Question for you men...

[TPW]

Hey SheSkirts,

A common mistake that women make is to rush into giving fellatio without the proper foreplay

I honestly though Bj's were foreplay? what is foreplay then? x

A blowjob can be either foreplay or an end in itself - but just like most women prefer/need a little erotic play before oral sex so do many men.

Whether the man receives a little visual stimulation - a strip tease or lap dance from his lover, an erotic massage, nipping, kissing and caressing his other "hot spots" - ears, nipples, lower belly, inner thighs, etc., a little rough play or playful restraint - any of these can be highly arousing for men and are considered foreplay. Feel free to check out http://wp.me/p31Ekg-11g or http://wp.me/p31Ekg-vd on my blog for further information about foreplay for men.

 

[NCGUY1972]

between your avatar and writing im all worked up and the wife is gone! :-( lol

 

[MrsLooking4more]

Thanks for the thread SS, the responses have given me many new pointers to try out. I am orally obsessed and he doesn't mind my obsession. Carry on gentlemen keep it coming.

 

[turtler]

As others have noted, getting head is damn good but not necessarily the right stimulation for climax. Maybe if you lie beside him so that he can touch your skin and feel the rhythm of your body at the same time, it might improve his arousement? The downside of this is that you won't get much eye contact, and it might not add much if he's much taller than you.

Unfortunately I don't have a willing test subject to try this out myself atm, but since you asked for more ideas i'd thought i'd insert my 2 cents.

 

[camaro]

Thanks for the thread SS, the responses have given me many new pointers to try out. I am orally obsessed and he don' mid my obsession. Carry on gentlemen keep it coming.

AAAHHH....to have a wife like you....

 

[TPW]

between your avatar and writing im all worked up and the wife is gone! :-( lol

My apologies 2009vettez51...I'll try and tone it down

 

[someone_like_u]

Thanks for the thread SS, the responses have given me many new pointers to try out. I am orally obsessed and he doesn't mind my obsession. Carry on gentlemen keep it coming.

Ahh, if only my husband were at home Def. taking a mental note of new pointers ML4M

 

[camaro]

I will sign my wife up for a " Husband Pleasing Course " with you ladies.

 

[pawpaw6060]

my wife as she is sucking my penis is using her tongue to constantly lick the back side of the head where all the nerve endings are and she is very good at making me cum whether she is sucking it stroking it or riding it she enjoys it as much as I do

 

[anonymity]

between your avatar and writing im all worked up and the wife is gone! :-( lol

eeeeeeeeeeeasy boy! save it for her homecoming.

 

[anonymity]

Holy crap, I read all the replies to SS. I cannot believe how many of you "guys" have trouble cumming. WTF? That ain't normal! Porn, jerkin, and/or circumcision must be rampant out there. I feel sorry for a lot of your guy's women. Poor things, trying to hard to please you, and you can't even get off.

FYI, I'm 44 and suffered with ED and DE for nearly 10+ years. I know what I'm talking about. Once I corrected the cause of my problem (porn and circumcision) my dick is acting like a worked-up 18 year-old guy once again. Do you and your girl a favor - stop numbing your prick already!

Amen Baby.

 

[MrBigDick]

my wife as she is sucking my penis is using her tongue to constantly lick the back side of the head where all the nerve endings are and she is very good at making me cum whether she is sucking it stroking it or riding it she enjoys it as much as I do

sh*t, just watching my gf suck my cock is an erotic show all in itself................she LOVES sucking my dick so when she does it, she goes full throttle and doesn't hold back.........deep throats it, sucks the tip, kisses up and down the shaft and kisses and sucks on my balls................and when I cum, I freaking CUM it's that intense and good.....

 

[TPW]

sh*t, just watching my gf suck my cock is an erotic show all in itself................she LOVES sucking my dick so when she does it, she goes full throttle and doesn't hold back.........deep throats it, sucks the tip, kisses up and down the shaft and kisses and sucks on my balls................and when I cum, I freaking CUM it's that intense and good.....

LMAO...Don't hold back MrBigDick...tell us what it's really like when your girlfriend worships your penis.

 

[akaTrex]

sh*t, just watching my gf suck my cock is an erotic show all in itself................she LOVES sucking my dick so when she does it, she goes full throttle and doesn't hold back.........deep throats it, sucks the tip, kisses up and down the shaft and kisses and sucks on my balls................and when I cum, I freaking CUM it's that intense and good.....

Instructional Video in the Works?

 

[MrBigDick]

Instructional Video in the Works?

If I did that, she'd take me out back behind the wood shed and beat my ass...............who knows, that might actually be kinda fun.....in a kinky sort of way...lol

 

[MrBigDick]

LMAO...Don't hold back MrBigDick...tell us what it's really like when your girlfriend worships your penis.

LOL........suffice to say, I'm one VERY.........VERY lucky man............the woman has skills.....:becky:

 

[NCGUY1972]

my wife does it just about every week but not enthusiastically. I can tell the 5-10 times a year when she is doing it because she wants to then it is really good. Good thing is its never bad just not as good as it could be. She knows I like her to be between my legs but if she is just doing it for me she will do it from the side and lean into my hip with an elbow that totally distracts sometimes from the good feelings! She knows exactly how I want it and I get it like that only when she is in the mood.

 

[anonymity]

Everytime I think I found one of these she changes on me. What worked last night may not work again for 2 months with my wife??? damn women I wish she just had an instruction manual sometimes.

You do sweetie, it's us. We're talkin movin targets.

 

[TPW]

my wife does it just about every week but not enthusiastically. I can tell the 5-10 times a year when she is doing it because she wants to then it is really good. Good thing is its never bad just not as good as it could be. She knows I like her to be between my legs but if she is just doing it for me she will do it from the side and lean into my hip with an elbow that totally distracts sometimes from the good feelings! She knows exactly how I want it and I get it like that only when she is in the mood.

Hey Fella,

May I offer a few suggestions from my blog that may not only help you in this situation but your lovely wife as well?

http://www.thepassionatewife.com/2013/06/10/a-womans-guide-to-penis-worship/

http://www.thepassionatewife.com/2013/08/06/candy-coated-oral-sex-for-him/

http://www.thepassionatewife.com/20...she-enjoys-blowjobs-almost-as-much-as-you-do/

http://www.thepassionatewife.com/2013/03/26/fruit-roll-ups-for-his-pleasure/

 

[somebodyelse]

Holy crap, I read all the replies to SS. I cannot believe how many of you "guys" have trouble cumming. WTF? That ain't normal! Porn, jerkin, and/or circumcision must be rampant out there. I feel sorry for a lot of your guy's women. Poor things, trying to hard to please you, and you can't even get off.

FYI, I'm 44 and suffered with ED and DE for nearly 10+ years. I know what I'm talking about. Once I corrected the cause of my problem (porn and circumcision) my dick is acting like a worked-up 18 year-old guy once again. Do you and your girl a favor - stop numbing your prick already!

I am in that number so... ummm yeah, that may have been YOUR problem but it's not something you can blanket statement and say that's the cause.

For me, no. When I masturbated, I didn't use a strong man grip, my stimulation was mental as well as sometimes pornographic (i didn't watch studio porn, i watched couples individual uploaded porn) so you get the same thing environment.

The reason i suffered from Delayed Ejaculation was NOT because I was "pummeling my dick while watching porn"... it was because I was worried a LOT about my partner's satisfaction and whether or not she was happy. if she wasn't happy I wasn't happy. If I'm not happy, I'm not comfortable and if I'm not comfortable, I'm likely not going to cum.

I would have let it go, but you lumped me in there with your own experiences and mine were completely the opposite.