It's always funny to me how guys (and I assume it's the younger, less experienced) are hell bent on convincing themselves and everyone else that size is such a priority to women, despite what women say and what men (those of us who may be decades older with much more experience) report back with. Look, if women are pressed to answer the question, "ALL else being equal, what's the ideal size", they'll select from the larger end of the scale (though certainly not WAY beyond the mean). But it's still such a low priority for them. If you assume that the guy is right (personality, appearance, attentiveness, etc.) they're always gonna start with skill. I think that too many young guys probably just assume they have that part covered so move on. My guess is that 95% of guys do not. If you can be in the 5% group, only then should you even consider the other factors. From there, they will all tell you that firmness is crucial above all else. And then when it gets to size, girth matters more (FAR more) and length matters perhaps a bit. But, again, those don't even come close to the guy, himself, and his skill. It's just that so many guys don't realize they're in the 95% group so end up spending a bunch of energy on size. They're looking at it through their own lens and having a really hard time seeing that women don't have the same perspective, and working hard to convince themselves that they know the truth about it.
