Hard Flaccid is not as bad as we make it seem

mikecares

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YES muscle tension. so whats your advice to people that pay no attention to there cock or do any PE but they develop have hard flaccid? they have emotional mental health issues so your advice over stop obsessing over your cock means fuck all to them. you seem to assume everyone with HF is obsessed with there penis or does PE.

I don't think everyone who gets Hf is obsessed with there cock. I never did jelqing or any pe. Sexuality is part of ones health, so when it happens, people freak out. I just don't think its as bad is people make it seem out to be. People can still have sex - it may not be what it used to be before, but people can still have sex with who they want and when they want. I had sex 5 times this week and my HF has been more or less the same.
 

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I don't think everyone who gets Hf is obsessed with there cock. I never did jelqing or any pe. Sexuality is part of ones health, so when it happens, people freak out. I just don't think its as bad is people make it seem out to be. People can still have sex - it may not be what it used to be before, but people can still have sex with who they want and when they want. I had sex 5 times this week and my HF has been more or less the same.
i wasnt talking to you...hense why i quoted the person i replied too,,,
 

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[QUOyouTE=HFrecovering;1115408]YES muscle tension. so whats your advice to people that pay no attention to there cock or do any PE but they develop have hard flaccid? they have emotional mental health issues so your advice over stop obsessing over your cock means fuck all to them. you seem to assume everyone with HF is obsessed with there penis or does PE.[/QUOTE]

Are you referring to yourself here?
People who have mental and emotional problems, either as a result of or from before hf have those problems regardless of
Hf is a turtled dick, it can cause massive performance anxiety.
Any other mental or emotional problems,
Sorry pal,, while everyone on this site means well im sure, advice is one thing, mental health guidance and councilling is another alltogether.
Im not sure the pegym is the place to treat mental health issues.
 

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Hey mike, I remember you said your injury was done by something like jelqing...

Sex and masturbation is not exercising your penis is just utilising it.
Jelqing sessions, no ejacculation, deep breathing, total relaxation are very different to sex.
Forget trying to make it bigger but it will definitely make you stronger and improve stamina....
If you do keep it mild...

Peace

Having sex for 30-45 minutes is definitely exercising your penis. People with prostate surgery use sex as a form of rehab along with penis pumps. Its a form of stress and if you do it consistently, your penis endurance will build up. My endurance basically came back near 100% after a few sessions this week after my 6 week layoff.

But either way...I tried to light massaging/jelqing a few weeks ago and it made my dick a lot worse (went severely hard flaccid). I did it for like only a minute and it was super light. Sex doesn't make it worse or better for the most part.

There is a slightly reduced function (sometimes it doesn't stay that hard when I'm standing and am inside the girl) and the glands don't always fill up but other then that its alright.
 
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I dont understand how you can hsve sex for 30-40 mins and your dicks fine but if you rub cream on it it turtles up...
But hey,, you are getting there so thats cool
 

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What is happening there differntly ?

How is your pelvic floor when sexually active and when else.?
 

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What dO u mean? I try to completely relax my pelvic floor during sex as much as I can. I do a lot of breathing and reverse kegals throughout the day. I spent 20-30 minutes stretching the lowrr body (I've always stretched anyways).

The only issues I have is lack of head inflation during erections and sometines the erection gets weaker when standing. Everyone with hf has this tho