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MrsLooking4more

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Also start writing a list of your likes and dislikes which will become hard-limits and/or soft-limits for when you go to the club or parties. Also consider that you might be a voyeur and not an exhibitionist and that might be the reason for your discomfort.
 

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Just got off of a "check-in" call with her. For her, it was new to have sex with me for the first time at a sex party. I acknowledged it was new for me, and two new things kind of doubled up on the awkwardness:
- It was my first time having sex at a sex party;
- It was my first time having sex with her.

AND she gave me the news that she will be moving to Switzerland in 4 weeks. I'm excited for her because it's what she's wanted and has been planning for, and I'm sad because we're just beginning to explore what our sexual chemistry is.

SO we're going to be meeting up next Tuesday. I'm going to be meeting her husband (yes she's married), he's going to be staying somewhere else, and I'm staying home with her that night so we have time to explore us two by ourselves. I'm glad we're on the same page, she's willing to see where this goes, and she may come back after being in Switzerland (she's going there for only 3 months, then exploring Europe for another 3 months or so).

I will definitely go to one of those parties again, the people there were a LOT more attractive than the other ones I've been to. I definitely like being there, and I'd like to explore what it is that I personally like to do at sex parties. I do know this much:
- I like seeing (and hearing, and smelling) everyone naked and having sex all over the place;
- I like servicing a woman, going down on her, tying her up, making her cum, while there are other people watching;
- I tend not to get an erection, though I enjoy the stimulation (stroking, sucking, etc).

I'll explore more and see what happens!