If......

[TTBB]

IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

 

[amiok]

Ok. All I know is I have heard many, many girls saying they NEED a big dick. Or seen my friend who is reportedly packing heat getting girls even though he is as ugly as me.

I truly want to believe you, and not calling you a liar, but the girls I've been around are definitely size queens, or wannabes at least.

 

[Gyrta]

Well written TTBB.

Amiok, I thing that this is more regarding relationships. If it's a one night stand, then the penis size matters just a little more than in a relationship.

I guess.

 

[rockwell]

Ok. All I know is I have heard many, many girls saying they NEED a big dick. Or seen my friend who is reportedly packing heat getting girls even though he is as ugly as me.

I truly want to believe you, and not calling you a liar, but the girls I've been around are definitely size queens, or wannabes at least.

TTBB did such a good job here with this post. Amiok my friend, I would suggest doing what TTBB said and step up your standards and the people you place yourself around. Those types of women are a very small percentage of the female population and they're just immature little girls inside or cocky wannabe pornstars. Borth of which I and every other real man would NOT want to be remotely associated with.

Great post TTBB. Amiok, I doubt you're ugly. Gain a little more confidence in yourself my friend. Life is too short and there is too much to do than worry about those types of things.

 

[Pirate]

Three times in my life, I can remember hearing a woman talk about how large some past cock in her life was, and none said anything about it being great or even good. (One, in fact, said that the experience was so bad, it put her off sex for years after wards.)
To my knowledge, I have never met, let alone had sex with, a size queen.
Nice post, TTBB.

 

[Hanma]

I'm goign to post here what I've said earlier:

From my experience women are confused about what they want.
Their mood swings (caused by wither the "pill" or any other reason) changes their preferences in a man occasionally.

If they think they can fit a ... huge nuclear reactor mutated dick inside of them, let them find out the painful way. =/ Really, if the women are as narrow minded as that, they shouldn't be worth your time. =]

It's better to be a confident man and provide your woman security and love and make her feel desired, than to deny her satisfaction just because you're paranoid about your size. Hey, if you're amazing at foreplay then that should show her something about yourself, no?

The reason I am abstaining from sex is because I want to work on myself first and improve on my junior here so I don't have to worry about that silly stuff again.

 

[amiok]

TTBB did such a good job here with this post

I agree, and to clarify I did not mean to come off as a dick to her. I was just saying what I think.

 

[CUSP82]

Amiok it's about time you start thinking more of yourself and all your good points instead of focusing on the silly stuff.The probem is not with woman but what you think of yourself.

 

[amiok]

Amiok it's about time you start thinking more of yourself and all your good points instead of focusing on the silly stuff.The probem is not with woman but what you think of yourself.

Agree, I am messed up mentally. But, I've been used and abused for so long that it has made my automatic thoughts to be so negative.

 

[Hanma]

Agree, I am messed up mentally. But, I've been used and abused for so long that it has made my automatic thoughts to be so negative.

Same here.

 

[MrBigDick]

My lady tells me all the time how much she loves my big dick..............

 

[TTBB]

Amiok.. you have to make the choice to be more then what your past has been .. trust me when i say this .. i have never been with a man who hasn't been a complete cunt to me.. I had to step back and focus on breaking the cycle of abusive relationships.. took a break from men for a few years because. I was the common denominator .. I was the one who was choosing the men .. I had to learn to love myself or i would never find someone who loved me in a healthy way .. I never gave up on men .. it would have been too easy to throw all men in the same basket, to blame men as sex not as an individual but i know all men are not the same and i have some good guy friends who show me there is quality out there... if i had let my past corrupt my future i would be a very bitter jaded person now and my future would be doomed... It is easy to play the victim its harder to play be the victor but its not impossible.. i am in no way perfect but i know i deserve a lot more then what i was getting .. when i find what I deserve i will be the happiest woman on the planet because i have had to over come huge obstacles.. the biggest obstacle being myself.

 

[TTBB]

My lady tells me all the time how much she loves my big dick..............

You had to come and brag and defeat the purpose of this thread huh ..LMAO

 

[rockwell]

I agree, and to clarify I did not mean to come off as a dick to her. I was just saying what I think.

I don't think anyone thought you came off as a dick. I understand what you said and didn't take it that way. Guys we should all lighten up. Get rid of all the toxic people in your life, there are people in every city no matter where you live that could be the most supportive and cool of friends, or even the most chilled and attractive and down-to-earth of girls. You just have to develop yourself as a person before you go finding these other people that are well-developed, If you do that then you'll fit right in. I hope that made sense. Self-improvement and acceptance allows for better living.

 

[CUSP82]

Well what are you going to do about it? You've got about 3000 guys and a couple of girls on here that would be more than willing to listen and help.You have to make the first move.

 

[Batwoman]

IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

Wonderful post, TTBB.
I totally agree.
I am the same -- I have never chosen a man or left a man because of his penis size.
Sex and relationships and female choice are about so much very more than penis size!

 

[cameraobscura]

Yeah!

That's been my experience too, that women are not shallow, or all concerned about our body parts and measuring them down to the half inch. I've been with some wonderful, incredibly attractive and charismatic women, none of them seemed to really care about penis size, ever! They seemed to have plenty of fun with my average penis.

Unfortunately, I can't really blame my self-hate and insecurity on women, you with me Amiok?

Nice post TTBB and gang.

 

[bulldog28]

Just an example question...but lets say you have like 200 people...50 men, 150 women. A rumor gets started that man #35 happens to be very well endowed. Now, prior to this rumor man #35 only got to go on a few dates, but it was those few dates that started the rumor..lets say they are claiming he is 9 inches and thick.

In my opinion...man #35 I bet will start having his phone ring off the hook, even if he is ugly...simply because of curiosity.

Also, it seems like common knowledge girls Do talk about the size of their man's dick IF they are proud of it, and even if the guy who is 6" is the best lover in the world...if that particular girl he is banging is with a group of girls who are promoting their man's dick as 8-9" or hung like a horse, the woman who is with the 6" guy probably will laugh it off and not join in the conversation OR she will say her man is also 8" just to join the crowd.

My point being...women I believe will BRAG if their man is endowed AND a good lover (maybe just endowed only) assuming the group of girls are the type that share that kind of information.

An ex gf (was current gf at the time) once did this. She was talking to a mutual female friend, and for whatever reason dick size came up and the girl said something about me like "I bet he is avg size or something" and my gf (at the time) said "oh no.....he is huge".

Probably the only time in a non-private setting my size was "validated" as being large...though could have just been speaking highly of me instead of putting me down lol.

 

[amiok]

Amiok.. you have to make the choice to be more then what your past has been

You're 100% correct. I've got to figure out how to truly like myself. Again, I was never trying to be a dick if I happened to come off that way.

 

[Btufts]

Ttbb great post for one. As for myself I have great self confidence with my appearance but or developed that over the years of training, I
Also treat my gf with the utmost amount of respect and I love her dearly just as I did with my one ex who I was with for about 5 years. The only thing I wanted to get out of through pe was to have the biggest penis my current gf has ever had and have something to brag about if the subject came up. Maybe it's an ego thing but she was completely happy with my penis 1" ago and she likes it even more now. The only comment she has given me is that I have to stop at 9" or whenever it starts to hurt. Girls really do not want a monstrous dick inside of them guys, this is all in our own self conscious heads!