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You're not going to get better advice from a more qualified person than you just got right here.
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It is probably uncommon, but definitely not rare. I am 26 and still a virgin and I definitely understand the problems that you are having. I feel the same as you what with being afraid to talk to them and having no information on women at all besides knowing they exist. I also understand what it feels like to just look at porn because of these very reasons, thinking that you will not meet anyone and might as well look at porn.
I also don't understand when people say things like "just go out" or "talk to them", they may as well be speaking Japanese with a Scottish accent as it is such a foreign concept to me. For me I don't really talk to anyone and "going out" pretty much amounts to going to class, which I definitely don't talk to people there.
The thing is even if these concepts are incredibly hard for us to understand the reason that you always get such advice is that it has worked for people for decades and it is the only advice they can give because that is what they did and they clearly saw success with it. "Going out" is probably easier if you have hobbies that make you interact with people. My own hobbies are definitely not where one would normally meet women, but when I can do them it allows me to interact with people, if only a little bit.
I wish I had actual advice to give here as I am completely clueless when it comes to women. Hell, my only two relationships happened completely by chance. Just know that you are definitely not alone when it comes to where you are in life.
Did you trip and fall into 2 relationships? Chances are these people liked you, and you sucked the air out of them with your low sense of self-worth. BUCK UP, BRONCO. Use those two relationships as life lessons, and do things differently next time.
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Not exactly, but everything happens based on chance and luck and I so happened to chance into both of them.
While that isn't why those relationships ended I definitely did that quite often.
I don't want to be a bronco, they don't do very well if the recent Super Bowl is any indication.
I suppose that would work.
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The only way you're going to ditch the V card is to get out there, talk to women and go from there. You have to put yourself out there and play the game....
There is no advice there. Anyone could say that. That's like if a person asked what to do if his car broke down someone responded - I don't know how to fix it, but you better do it.
About the porn, of course I should watch it anymore.
Alright I'll be your huckelberry.
To show interest in women, compliment their clothes and accessories. "Hey, wow those shoes are awesome" or "I really dig those earings". You want to smile and be in a happy good humor mood. Look her straight in her eyes, and keep your shoulders squared on her. This posture shows direct interest. If the lady turns away or let's the conversation fade, then its time to move on to another lady. If she does keep the conversation going, then keep talking about her. If it seems that your time is short, then tell her you would like to get to know her better and would like to buy her a drink or diner. Every guy has been shot down, the pro's keep asking.
To show interest in women, compliment their clothes and accessories. "Hey, wow those shoes are awesome" or "I really dig those earings". You want to smile and be in a happy good humor mood. Look her straight in her eyes, and keep your shoulders squared on her. This posture shows direct interest. If the lady turns away or let's the conversation fade, then its time to move on to another lady. If she does keep the conversation going, then keep talking about her. If it seems that your time is short, then tell her you would like to get to know her better and would like to buy her a drink or diner. Every guy has been shot down, the pro's keep asking.
The point of asking for advice is to actually think about what we say and process it. Not disregard it because you think it wont work. Why ask if your going to try your hardest to tell us we are all wrong. Of course your not going to agree with everyones advice but bro you have rejected everyone. I feel like you just want to live in a melancholy world where you are the victim who was a too early bloomer.
Okay class this knucklehead doesn't want to listen. He has the answers to everything.Let him waste his life because that's what he wants to do. Let's all go do something productive like maybe someone make me some coffee and eggs!
OP is looking for step by step instructions. I.E. go paint the fence is not enough information to complete the task. He needs, get paint can and brush, get flat head screwdriver, pry open paint can by levering screwdriver in slot, dip brush in paint, rub brush on fence, repeat until paint covers the whole fence.
He knows what he is talking. Miyagi taught karate kid how to paint fences in similar manner.
Exactly. If someone does not know what a paint brush or a fence is can't understand what it means to paint a a fence.
How to approach a girl. You go up to her and say something. People still do approach others. I do.
Maybe focus on making a friend or two first. Take the pressure off. Get used to being around humans who are also female without worrying about sex and romance.
How do I know which woman I should compliment? Are there any signs of interest?
