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Ivor

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I've only just spotted this thread and have read about the first half of it, so sorry if I'm repeating what someone has already said. But I want to say something in response to the guys (and it's always guys) saying "I overheard these girls talking and they were going on about how great this guy's huge dick was/how pathetic this guy was because he didn't measure up", or whatever:

Do yourselves a favour and read the Wikipedia article on selection bias.

Of course the kind of girls who talk about dicks all the time are going to put an unusual amount of emphasis on dick size. Either they are genuine 'size queens' or, perhaps more likely, they want their friends and/or potential partners to think they are size queens. But they're the kind of girls who are going to happily chatting away about who they fucked last night over lunch in the office canteen. Of course they're going to boast. When was the last time you heard a guy boast about this girl he fucked with the tiniest tits you've ever seen?

And conversely, women who find an average-sized cock perfectly adequate as long as they guy it's attached to is attractive and knows what to do with it are less likely to be blathering about their sex lives to all and sundry. They're probably more mature and are probably having better sex, too.

[One other interesting point I think is worth mentioning here is the idea that "sluts" invariably love huge cocks, or that any woman who puts a premium on size must necessarily be a slut. This might be true in some women but I see no reason why a woman who likes to have a lot of different partners is going to consider a massive wang the be-all and end-all. And despite everything I've said in this post, my girlfriend actually is a self-described 'size queen', but has had penetrative sex with all of two guys, including me. She's also the last person who'd ever want to talk about her sex life in great detail - well, she's told me about things she'd got up to with guys before she met me, but she's only told me because we're obviously pretty intimate as it is. I can't imagine her banging on about it to her friends, is what I mean. But anyway, I was generalizing with that stuff about 'size queens' and there are always exceptions.]
 

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I wonder how much of it was her asking you about your size vs her seeing how well you can handle your sh*t. Maybe she was testing your confidence.

Ive gotten this question a couple of times in the past during highschool... my response both times was "its big enough". And that was the end of the conversation.

So Id say Toadstool is correct. I was always a shy person in HS when it came to girls (still am), and at the time I thought they were just teasing me, but now that I look back on it Id say they might have been testing me. Guess Ill never know but its an interesting thought.
 

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my girlfriend actually is a self-described 'size queen', but has had penetrative sex with all of two guys, including me.
Great post, except I am trying to understand what does this part mean? lol, sex with two guys at the same time or ....?
 

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Great post, except I am trying to understand what does this part mean? lol, sex with two guys at the same time or ....?

Don't be daft, I mean she'd only fucked one guy before she met me.

But she'd 'fooled around with' a few other guys without going as far as full sex. By the sound of it she's naturally just got lucky when it comes to size of partners, so I guess you could call her an accidental size queen, if that makes sense.
 

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IF you are worried about the guy she had before you, remember that if he was 'all that,' you'd be the guy she never had.

IF you think she'd enjoy sucking a monstrous cock, take a 16 ounce plastic soda bottle, turn it bottom-up, and try deep-throating it.

If you feel that your cock is too short, ask her if she ever fingered herself to orgasm, then measure her finger.

If you think that your girth is not enough, see above.

If cock size was more important than who's on the other end of it, big dildo makers would be filthy rich, and we'd all be lonely.

If you think that you're so insecure, maybe she might have hang-ups too (most women are more tight-lipped about it than men.)

If you are too focused on your penis when it comes to the total experience of sex, you might be neglecting other things like kissing, caressing etc.

MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL: If you ARE a dick, you may not get or keep her no matter what size your penis is, or what you can do with it.
 

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Don't be daft, I mean she'd only fucked one guy before she met me. But she'd 'fooled around with' a few other guys without going as far as full sex. By the sound of it she's naturally just got lucky when it comes to size of partners, so I guess you could call her an accidental size queen, if that makes sense.

Same way I feel. I am my wifes first boyfreind but she fooled around with a couple guys before me and just got lucky and found large penises. One was shorter but fatter the other was longer but thinner. To her my penis is average. Nothing I can do about it & she loves it. But I never had the satisfaction of her thinking it was above average that I had from girls before her. My wife never even commented on my penis until I asked like a dummy a few months ago. I wish I had left well enough alone.
 

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Don't be daft, I mean she'd only fucked one guy before she met me.

But she'd 'fooled around with' a few other guys without going as far as full sex. By the sound of it she's naturally just got lucky when it comes to size of partners, so I guess you could call her an accidental size queen, if that makes sense.


This is extreamely unlikely; we get posts like this with boring regularity. I used to work out the stats on the likelyhood if them being for real ; and it was commonly over a million to 1. Every second girl in the U.S. claims to have landed a million to one shot ;yeah right.
Actually it is a power control thing ,they are trying to make you feel insecure.
 

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Well Im not going to question her memory from when she was 17yo-18yo but she seems genuine when she talks about it. She didnt even try to go into measurements just said "I remember it looked like a can of coke and it really filled me up" the longer skinnier one she said really wasnt very good at all for her. Id like to think she was young and they were smaller than what she thinks but it really doesnt matter because its her memory and its in the past. Same time she says im the best ever and more than she could ever dream of as far as satisfaction goes and has nothing to do with my penis I assume because a penis is either adequate or not. She does smile and get wet from looking at it so I know she likes it. Even if she isnt in the mood if I pull it out she will be and thats a good feeling.
 

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This is extreamely unlikely; we get posts like this with boring regularity. I used to work out the stats on the likelyhood if them being for real ; and it was commonly over a million to 1. Every second girl in the U.S. claims to have landed a million to one shot ;yeah right.
Actually it is a power control thing ,they are trying to make you feel insecure.

So she's lying to me, is that what you're saying?

I never said every dick she'd come across was some 10" monster. We're probably talking three or four at most and she didn't measure each one, obviously - they just happened to be bigger than average. Which is not, when you get down to it, astronomically unlikely.

Somewhere out there is a girl who's seen the same number of cocks, all of which have been below average in size. It happens.
 

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Anyway, to say that just because something is unlikely, it can't possibly happen, is a basic logical fallacy. It's extremely unlikely that any given person will win the national lottery, but someone nonetheless wins the jackpot most weeks.
 

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I wonder if people realize that our memories are mostly reconstructed, and highly unstable, for the most part.
 

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It just seems odd to me that some people can't accept that a) big penises exist and b) a woman might, purely by chance, have encountered more than one of them before she met you.
 
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It just seems odd to me that some people can't accept that a) big penises exist and b) a woman might have encountered more than one of them before she met you.

These replies were fairly typical of the other 47,585,896 ,all claimed that their girl was the one that did beat the odds . I believe in maths, if a woman has had 6 dicks, that are 8 by 6 plus and she has had 600 lovers I don't find it hard to believe. If on the other hand she has had 6 and all were 8 by 6 plus ; no sorry, something wrong there.
 

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Statistically Pegasus is correct

Damn right and reapeatedly so ,but mostly I get the mone so deaf as those that will not hear. So power to you 2009v.
 

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Simply, women cannot judge spacial differences the way men can. This is known difference in the sexes from studies.

"Why are men able to read a map better than women? Because men are the only ones who can picture an inch as a mile." LOL
 
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Statistically Pegasus is correct

What the fuck is that meant to mean? "Statistically" the average family has 2.4 children - have you ever seen a family with exactly that number of children?

Just amazes that some guy on the internet knows more about my girlfriend's sexual history than I do. Or even than she does herself.
 

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And for the record, I said "three or four" not "six", and I certainly didn't say "8x6 plus". Pegasus, you're putting words in my mouth, give it a rest.

Edit: also, there's no reason to expect that the average size of cock the average woman has seen is the same as the average size of cock that the average man has. I wouldn't be at all surprised if there's a positive correlation between a guy's size and the number of partners he's had, which would skew women's experience of penises towards the larger end of the spectrum.
 
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There will always be exceptions. There are girls out there that have never had a penis over 5" And there are girls that have never had one under 7". Statistically I have the biggest dick in my neighborhood (25 houses) but that doesn't mean I dont have the smallest. For all I know everyone else here has 8.5x6.5's and the next neighborhood down the road has a bunch of 5x5's. Statistics just help in reasoning but thats it. Anything can happen.