Let's beat the dead horse more: Some women DO care

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Hey Persevere,

There is, without a doubt, a great number of women that do place it as a priority, and thats fine, everyone has a personal preference, some may be agressive about it, but thats just the nature of the beast. The question is though, are you doing this for yourself and your own personal accomplishment, or the 1/3 of women in that study? Some food for thought :)
 
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I'm guessing there's also a difference between the number of women who *say* that it's important when asked out of context and the number of women who *actually* care that much when they're about to get some.
 

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Some do care, I will not deny that. It is sad because it doesn't need to be an issue. I was with a 4 incher and he was the #1 best sex partner and held that title for 15 years.
 

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Some do care, I will not deny that. It is sad because it doesn't need to be an issue. I was with a 4 incher and he was the #1 best sex partner and held that title for 15 years.

What's his secrets? ;p
 

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I've gotten used to the fact that the whole penis size thing is a MUCH bigger deal to men than to women. Penis size is so far down the list of what is important to me in a sex partner that it is hardly relevant..... but men never believe that.
Oh well.
 
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On the topic, I think there is nothing wrong with that.

Men have preferences on breast size all the time, and nobody makes a big deal about that. (I am not saying this is right)

I guess what I am trying to say is a man who judge women on their boob has no right to criticize woman who judges man on penis size.
 

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On the topic, I think there is nothing wrong with that.

Men have preferences on breast size all the time, and nobody makes a big deal about that. (I am not saying this is right)

I guess what I am trying to say is a man who judge women on their boob has no right to criticize woman who judges man on penis size.

Possibly speaking for myself here, but as a man anything I might say about breast size is pretty much all bravado and pub-speak. When it actually comes down to bumping uglies, it really doesn't matter in the slightest. If they're small, it means a titwank's out of the question, but oh well, every girl's different in one way or another and there are so many other things you can do.
 

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I'd venture to say that overall, other attributes are much more important to women, yet we men beat ourselves senseless over size.

We usually make it a much larger issue than it really is!

To be honest, I wouldn't want to be with someone longterm who's #1 priority was penis size, just as a women should not want to be with a man who's #1 priority was breast size. Yes, you need to be attracted to one another, but a main reason has to be chemistry and real love for each other, as mushy as that sounds.
 
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On the topic, I think there is nothing wrong with that.

Men have preferences on breast size all the time, and nobody makes a big deal about that. (I am not saying this is right)

I guess what I am trying to say is a man who judge women on their boob has no right to criticize woman who judges man on penis size.

Never thought about that before.

What made my past lover so good in bed was his ability to make love. I never felt closer to a person in my life before or after. That is what got me off my pain of my real mother and being adopted. I yearned for my bio mom to feel close and connected. Once I felt that with him, I knew I had reached the ultimate and my bio mom would not be any stronger. And people say make love, but it isn't all the same.
 

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I like all women of every creed. Huge boobs, no boobs, some boobs... I feel better with no boobs/some boobs though. Huge boobs must get horrible backache. Gotta train those pecs!

Penis size is a bonus. 8x6 is probably more fun than a 5x5. But the guy who can use the 5x5 is better than an 8x6 who tries to screw it in like a lightbulb. That and... it's mostly an emotional game for women. Way too small, talking micropenis, or below 4" here, makes normal lovemaking trickier.

But hey, smaller you are, the easier it is to get some bum fun! Girl see small penis, go "awww, cute...", you go "up the butt?", and she like "aw, go on then". I have to go through a process of teasing, broadening her sexual horizons, fingering her butt, until a final cumulation a few days later with "buy an enema or two on your way here." It's tricky stuff, haha.
 

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"To address these questions, 375 sexually active women who had recently given birth at the University Hospital Groningen were asked a number of questions about sexual functioning and the importance they attach to the size of their partner’s penis."

Seriously, if you've just given birth, I don't think size of the penis is as important as before. They will just be happy that healthy sperm came out that made them a child. But everything on ScienceDirect is research of decent quality, that's for sure.
 

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Summed it up in one ! This subject has been used and abused too many times. I just wish that people who wanted to talk about it would use some initiative and post on the original threads instead of making sequel to the most talked about topic in the ehancement community. The solution is simple for those insecure guys out there ... avoid the women that put penis size at top of the criteria list.
 

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I kind of agree with Viper. I used to be up in arms about women demanding big knobs but you know what- its up to them!

I know guys that have kicked women out their apartments after taking them home and removing their padded bra- saying "thats false advertising, beat it". That kind of behaviour is completely outrageous but with guys behaving like that, we can't be surprised if some women act similarly.

Then theres the fact that some of us prefer big tits, tight arse, whatever the preference may be. So if a women prefers a big dong, fair enough. As long as they're not bitches about it, i won't be ranting about it anymore.
 

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I prefer a woman who is pretty to look at (face), cares for me, cooks for me, cleans some laundry every once in a while, makes me laughs, can talk about subjects of interest, cheers me up when I having an off day,is just generally nice to be around. None of that has anything to do with her sex organs. Why would a woman feel any different about a guy? Any of you guys who marry a girl for sex are in for trouble!
 

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I kind of agree with Viper. I used to be up in arms about women demanding big knobs but you know what- its up to them!

I know guys that have kicked women out their apartments after taking them home and removing their padded bra- saying "thats false advertising, beat it". That kind of behaviour is completely outrageous but with guys behaving like that, we can't be surprised if some women act similarly.

Then theres the fact that some of us prefer big tits, tight arse, whatever the preference may be. So if a women prefers a big dong, fair enough. As long as they're not bitches about it, i won't be ranting about it anymore.

Thanks :) Yeah ... for every women out there probing our insecurities there will be a bloke doing the same to women. We just have to learn to deal with it and accept that everyone is entitled to their opinion and preference.
 

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I prefer a woman who is pretty to look at (face), cares for me, cooks for me, cleans some laundry every once in a while, makes me laughs, can talk about subjects of interest, cheers me up when I having an off day,is just generally nice to be around. None of that has anything to do with her sex organs. Why would a woman feel any different about a guy? Any of you guys who marry a girl for sex are in for trouble!

lol. you don't ask a lot cusp ;) I'm happy with a good personality (which obviously includes sexuality, not being mental etc). All the rest is negotiable.
 

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Well I was kind of describing the one I married. If she ever gets on here one day and reads this stuff I don't want to get my ass kicked in. Hey with some of the stuff I wrote on here over the years if she reads it I could be living with you!