stop whinning and get to work!

That is what I'm trying to do...one of these days I'm going to cum within 30 minutes!

"Oh noo, I can fuck for hours and not cum, its so bad compared to being the laughin stock you are when you cum before the actual sex starts".

 

[naturesucks]

There are plenty of guys on here who have stable, healthy relationships or marriages, and their significant others are not cheating on them. Myself included.

"They fucked a lot of hot girls in their prime and we didn't"? Speak for yourself. I'm still in my prime, and regularly fucking a hot girl. If you can't get girls to sleep with you or stay with you despite your pre-e, then well...

If you are a premature ejaculator and If your girl is really hot (objectively hot, not "she likes me so she is automatically hot" hot), she is a ticking bomb waiting to happen.

 

[Pegasus]

You are doing your normal trick of taking positive help posts and attacking them. Look for the positive and you will find it, be mellow and take the positive you have been offered.

 

[zunamary]

U a miscer? Please go bro. And when I say bro, I mean you are a phaggot who won't improve.

People here are trying to help you and you attack all of them? GJDM.

 

[Toadstool]

U a miscer? Please go bro. And when I say bro, I mean you are a phaggot who won't improve.

People here are trying to help you and you attack all of them? GJDM.

I haven't read this whole thread, all I saw was the phaggot part. Regardless of why you did it, calling people names here doesn't help or build anything. It is infact detrimental to conversation, not to mention against the rules of the Gym.

 

[naturesucks]

You are doing your normal trick of taking positive help posts and attacking them. Look for the positive and you will find it, be mellow and take the positive you have been offered.

Im just giving my honest opinion on said advice.

 

[Pegasus]

If these posts represents the real you, then self improvement is even more important ,try harder.

 

[BigO]

Can't you read the part where I said "i am good looking myself and could have had girls if it wasn't for PE" part?

No wonder you dont get laid, I doubt any girl would put up with you. You have quoted everybody in this thread who didnt say what you wanna hear. You obviously lack social skills, You cry because you are 5'9" and you think that is your problem with the ladys. I am 5'8" and thats probably stretching it at 47 and I never had a problem hooking up because of that. Just keep on crying in a corner listeing to the better guys making the girls moan through the walls for the rest of your life, hell Knock on the door one day when they stop moaning and I will introduce myself. Youll know it is me, I will be the 5'8" guy who just got some!

Try not being so abrasive and you might actually like the remarks you get.