What is the ideal penis size that most women prefer???

[RickBhmcsb]

@Physdoc...I would agree! Women seem to be more impressed with flaccid length, especially in a nudist setting where its easier to "observe".

 

[Pegasus]

Ok so I have noticed that some women are into flacid size but most don't seem to care in my experience ..

I have no experience re nudeism though .

Interested in members on this.

Anyway here is a link to a thread on flacid goals .
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/128114-flacid-goals.html?highlight=

 

[Pegasus]

When I started PE, I did some heavy research to determine average penis dimensions and "the women's ideal" dimensions, so I could chart my measurements and gains against an "average" and "ideal." I do medical research for a living, so have access to even the raw data (key to understanding the average) and method details from most published studies. As you could guess, there is alot of variation between different studies - not just measurements, but also study methodology. So, take averages with a grain of salt as variance of raw data can be high. I sifted through the data from what I considered credible studies and cleaned it up to come up with my own set of measurements for what women consider ideal. Here are the numbers I use - 6.9" BPEL and 5.1" EG, which has a volume of 234ml, depending on penis geometry. I did adjust the data best I could to account for the BP vs NBP issue. Don't ask me to cite all the studies, because I didn't keep a list - sorry.

One thing to keep in mind is that women, understandably, give a different answer when asked for ideal size for a regular partner and ideal size for a one-night stand/optimal orgasm. Most go for a significantly larger penis for a one-night stand, especially larger girth (over 5” EG). The average I stated is a blend of these sizes. There was a clear preference (far less data variance) for more girth as opposed to more length in both preference for regular and one-nighter sizes. I found in the data that if women had to choose between average length and big girth or longer length and average girth, they strongly tend toward taking the larger girth option. I also noted a clustering of women who liked a MUCH larger girth for optimal orgasm. But that cluster had a pretty clear “max” at approaching 6” EG.

Another thing to keep in mind when looking at studies is that both women and men are terrible at guessing length or girth sizes. When women are asked to just state a size preference, like in an online survey, they invariably state a much longer size (8” length preference came up in a recent study). BUT, in studies when women are actually allowed to see and hold a model of a penis (like a dildo), they invariably choose a much shorter model as ideal (6.5-7.0”) and often guess its length as much longer than it actually is. What is more consistent in both methods is the preference for girth over length. You can also find loads of posts by women saying how surprised they were when they measured their “hung” guy only to find out they weren’t anywhere near 8” after all.

Yeah so the girth is similar to the studies I have seen the length is defenitely more . Women are particularly hopeless at size .

A point here is most women never get to experience a guy who both has length and the ability to use it .

Im my experience about a third of women prefer length and 2 thirds girth . However experience of a guy who has length and the ability to use it (like me) can convert a lot of girls .

 

[Ultimate Burrito]

My experience with the ladies agrees with girth preference over length.

 

[Physdoc]

My experience with the ladies agrees with girth preference over length.

That's been my personal experience, too. I was in pretty long relationships with two women (at different times!) who both did not like long ones because it hurt their cervix, but they loved the girth because it "filled them up." In both cases, I was a little longer than the max they preferred, so I was careful not to push hard if I went deep, especially in cowgirl. But length does have its advantages in positions where you can't go all the way in and a couple inches isn't used.

 

[BigRooster]

I tried asking girls online what penis size they would prefer their ideal boyfriend had, but got very few honest responses. It looks like girls are terrible at imagining what for example a 17cm penis looks like. They also usually have no idea how big their previous sexual partners were in terms of centimeters, all they think in their head is - below average, average, above average. So it occurred to me that it makes much more sense to ask guys who slept with a lot of women what penis size is ideal. Everybody on this forum knows their exact size and also what the reactions were during sex so please, can you help me with this question of ideal size? Everybody seems to want a bigger dick but I am much more careful because I am already above average (16.7 cm or 6.6 inches) and don't want to overdo it. I want the girls that I'm having sex with to enjoy it and not be in pain because I am poking their cervix with a monster dick. How much more would you increase your size if you were in my place?

They prefer the one attached to the man that they attracted to. No matter your size and if you treat her right. Play your cards right and don't rush things. Take your time to make her feel appreciated and enjoy the time you two are spending together.

 

[JustALilMore]

Ideal flaccid would be a nice study. I know after a good pump session, I come out the tube with a FG of around 5.75-6 and FL of close to 7. THAT is very manly looking and would definitely get the ladies talking.

 

[Pegasus]

Ahem re guys commenting on length over girth.


A point here is most women never get to experience a guy who both has length and the ability to use it .

Im my experience about a third of women prefer length and 2 thirds girth . However experience of a guy who has length and the ability to use it (like me) can convert a lot of girls .

 

[Toky]

Ability to use it? Describe it more.

 

[Pegasus]

Skill.

 

[theGOAT]

7.5 x 5.5 up to 8 x 6.

You need skill like Pegasus said, or the size will be more of a hindrance

 

[Physdoc]

Yes, I definitely agree with Pegasus that skill is key, regardless of size. My comments were focused on the OP topic of size. And theGOAT is spot-on with big size being a hindrance if you don't use it right. I'm not long enough for my length to be an issue very often, but I've been girthy all my life and have learned to be careful especially if it's the first few times with a woman.

 

[Ultimate Burrito]

Usually when the ladies brag about feeling a good kind of sore it's from their pussy being stretched not their cervix being rammed.

I do think there is one more dynamic to speak of here, penis shape. I think it's easier for a woman to take an 8" cock with an upward curve than an 8" cock that's just straight. The upward curve allows the cock to slide upwards (or downwards depending on position) against the cervix and can be very pleasurable.

 

[Classic57]

I have a lady friend that I just asked this question, funny she repeated some of the things being said here.
She’s an older lady, we’ve had sex several times over the last year.
Her muffin is small , it took a few times before she took it all, but agreed she like a little pain when trying.
We openly talk about my PE and she is fascinated with it asking about it often.
We started talking about size and she told me the biggest she had ever had was with a guy that said he was 8 inches.
Then said there was no way he was because I was bigger? I’m 7.5+ x5.25 .
She ask how much longer I was going to keep gaining and I said maybe 8 and hopefully more girth , then she said so your gonna make it to big for me then ?
Then I asked, whats the perfect size for you ? Her response , I think if you were more like 7 x 5 it would be perfect for me,,
:faint:

 

[Physdoc]

Usually when the ladies brag about feeling a good kind of sore it's from their pussy being stretched not their cervix being rammed.

This made me think of something my gf said a while back. I had just started PE with an extender and we were talking about penis size. She said this guy she was with when she was younger was really long and not all that thick. She guessed he was an inch, or two, longer than me. But he had no skills and she said it "felt like being randomly poked hard with a broom stick." Cracked me up, but she was serious about it not feeling good. I suppose the same would be true for a really thick guy ramming it in without some prep making her feel like being split open with a dry fence post. Hurting a girl with an abrupt poke or stretch can make them feel a bad kind of sore (not the nice sore after great sex) immediately and until the next day, or longer - ruins everything.

 

[JustALilMore]

Yep. You can't just go in and start digging the girl out if you have too much length, but you do have the ability to put some pressure in the back of the vagina and hit other unreachable spots...which takes skill and knowledge and being observant of your partner.

 

[RickBhmcsb]

Yeah...Especially if its the first time with a new potential gf. You need to take it easy! Tease it. Go in gently, massaging it as you go until she's used to it. She needs a little time to make adjustments. If you're thick you need to take that into consideration as well! Length won't matter to her so long as you know how to use it.

Yep. You can't just go in and start digging the girl out if you have too much length, but you do have the ability to put some pressure in the back of the vagina and hit other unreachable spots...which takes skill and knowledge and being observant of your partner.

 

[softee]

I couldn't agree more with your "full package" comment. This OP was about penis size, but when you ask women about all of the factors that make a man a great lover, penis size is not at the top of the list, for sure.

They won’t admit that penis size is a higher priority because of people ridiculing them if the response isn’t the default “size doesn’t matter” hoax. In reality, penis size can be the deciding factor on whether or not the female chooses to continue having casual sex with you, or stays in a relationship. Height is an honorable mention as well.

 

[JustALilMore]

They won’t admit that penis size is a higher priority because of people ridiculing them if the response isn’t the default “size doesn’t matter” hoax. In reality, penis size can be the deciding factor on whether or not the female chooses to continue having casual sex with you, or stays in a relationship. Height is an honorable mention as well.

I feel that this is too much of a generalization. Penis size is a spectrum. I've heard several lady friends say that they've had great sex with an average size penis and terrible sex with too large or too small of a penis. To say that size is the determining factor pretty much removes the penis owner out of the equation.

Height makes it easier or harder to get in the door, but for just sex, especially the adventurous and open ones, they don't care.

 

[Ultimate Burrito]

Perhaps size is for the "wow factor" and "bragging rights" for the lady. If you think about it, when ladies talk about their sex life and their dudes to each other, the one with the most hung guy is probably gonna feel like the winner.

When it comes down to it though, for great sex size isn't really the issue in most instances.