Question for you men...

[akaTrex]

If I did that, she'd take me out back behind the wood shed and beat my ass...............who knows, that might actually be kinda fun.....in a kinky sort of way...lol

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[Dick Whammy]

How many of you get off not-so-easily from getting head?

My guy said he's only been sucked off twice. Damnit it to hell I am going to be number 3 if it freaking kills me.

My problem is he lasts FOREVER! While it's nice there's times he doesn't cum AT ALL. He will fuck for 1.5 hours with nothing then 15 min later we go at it again and he'll cum. We've talked about it and he says he understands my point of view. I said I love it, it's great, wonderful, etc... But then it sucks because I think what am I doing wrong. He said he's always been like that and never wants it to change. At 41 years old he's pretty damned lucky. Hell my ex had a hard time keeping a load for more than 5 minutes!


Any advice to get him off? My other thing is he's huge. I feel like I need to train for the damn oral Olympics here!

The only way I can get him all the way in (my mouth) is when we're doing 69 and he's on top.

Does he "try" to contribute in the act? Or does he just wait for you to try to get him off? There is difference in the effort that he makes. Sometimes I just can't get off no matter what, that's when I gotta get creative,,,,,,Maybe I'll stroke while she licks or I'll just watch her expression or I'll touch to get myself super stimulated. If I'm stressed or tired,,,,it's like beating a dead horse, but I can still find a way to satisfy. Usually when my member isn't being as responsive as I would like, I'll take time to further please my wife,,,,,eat, play, vibrate etc. Like I said, you gotta be creative but not just out for your own feelings.

PS- as far as him being huge,,,,,,just remember the "Princess and the Pea" ;-)

 

[EL TAINO]

I like to make sex last all night if I can help it because I'm that attracted to my wife. But truthfully she knows me and what I like. She takes her time to be sexy. She showers and puts on all the Victoria Secret perfume, body butter, and lingerie. She keeps her appearance like the first time we met. We have been together for 5 years and one thing that hasn't changed is our love of pleasing one another. She knows I love oral, giving aswell as receiving. So to show her how she should take her time and want to do it. I lead by example, I sat her back against the wall with her legs parted. I kissed her lips, her neck, I took deep savoring inhales through my nose as the sweet smell of her warm,wet parted rose petals got me high as I have ever been with lust . My Dick swelled and hardened to the point where it felt as though it had its own heart. So filled with blood to its maximum! You could see my pulse in my Dick . My point being, my wife got incredibly turned on watching me become possessed by the smell of her pussy that after I licked and sucked her clit, lips and fat pad.....she became primal with me. I made her gu sh and squirt just from oral. After I did that she has progressively improved her oral skills, and it was always great. I just showed her how I wanted it to be done by verbal instructions or even by going down on her and sucking her clit and telling her that's what I want u to do to my head. She has watched some porn actresses that I thought had the perfect technique and practiced there technique untill she had it down packed. She can make me cum in 5-15 min. She has also learned how to delay my ejaculation by squeezing the base of my shaft when she has got me to the point of no return! Bottom line Ms. Squirts is PASSION!!! Want to suck it and make him cum like a lion wants the baby gazelle! He'll erupt in your face like Mount St. Helen!

 

[MySword]

I am in that number so... ummm yeah, that may have been YOUR problem but it's not something you can blanket statement and say that's the cause.

For me, no. When I masturbated, I didn't use a strong man grip, my stimulation was mental as well as sometimes pornographic (i didn't watch studio porn, i watched couples individual uploaded porn) so you get the same thing environment.

The reason i suffered from Delayed Ejaculation was NOT because I was "pummeling my dick while watching porn"... it was because I was worried a LOT about my partner's satisfaction and whether or not she was happy. if she wasn't happy I wasn't happy. If I'm not happy, I'm not comfortable and if I'm not comfortable, I'm likely not going to cum.

I would have let it go, but you lumped me in there with your own experiences and mine were completely the opposite.

This describes my situation also. I haven't watched lots of porn for years (i haven't looked at any pornographic material for a month for example....no need to) and I don't use a death grip. But I am very aware of my partner's experience and if she doesn't seem to be enjoying it than i am not enjoying it. It starts with the very beginning of the process...if she pursues me then I will feel an ego boost and will need to exercise control just to last more than 10 min. But if she just does it to keep me happy than sometimes I can't get in the mood and it takes far longer (or not at all if oral).